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Need Advice - Is my friend gay?

Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:49 am
Posted by TheOrgeronTrail
St. George - God's Country
Member since Aug 2019
166 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:49 am
Long-time lurker, first time poster. My “friend” has a problem that I believe only the OT can solve.

My “friend” is a socially awkward individual, with a possible case of mild Asperger’s. He does bad in group situations, stutters, and can’t talk to girls. For the past 4 years, he has been chatting with a girl online whom he refers to as his girlfriend. Me and the boys have been giving him shite for years for it and basically been telling him this girl isn’t real, you’re an idiot, etc. Fast forward to a couple of weeks ago, it comes to the light that his girlfriend is actually a dude and he has been catfishing him all this time. To make matters worse, my “friend” still has feelings for this individual. He claims that he is in love with the being, not the person, they talked all the time, she was such a big part of his life, blah, blah, blah. Worst of all, he claims he can still have a relationship with this dude, if its online only, and he wants to meet with this dude in person and sort out his feelings with him. I have told him that it is a terrible idea and that he should fight the guy based off principle. All our friends agree on that.

So what says the OT? Should my friend meet with this guy? If he has feelings for this guy, does that make him gay, even though he was catfished and thought it was a girl? What do you think he should do?

TL;DR – weirdo friend got catfished by a guy pretending to be a girl and now he possibly wants to be with him, definitely wants to meet with him.
Posted by iliveinabox
in a box
Member since Aug 2011
24146 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:50 am to
Yes, you're.
Posted by Kcprogguitar
Kansas City
Member since Oct 2014
944 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:50 am to
Shiny hook is shiny.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:50 am to
So what if he is?
Posted by FatMan
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2016
2073 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:50 am to
I think you might be gay...
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
23196 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:50 am to
Yeah, he's gay.

Eta: and you probably are too.
This post was edited on 3/20/20 at 8:51 am
Posted by Charm299
Member since Aug 2017
787 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:51 am to
Didn’t read that but if you have to ask then.......
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
4194 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:51 am to
The online sexting must have been pretty awesome for him to want to meet him IRL
Posted by SwampBandit
Livonia, La
Member since Jun 2016
3861 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:52 am to


He may not be gay but seems as if he will hold one in his mouth till the swelling goes down.
This post was edited on 3/20/20 at 8:54 am
Posted by Master of Sinanju
Member since Feb 2012
12229 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:53 am to
4 years? Who's more pathetic, the catfisher or the catfishee?
Posted by The Cow Goes Moo Moo
Bucktown
Member since Nov 2012
4398 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:54 am to
Suck the guys dick and see if you enjoy it
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37483 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:54 am to
I laughed.

I know a guy who I went to high with that would put himself in a situation like this. I had to convince him not to have sex with this fat chick who had herpes and a kid when we were like 20 (he was a virgin and hadn't had a girlfriend yet at that point).
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
53660 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:54 am to
This is about OweO?
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151590 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:55 am to
Ask him if he will 69 with you and after you two blow loads down each other’s dick suckers, then you’ll know the answer.
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
21818 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:56 am to
4 YEARS?
He/You should start stretching for this marathon now

Posted by AHM21
Member since Feb 2008
32623 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:56 am to
quote:

So what if he is?



OP looking to suck his dick.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
51630 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:58 am to
The OT is off to a fantastic start today. Bravo!!
Posted by SwampBandit
Livonia, La
Member since Jun 2016
3861 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:58 am to
quote:

Suck the guys dick and see if you enjoy it
Posted by lshuge
Member since Sep 2017
989 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:58 am to
you sound pretty gay to me
Posted by TheOrgeronTrail
St. George - God's Country
Member since Aug 2019
166 posts
Posted on 3/20/20 at 8:58 am to
To make matters worse, one of the girls online photos was a Getty stock image.

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