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re: Need advice about a situation with my gf
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:20 pm to craigbiggio
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:20 pm to craigbiggio
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You think that guy couldn’t get a hotel or find a buddy to stay with? And she knows that and still wants him to stay.
This. Especially a “work” trip. Get a fricking hotel. They’re cheap af right now.
Or how about you offer her to stay at your place and he sleeps in her bed (wash those sheets) instead of the couch.
But he’s prolly gonna frick her
This post was edited on 8/2/20 at 12:01 pm
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:22 pm to NolanCain
This is awkward situation #1 of many that you will encounter since your gf gave it away often and still “talks” to the dudes.
Either she wants to clean up her act and get away from all that “past” or the streets still got her.
Either she wants to clean up her act and get away from all that “past” or the streets still got her.
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:22 pm to tiggerthetooth
can't wife a ho. run.
Posted on 7/31/20 at 10:36 pm to NolanCain
All I know is that if I reached out to a former sex buddy about being in town and could I stay over, and she said yes, I'd be expecting some tail again.
On a somewhat related note, years ago my now wife, while in college had a very sexually active roommate, and I was told a guy friend of the roommate needed a place to stay for a couple of days.
At first, I was very uncomfortable about this, then she told me not to worry, the guy is gay.
I didn't believe that until I went over to their place the first day he arrived and I could tell right away they were not lying about his gayness.
On a somewhat related note, years ago my now wife, while in college had a very sexually active roommate, and I was told a guy friend of the roommate needed a place to stay for a couple of days.
At first, I was very uncomfortable about this, then she told me not to worry, the guy is gay.
I didn't believe that until I went over to their place the first day he arrived and I could tell right away they were not lying about his gayness.
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:05 pm to NolanCain
Two posts by OP.
FAKE.
FAKE.
This post was edited on 7/31/20 at 11:06 pm
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:07 pm to Breesus
You’ve definitely come to the right place
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:14 pm to NolanCain
Depends on the nature of your relationship and the kind of relationship you want. The fact that she is, it sounds like, out of college and has a roommate, and the fact that she is in contact with an old hookup and having him stay with her both are data points about her character. Is she immature or a party girl? Are you looking to settle down? I agree with the guy who said to calmly disapprove and be distant for a while. If you want a serious relationship and she asks why you are distant, tell her that these things make you question if she is ready for a serious relationship, or if she needs to get a few more years of hookups and partying out of her system.
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:30 pm to NolanCain
She's about to go to pound town.
Posted on 7/31/20 at 11:44 pm to NolanCain
Invite her to come stay with you while he’s there 

Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:00 am to NolanCain
His work should pay for a hotel. Something is fishy here. He’s looking for some tail from her. Break this off while you can
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:11 am to NolanCain
Lets just go ahead and jump ahead a few weeks from now. it will go a little something like this. Its not you its me.I didn't mean for it to happen. We should probably start seeing other people.
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:18 am to NolanCain
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tells me that they did hook up several years back in college, but it was only once.
RUN. Trust me!
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:57 am to GEAUXLPOST
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frick her roommate.
Might as well...ol boy "friend" is gonna be railing both roomies as well.
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:58 am to NolanCain
As a general rule if a lady says we were together once in college the truth is the dude probably banged her several times. Know one is going to say hey BF I want to move a guy in I banged for 6 months in college. She down played the situation to make it sounds much better for herself.
Posted on 8/1/20 at 1:05 am to NolanCain
Is there a 3rd bedroom? Will they split the bill 3 ways?
No pun intended.
No pun intended.
Posted on 8/1/20 at 1:48 am to BeepNode
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My girlfriend
You may think she is your girlfriend OP, but clearly she probably thinks something different is going on. More than likely she is saying you two are just FWB, just hanging or just talking. If she was at all serious about you she wouldnt have agreed to let him stay.
This post was edited on 8/1/20 at 6:48 am
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:04 am to NolanCain
Yeah, it clearly bothers you, else you'd not be thinking about this question much less presenting it to a message board. Cut your losses before it's too late. It's just unfortunately gotten off to a bad start....it's an omen.
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:55 am to djangochained
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Put a camera in her room, Tell her to move in with you, and y’all watch him bang random girls together ?
I don’t think this is a good idea. I don’t want to watch what some dude actually did to my girl while she’s siting next to me.
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