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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:05 am to GEAUXmedic
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:05 am to GEAUXmedic
Talk to a lawyer ASAP and get their advice. Follow it.
The only reason your baby momma confessed is because her other relationship went bad or she had reason to believe that you’d find out about it. She has no respect for you and will continue cheating if you get married. End it now and move forward. I guarantee that her Facebook friends are telling her that what she did was okay and she needs to squeeze you for as much money as possible for the child’s sake. Or maybe I’m just projecting.
It’s okay to forgive but that doesn’t mean you continue the relationship. Good luck.
The only reason your baby momma confessed is because her other relationship went bad or she had reason to believe that you’d find out about it. She has no respect for you and will continue cheating if you get married. End it now and move forward. I guarantee that her Facebook friends are telling her that what she did was okay and she needs to squeeze you for as much money as possible for the child’s sake. Or maybe I’m just projecting.
It’s okay to forgive but that doesn’t mean you continue the relationship. Good luck.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:05 am to GEAUXmedic
What exactly did she tell you happened to the father to put him out the picture?
How old is the kid?
Are yall living together?
How do you share expenses for the kid?
You should really work on raising your expectations dude. If a chick who's pregnant with some other dudes kid is everything you've ever wanted you should aim higher unless you're like 60 with a terminal illness and all alone with no family.
How old is the kid?
Are yall living together?
How do you share expenses for the kid?
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when youre in certain relationships and everything is portrayed as everything you ever wanted,
You should really work on raising your expectations dude. If a chick who's pregnant with some other dudes kid is everything you've ever wanted you should aim higher unless you're like 60 with a terminal illness and all alone with no family.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:07 am to Breesus
The baby daddy didn't want anything to do with her, my daughter is a toddler, we do live together, expenses are shared, everything is in my name though.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:08 am to GEAUXmedic
That sucks dude.... best of luck.....
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:08 am to BobABooey
She confessed cause I asked her about three times back to back. I had a feeling... I knew it for a week or two.. my feelings are never wrong, case in point. Always trust your gut.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:08 am to GEAUXmedic
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Sadly I'm well aware of Father's rights, I went through hell and back and won custody of my son
Wait, you have your own son?
Dude, just take the sonny and run.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:10 am to fr33manator
^^^this if the girl ain’t yours. Just pack your shite and leave.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:11 am to GEAUXmedic
To be fair, Im not going to be unfair to her. She made a horrible mistake, and there's probably no fixing "us", but no one deserves to have everything taken from them, no matter how much she has taken from me/our family. I forgave her for me, and I'll be fair to her, cause I know how it felt when she wasn't fair to me. Revenge is the choice you make when you're irrational, pissed, caught up in the moment.. but its not the thing to do, especially when there is a child involved. I'll be fair and amicable, and hope she decides to do the same as she has indicated.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:11 am to GEAUXmedic
So y’all have only been together 2-3 years and the bitch is already cheating on you?
Take your biological son and run. Find a better woman and start over.
Take your biological son and run. Find a better woman and start over.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:12 am to GEAUXmedic
Sorry to hear bro.
How old is your daughter?
How old is your daughter?
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:12 am to GEAUXmedic
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everything is in my name though.
Get on the phone and start locking down every credit card and bank account you have then! As said earlier, she's going to have field day shopping as hard and fast as she can.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:13 am to GEAUXmedic
Man she is playing you like a fiddle....just saying
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:13 am to GEAUXmedic
Hey Medic, sorry man. I would not even begin to suggest what to do except to continue to use your gut.
Prayers sent.
Prayers sent.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:15 am to GEAUXmedic
Wake up buddy, take your son and go. You a Dr.? She's going to try and frick you even worse if so...
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:15 am to GEAUXmedic
I hate to say it but I’ve been on the other side: a chick was cheating on her fiancé with me. She told me they were broken up at the time, but later I found out that they weren’t. To this day he still doesn’t know, and they’re married now. Women are scandalous.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:16 am to GEAUXmedic
unless you have a legal contract with her (marriage) she rules. dO NOT marry her to get rights to the daughter. you are way too emotional right now you need a lawyer. If you must continue with her---make her go get a pregnancy test now before you end up fostering all of her affairs.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:17 am to the paradigm
That's the funny thing, this dude knew about her being in a relationship. He's a POS for it, but it's still her fault.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:17 am to GEAUXmedic
shes trash dude, by you playing nice she’s getting exactly what she wants. The truth is she needs to see you with another woman as soon as humanly possible. That’s the only trump card in any situation like this, women are irrational and she needs to feel irrational emotions like insane jealousy
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:18 am to GEAUXmedic
Kick her out
Find a new one
Once a cheater always a cheater.
Find a new one
Once a cheater always a cheater.
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