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Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:54 am to
Posted by Tchefuncte Tiger
Bat'n Rudge
Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:54 am to
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Exactly. But things really are different now. Growing up my parents managed to have a house at the beach, a house in one of the more expensive areas in Birmingham metro (Vestavia), and an interest in a hunting camp on the salary of two teachers.


Sounds like your parents were doing more than teaching school.
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
11804 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:58 am to
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but he also has 8 complete sets of every Topps, Donruss and Fleer baseball, basketball and football cards from 87-97. Win some. Lose some.


My dad has a store room full of the same. Always said it would be his retirement. Now every time I see it, I know it will be my dilemma one day.
Posted by TDFreak
Coast to Coast - L.A. to Chicago
Member since Dec 2009
8824 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:01 am to
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That was the golden age of state pensions.

Indeed it was. I had a nerdy coworker who argued that "retirement" in itself and the pensions, etc. were all a fluke of social engineering.

What did he mean by that? Well, for millenia people did not retire. You basically worked until you either died or lost your ability (eyesight), and then were wholly dependent on your children until you died...which wasn't much longer. As our world became richer, people were actually able to retire for the first time in humanity.

So, the fact that people could retire in this brief window of the late 20th & early 21st centuries is, in his mind, a fluke that would self-correct in the decades to come. I'm starting to think he may be right.

And the various governments (state, local, federal) giving out all these sweet pensions will eventually be unsustainable (the taxes will overwhelm the population) as they were on the private sector (pensions largely phased out in the 80s/90s) , and everyone will roll into a 401K which is clearly less lucrative than a pension.

I obviously have a grim outlook of my own retirement outlook. Oh well.
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Oct 2007
23884 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:03 am to
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For me it was 2020-2021. Mandatory vaccines.... DEI was crammed down our throats.... LGBTQ crap was everywhere. We spent a great deal of time "training" on woke bullshite. It was just time for me to go. And it was the best decision I could have made.


You're a bit younger than my Uncle, but he was a Lt Colonel in the USAF but a captain in the reserves in Alabama. He went active again after 9/11 because there was a lack of middle rank officers and they made a few promises. Spent a good amount of time in Incirlik and then Korea -- he gave me a very nice Huglu over under from when he was in Turkey.

I'm sure you've run into each other. Initials MW. Short guy. Big Ears.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
137950 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:07 am to
This is the exact reason why these programs are completely bankrupt
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
87686 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:08 am to
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I'm starting to think he may be right.


I personally think the present time is is full of opportunity for young, go getter types who are willing to accept a little deferred gratification to set themselves up with a pretty comfortable future
Posted by White Bear
SPECULATION
Member since Jul 2014
17130 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:15 am to
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Seriously, it's wild to think that my parents retired from their first careers with forever healthcare and an 80% pension at 43 and 44 years old. Dad retired in 98. Mom retired in 2000. Both taught public school in Alabama starting at 20 and 21.
The financially astute Louisiana government hand will retire from one gov entity and hire on with another and start banking that second state retirement!!!!
Posted by Pax Regis
Alabama
Member since Sep 2007
14750 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:22 am to
Boomers fricked over everyone after.

They cared nothing about what they left for the rest of us or how much they borrowed from the future to fund their excess.

Not surprising coming from the most narcissistic generation ever.

And this is a big reason why GenX went for Trump. We’re fed up with getting stuck with everyone’s bills. Word hard, pay your taxes, and shut up aint gonna cut it anymore. We need some financial relief.
This post was edited on 11/7/24 at 10:27 am
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
87686 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:24 am to
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Boomers fricked over everyone after.



and this defeatist attitude is what will hold the younger generations back, not the lack of opportunities
Posted by Pax Regis
Alabama
Member since Sep 2007
14750 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:26 am to
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and this defeatist attitude is what will hold the younger generations back, not the lack of opportunities


I mean this with all sincerity- frick you. You have no idea what you are talking about.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
87686 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:27 am to
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Oct 2007
23884 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:57 am to
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Boomers fricked over everyone after.

They cared nothing about what they left for the rest of us or how much they borrowed from the future to fund their excess.


So, your position is that a group of people that worked a job for 25 years (an underpaid position at that) for the promise of being taken care of at a certain level for the remainder of their lives should have just foregone that payout out of altruism?

That was the deal offered. They took the deal. They fulfilled their end.

You can argue that the institutions made a bad deal, but you can't blame people for taking that deal.
Posted by MillerLiteTime
Member since Aug 2018
3749 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 11:40 am to
30 years from now young people will be griping about how we all got to invest tax advantaged money into 401k/403b index funds with matching from our employers at the early stages of the internet/technology revolution. They will be pissed we are retiring as multi-millionaires in our 60's because we got lucky and were able to buy into the market so cheap.

I have worked for multiple employers who offered pensions and each time I ran the numbers, I would make more money if I had the option to opt out of the pension and invest the required employee contribution portion. Pension funds are run so conservatively and with so much bloat that for most employees a 403b with no employer contribution is better than a pension with a huge employer contribution.
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
4924 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 7:39 pm to
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I've lived in those countries.





I see that you didn’t bother to answer my question on the first page about exactly which (of the dozens of countries Americans retire to) that you have personally lived in… that’s fine.. and fwiw i dont disagree with you that there are trade offs wherever you go.. Life is pretty much one giant trade off based on what’s important to you, that is what life is .
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
33763 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:16 pm to
Good for them, but there is no logical reason a government should pay someone a lifetime salary just for working 25 years.

Ludicrous
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Oct 2007
23884 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 9:33 pm to
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I see that you didn’t bother to answer my question on the first page about exactly which (of the dozens of countries Americans retire to) that you have personally lived in… that’s fine.. and fwiw i dont disagree with you that there are trade offs wherever you go.. Life is pretty much one giant trade off based on what’s important to you, that is what life is .


I have lived in Nicaragua managed a hotel there in Leon and then later was part owner in a bar in Grenada, Costa Rica and Guatemala -- primarily Nicaragua. I have spent time in El Salvador. I was intending to move over to either Thailand (Chiang Mai), Portugal (former business partner has a hostel/bar in Lisbon) or the Phillipines, but I came home for my brother's wedding and stuck around. Phillipines and Portugal are still in play as a place to eventually live or at least take a nice 6 month vacation. I've also considered Greece as an option some time in the future.

I wasn't really saying that people shouldn't retire where the dollar goes further. Honestly, there's nothing quite like making American dollars and spending in a developing country, but most Americans have a difficult time adjusting to living in those places.

It's not like there's a big event like a revolution. It's just the day to day new annoyances that eventually wear you down.
Going to the grocery store and they just don't have soap that week.

Trying to get your internet hooked up and having to pay someone to sit on your porch because they have a three day window they might be by and if you're not there, they just leave.

Having two phones because you can only call Claro phones with a Claro or Movistar with a Movistar (I did eventually get a phone with two sim cards.)

Americans are fortunate enough to view what the rest of the world views as luxuries as simply commonplace. Hell, even Europeans are amazed when they walk into a Target in the states for the first time.

I'm just advising that for those that are considering retiring to a developing country, you're going to give up quite a lot...and if you aren't a very chill person, it will drive you a little crazy.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired - 31 years
Member since Feb 2019
6045 posts
Posted on 11/7/24 at 10:08 pm to
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Seems like they took advantage of an opportunity no longer available. Which is the point.


Plenty of places still have good pensions, the military, federal government and many state governments just to list a few.
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
31972 posts
Posted on 11/8/24 at 12:00 am to
I'm trying to make and save as much money as I can. If I work a day over 60 years old I will be pissed. In today's day in age though, I should probably expect it.
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
56103 posts
Posted on 11/8/24 at 12:20 am to
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Not everyone gets a career job at 22 anymore


Very true. I worked only one career job for 42 years until I retired at age 60.. My wife, five career jobs until she retired at age 60.
Posted by D_cup
Member since Aug 2023
74 posts
Posted on 11/8/24 at 12:41 am to
Real men never retire.
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