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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:05 am to
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
15451 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:05 am to
Talk to a lawyer ASAP and get their advice. Follow it.

The only reason your baby momma confessed is because her other relationship went bad or she had reason to believe that you’d find out about it. She has no respect for you and will continue cheating if you get married. End it now and move forward. I guarantee that her Facebook friends are telling her that what she did was okay and she needs to squeeze you for as much money as possible for the child’s sake. Or maybe I’m just projecting.

It’s okay to forgive but that doesn’t mean you continue the relationship. Good luck.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67919 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:05 am to
What exactly did she tell you happened to the father to put him out the picture?

How old is the kid?

Are yall living together?

How do you share expenses for the kid?


quote:

when youre in certain relationships and everything is portrayed as everything you ever wanted, 


You should really work on raising your expectations dude. If a chick who's pregnant with some other dudes kid is everything you've ever wanted you should aim higher unless you're like 60 with a terminal illness and all alone with no family.
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Joplin, MO
Member since Nov 2011
41637 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:07 am to
The baby daddy didn't want anything to do with her, my daughter is a toddler, we do live together, expenses are shared, everything is in my name though.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
213540 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:08 am to
That sucks dude.... best of luck.....
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Joplin, MO
Member since Nov 2011
41637 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:08 am to
She confessed cause I asked her about three times back to back. I had a feeling... I knew it for a week or two.. my feelings are never wrong, case in point. Always trust your gut.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130233 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:08 am to
quote:

Sadly I'm well aware of Father's rights, I went through hell and back and won custody of my son


Wait, you have your own son?

Dude, just take the sonny and run.
Posted by Errerrerrwere
Member since Aug 2015
39006 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:10 am to
^^^this if the girl ain’t yours. Just pack your shite and leave.
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Joplin, MO
Member since Nov 2011
41637 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:11 am to
To be fair, Im not going to be unfair to her. She made a horrible mistake, and there's probably no fixing "us", but no one deserves to have everything taken from them, no matter how much she has taken from me/our family. I forgave her for me, and I'll be fair to her, cause I know how it felt when she wasn't fair to me. Revenge is the choice you make when you're irrational, pissed, caught up in the moment.. but its not the thing to do, especially when there is a child involved. I'll be fair and amicable, and hope she decides to do the same as she has indicated.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:11 am to
So y’all have only been together 2-3 years and the bitch is already cheating on you?

Take your biological son and run. Find a better woman and start over.
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:12 am to
Sorry to hear bro.

How old is your daughter?
Posted by crtodd
Member since Nov 2005
1723 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:12 am to
quote:

everything is in my name though.


Get on the phone and start locking down every credit card and bank account you have then! As said earlier, she's going to have field day shopping as hard and fast as she can.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:13 am to
Man she is playing you like a fiddle....just saying
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
100044 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:13 am to
Hey Medic, sorry man. I would not even begin to suggest what to do except to continue to use your gut.

Prayers sent.
Posted by sloopy
Member since Aug 2009
6898 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:15 am to
Wake up buddy, take your son and go. You a Dr.? She's going to try and frick you even worse if so...
Posted by the paradigm
Moon Township, PA
Member since Sep 2017
5417 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:15 am to
I hate to say it but I’ve been on the other side: a chick was cheating on her fiancé with me. She told me they were broken up at the time, but later I found out that they weren’t. To this day he still doesn’t know, and they’re married now. Women are scandalous.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
156858 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:16 am to
unless you have a legal contract with her (marriage) she rules. dO NOT marry her to get rights to the daughter. you are way too emotional right now you need a lawyer. If you must continue with her---make her go get a pregnancy test now before you end up fostering all of her affairs.
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Joplin, MO
Member since Nov 2011
41637 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:16 am to
No way, not a doctor.
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Joplin, MO
Member since Nov 2011
41637 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:17 am to
That's the funny thing, this dude knew about her being in a relationship. He's a POS for it, but it's still her fault.
Posted by Strannix
President Trump's America
Member since Dec 2012
51257 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:17 am to
shes trash dude, by you playing nice she’s getting exactly what she wants. The truth is she needs to see you with another woman as soon as humanly possible. That’s the only trump card in any situation like this, women are irrational and she needs to feel irrational emotions like insane jealousy
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
125625 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:18 am to
Kick her out

Find a new one

Once a cheater always a cheater.
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