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re: Need advice about a situation with my gf

Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:20 pm to
Posted by mostbesttigerfanever
TD platinum member suite in TS
Member since Jan 2010
5016 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:20 pm to
quote:

You think that guy couldn’t get a hotel or find a buddy to stay with? And she knows that and still wants him to stay.


This. Especially a “work” trip. Get a fricking hotel. They’re cheap af right now.

Or how about you offer her to stay at your place and he sleeps in her bed (wash those sheets) instead of the couch.

But he’s prolly gonna frick her
This post was edited on 8/2/20 at 12:01 pm
Posted by southside
SW of Monroe
Member since Aug 2018
642 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:22 pm to
This is awkward situation #1 of many that you will encounter since your gf gave it away often and still “talks” to the dudes.

Either she wants to clean up her act and get away from all that “past” or the streets still got her.
Posted by Jopete
New Iberia
Member since Apr 2019
373 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:22 pm to
can't wife a ho. run.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
65789 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:36 pm to
All I know is that if I reached out to a former sex buddy about being in town and could I stay over, and she said yes, I'd be expecting some tail again.


On a somewhat related note, years ago my now wife, while in college had a very sexually active roommate, and I was told a guy friend of the roommate needed a place to stay for a couple of days.
At first, I was very uncomfortable about this, then she told me not to worry, the guy is gay.
I didn't believe that until I went over to their place the first day he arrived and I could tell right away they were not lying about his gayness.

Posted by Bawcephus
Member since Jul 2018
2747 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:05 pm to
Two posts by OP.


FAKE.
This post was edited on 7/31/20 at 11:06 pm
Posted by lsuson
Metairie
Member since Oct 2013
13815 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:07 pm to
You’ve definitely come to the right place
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2229 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:14 pm to
Depends on the nature of your relationship and the kind of relationship you want. The fact that she is, it sounds like, out of college and has a roommate, and the fact that she is in contact with an old hookup and having him stay with her both are data points about her character. Is she immature or a party girl? Are you looking to settle down? I agree with the guy who said to calmly disapprove and be distant for a while. If you want a serious relationship and she asks why you are distant, tell her that these things make you question if she is ready for a serious relationship, or if she needs to get a few more years of hookups and partying out of her system.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:30 pm to
She's about to go to pound town.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
284934 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:44 pm to
Invite her to come stay with you while he’s there
Posted by ELVIS U
Member since Feb 2007
10895 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:54 pm to
Prepare thy cuckhole
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18196 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:00 am to
His work should pay for a hotel. Something is fishy here. He’s looking for some tail from her. Break this off while you can
Posted by FLObserver
Jacksonville
Member since Nov 2005
15196 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:11 am to
Lets just go ahead and jump ahead a few weeks from now. it will go a little something like this. Its not you its me.I didn't mean for it to happen. We should probably start seeing other people.
Posted by Ancient Astronaut
Member since May 2015
36223 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:18 am to
quote:

tells me that they did hook up several years back in college, but it was only once.


RUN. Trust me!
Posted by Crimson1st
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2010
20456 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:57 am to
quote:

frick her roommate.


Might as well...ol boy "friend" is gonna be railing both roomies as well.
Posted by ConservativeBamaFan
Tuscaloosa Alabama
Member since Nov 2013
1383 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:58 am to
As a general rule if a lady says we were together once in college the truth is the dude probably banged her several times. Know one is going to say hey BF I want to move a guy in I banged for 6 months in college. She down played the situation to make it sounds much better for herself.
Posted by BeepNode
Lafayette
Member since Feb 2014
10005 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 1:05 am to
Is there a 3rd bedroom? Will they split the bill 3 ways?

No pun intended.
Posted by BayouCatFan
Member since Jul 2008
4580 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 1:48 am to
quote:

My girlfriend




You may think she is your girlfriend OP, but clearly she probably thinks something different is going on. More than likely she is saying you two are just FWB, just hanging or just talking. If she was at all serious about you she wouldnt have agreed to let him stay.
This post was edited on 8/1/20 at 6:48 am
Posted by davyjones
NELA
Member since Feb 2019
33144 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:04 am to
Yeah, it clearly bothers you, else you'd not be thinking about this question much less presenting it to a message board. Cut your losses before it's too late. It's just unfortunately gotten off to a bad start....it's an omen.
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
68296 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:55 am to
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Put a camera in her room, Tell her to move in with you, and y’all watch him bang random girls together ?


I don’t think this is a good idea. I don’t want to watch what some dude actually did to my girl while she’s siting next to me.
Posted by DomincDecoco
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Member since Oct 2018
11469 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 3:18 am to
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