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re: Need advice about a situation with my gf

Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:32 pm to
Posted by tigerintexas777
the lake
Member since Sep 2013
1312 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:32 pm to
That’s a red flag, wish you knew who reached out to who about staying first. And if they are comfortable living in the same apartment then they obviously are friendly and have been talking, texting, messaging. Honestly I wouldn’t be ok with it, considering the past sex. Regardless it could be innocent - but that’s no respect for you. It’s 2020 and girls think they can get away with bullshite. If she’s special and you care about her, tell her how you feel and you’d rather him not stay there. And if she gets mad or fights you about it, then she doesn’t respect you ultimately no matter what she says. Best just cut the loss man. Too many women in the see to put up with that.










Alternative.... tell her “ok well actually this girl so and so... will be staying with me for a few months... or minutes... or whatever... we don’t have a sexual history, but we about to”

Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
21688 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:34 pm to
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been together for a few months

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she told me that an old friend from college is going to be staying with her and her roommate at their place for the next few months

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they did hook up several years back in college

She is gonna frick him.

You've been dating for a few months. This seems like a no brainer. Cut bait man.
Posted by bbeck
Member since Dec 2011
15077 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:34 pm to
Ask her how she’d feel if you had an old hookup stay at your place for a week and there’s your answer
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:34 pm to
Put a camera in her room, Tell her to move in with you, and y’all watch him bang random girls together ?
Posted by JackieTreehorn
Malibu
Member since Sep 2013
32726 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:35 pm to
My baw, give her an ultimatum. You or him.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
40506 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:36 pm to
Don’t sweat it. No matter what you do she’s gonna frick this guy. May as well play it cool.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8701 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:37 pm to
She’ll definitely get drunk and frick him. Run baw or lay down the law.
Posted by GeauxLSUGeaux
1 room down from Erin Andrews
Member since May 2004
24402 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:38 pm to
Just be glad you’ve only been with her for a few months. Time to throw this one back
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67899 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:38 pm to
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That’s a red flag


The dude says they’ve been dating a few months.

She probably doesn’t even view him as a boyfriend and if he pushes the issues she’ll dump him.

Get ahead of the game and dump her first
Posted by Philzilla2k
Member since Oct 2017
11519 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:38 pm to
A few months? You can't do shite. So just relax and let whatever is going to happen, happen.
Posted by jamboybarry
Member since Feb 2011
33038 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:38 pm to
She’s already fricked this dude recently and cuck OP doesn’t even know it

Sad
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
67879 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:39 pm to
Don’t be jealous. That’s what she wants. Tell her you don’t give a frick but then just make it a bitch for her to find you. Make her imagination run wild.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8701 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:40 pm to
How much you love this girl baw? You could go all in and just knock her up! Go big or go home bruh
Posted by Tiger in Gatorland
Moonshine Holler
Member since Sep 2006
9469 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:41 pm to
What's your gut tell you? You know your gf better than anyone on this board. How quickly did y'all bang when you first met -- just trying to gauge the slut level of your gf. Does she drink and have lower inhibitions often? Use drugs?
What are the sleeping arrangements?
Do you have a relationship where you call/text before going over, or just show up?
Do you live with anyone? If not, invite her to stay with you for the time; or tell her let the dude stay with you while he works in the area.
So much here the board doesn't know so not sure how we can give good advice. Spill more details.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
37618 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:41 pm to
1/10
Posted by AUriptide
Member since Aug 2009
7446 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:42 pm to
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. I wish this was a troll


It is.
Posted by Gator5220
Member since Aug 2010
4382 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:43 pm to
Doesn’t matter if they knock boots. You’ve already pictured it in your mind.

Your mind!
Posted by CBandits82
Lurker since May 2008
Member since May 2012
56936 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:44 pm to
How big are the titties?
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27684 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:45 pm to
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My girlfriend (no pics) and I have been together for a few months and today she told me that an old friend from college is going to be staying with her and her roommate at their place for the next few months because he’s going to be in town for work. I was a little taken aback at first, but then when I asked her more about this guy, she tells me that they did hook up several years back in college, but it was only once. I feel very uncomfortable about the entire situation and I want to know what y’all think I should do or what would be the best way to handle this. I wish this was a troll


Enjoy being single again!
Posted by magildachunks
Member since Oct 2006
34142 posts
Posted on 7/31/20 at 7:46 pm to
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NolanCain




How insecure are you soyboy?
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