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re: My wife and I both work from home. Why won't she shut up?

Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:00 pm to
Posted by andouille
A table near a waiter.
Member since Dec 2004
10706 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:00 pm to
I have an answer for you. As long as my wife is in a conscious state, she will be talking, she taught for many years which exacerbated the problem, teachers, especially elementary, are paid to talk all day, now the faucet cannot be stopped, or can it?

My wife doesn't understand the simplest technology, so I introduced her to books on tape years ago. We have moved from that to downloading free from the library. I showed her how to use a bluetooth headset.

Now she walks around all day, as silent as a ghost, listening to books, hell, if I want to talk to her I have to text or call her to get her attention.

Now your wife may not like books, but she will like music or something to keep her addled mind distracted and her mouth silent.
This post was edited on 7/2/21 at 12:03 pm
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:00 pm to
Yeah definite double standard.
Posted by SouthernStyled
Member since Apr 2021
1307 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:01 pm to
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How do I tell her to shut the frick up?


I don't know, but record and post video when you try.
Posted by Kvothe
Member since Sep 2016
2018 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:05 pm to
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Yeah definite double standard.


It is unbelievable.

I recently figured out she has my number on silent for texts/calls so I don't interrupt her work day. As soon as I figured this out, she went on my do not disturb list. It's been glorious and she hasn't figured out how to bitch about it yet bc she did it to me first.

Anyone care to bet how long it will take for her to just get mad about it anyway?
Posted by Shanegolang
Denham Springs, La
Member since Sep 2015
3453 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:08 pm to
I'm guessing shes a woman.........you're welcome.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54511 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:08 pm to
Her "to do" list becomes mine and now my "to do" list is backed up. Thankfully at my job I get alot of time off during the week and she works strictly 9-5 and five days a week so MY time is returning soon. I keep a schedule when I am off: working out, walking dogs on a schedule, yard work, etc. Let's just say this has gone to shite the last 3 weeks. The day starts off "You want to go do ______?" after we just did something yesterday.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
146771 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:13 pm to
I have the opposite problem.
Posted by BottomlandBrew
Member since Aug 2010
27097 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:21 pm to
Headphones. Big, bulky headphones. Play some white or brown noise and just ignore her.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:45 pm to
I dont know how many people know this about me, but I write and record music. I have a studio in my house and when I'm inspired, I need to either be on my own to think or with people who are working on the same exact thing with me.

Its almost inevitable, that when I'm most inspired and in the mood to play, record, mix, edit, set up, etc..that I will need to help with some random heavy chore or get a phone call from someone, etc.

First world problems..I really can't complain, but Ill find ways to do it anyways.
Posted by mytigger
Member since Jan 2008
14849 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:48 pm to
I shared this with my wife.

She said you are a fricker.
Posted by Iron Lion
Sipsey
Member since Nov 2014
11812 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 12:49 pm to
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I have the opposite problem.
Does your husband never shut up?
Posted by pcolatiger28
Pensacola, Fl
Member since Apr 2009
1284 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:04 pm to
I experience this on almost a daily basis as we both work from home. I’m pretty sure I piss her off just about every work day as I dismiss her incessant chatter and meaningless distractions.

It sounds harsh but I’ve had several conversations with her regarding the stress and concentration needed to do my job at a high level. Knowing this, she still gets butt hurt when I shut down the bullshite small talk.

As Wheeler Walker Jr said, “I don’t want no conversation give me that poon, I don’t care about your situation give me that poon, I don’t need no small talk bullsh!t, girl you know I need to have it, give me that poon give me that poon give me that poon”
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
64058 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 1:07 pm to
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How do I tell her to shut the frick up?

If you want to stay married, you don't
quote:

It's incessant, annoying, interrupts my work and more importantly, the few minutes I have to spare to jump onto TD.

You're right there. But it's a losing battle
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If I say I'm in the middle of something and can't talk, she gets pissy then uses it as an excuse to be in a bad mood.

So you already know you're fricked. You just have to come to terms with the fact it won't change.
Posted by HubbaBubba
F_uck Joe Biden, TX
Member since Oct 2010
45760 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 4:58 pm to
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Now, let me ask. When she is actually working is it the end of the world if you need something and try to talk to her? My so absolutely explodes on me when I do it to her, but god forbid if I don't drop everything on a dime for her when I'm busy and she doesnt get the attention she thinks she desrves
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136811 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 4:59 pm to
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HubbaBubba


Guys like you make it so easy for me to get the best out of married women
Posted by Finch
Member since Jun 2015
3152 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 5:07 pm to
She’s trying aggravate you until you start going back into the office so she can get back to turning tricks in the gas station parking lot

You should definitely put a tracker on her car
Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
25315 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 5:09 pm to
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Why do women feel this compulsive need to constantly talk,
Read about the 5 Languages of Love. I would have saved myself a lot of time and trouble if I had done this BEFORE I got married!
5 Languages of Love
Posted by LSUwag
Florida man
Member since Jan 2007
17319 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 5:14 pm to
It’s what women do.
Posted by Tigerbythetale
Las Vegas
Member since Aug 2014
1458 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 5:16 pm to



Talking is how women process information to determine how they feel/think.
Posted by ForLSU56
Rapides Parish
Member since Feb 2015
5582 posts
Posted on 7/2/21 at 5:19 pm to
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women like to talk about meaningless bull shite.


And at the most inopportune time.
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