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Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:15 pm to real turf fan
And that tells us what about OP's situation? He signed a sworn affidavit admitting that he is the biological father. He is on the hook for child support. If Mom gets any welfare, La. has the right to take child support from OP regardless of whether Mom wants that or not.
IN any event, I suspect that OP is trolling us. He's lying about the whole thing and this long thread is one long con job that he's pulled on us.
IN any event, I suspect that OP is trolling us. He's lying about the whole thing and this long thread is one long con job that he's pulled on us.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 2:16 pm
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:15 pm to real turf fan
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A friend in New Orleans had legally separated from his wife. She was living with another man. She got knocked up by other man. She gave birth. Judge in divorce proceeding didn't care that our friend hadn't signed the birth certificate or that they had lived apart for several years. Our friend got stuck with child support.
His obituary said he was survived by his two children (names listed) and by (name of child of his wife.)
I often hear stories of people taking baseball hits to their knees over stupid shite, I'd imagine this sort of behavior runs the risk of just that.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:15 pm to Orange_and_Blur
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Splash this stuff to all her relatives, friends, employer, Reddit....everywhere
It's the mother of his kid, dude. What she did was shitty, but he has to deal with this person in some capacity for the rest of his life.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:16 pm to Champagne
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did a brief google search on the law and I think it's too late for him. He signed an Affidavit acknowledging his own paternity when the child was born. Under La. law that's the only way for you to sign the birth certificate. Now that the child is a few years old it's too late for him to contest paternity. He is the legal obligor that the La. Dept of Child Support Enforcement will go after for child support, no matter whether Mom lives with him or not.
I’d think he’s in a situation where this is a double edged sword against him. He may have by signing put himself in a position wherein he could be legally financially obligated to support the child, should the mother/child demand it; while also putting himself into a position whereby he has very little power to be in the child’s life - he’s admitted to signing as the father while knowing he wasn’t (which could probably be easily proved with a calendar), and should anyone else want to enforce their rights to paternity (either the actual father, or the mother wanting to show the OP isn’t the father and has no rights, for whatever reason that may be) then the OP hasn’t done enough, like legal adoption or marriage, to exert his desire to remain the father.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:17 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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It's the mother of his kid, dude. What she did was shitty, but he has to deal with this person in some capacity for the rest of his life.
FFS HE IS NOT THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:17 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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It's the mother of his kid, dude.
He's already said he is not the father of the child. He agreed to be named as the father on the birth certificate, but she was already pregnant when he met her.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:17 pm to Champagne
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He signed an Affidavit acknowledging his own paternity when the child was born.
I don't remember doing this in the hospital, but I suppose I could have.
In my opinion, all children and parents should be DNA tested at the hospital. Don't know why that's not routine.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:18 pm to 50_Tiger
trust me. i'm someone who believes all is fair in love and war and UNO/monopoly.
but... this guy has too much invested. if he muddies up the water, he could ruin his chance of being the father he wants to be to this little girl. he loves her. none of us know how vindictive this woman is if he did retaliate.
but... this guy has too much invested. if he muddies up the water, he could ruin his chance of being the father he wants to be to this little girl. he loves her. none of us know how vindictive this woman is if he did retaliate.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:18 pm to Breesus
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In my opinion, all children and parents should be DNA tested at the hospital.
That'd certainly spice things up
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:19 pm to LSUgirl4
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UNO/monopoly
U play UNO attack?
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but... this guy has too much invested. if he muddies up the water, he could ruin his chance of being the father he wants to be to this little girl. he loves her. none of us know how vindictive this woman is if he did retaliate.
Nah I am an a-hole, eye for an eye.
Not his real kid. Might have to pay real hard-earned dollars that could go to his son.
She needs to get GOT.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:19 pm to LSUgirl4
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none of us know how vindictive this woman
when it comes to child support and money I have seen some money turn into monsters. Scary shite how vindictive women can get.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:20 pm to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Law in Louisiana has changed. Signing birth certificate is not enough. For him to be presumed to be the father, he would need to marry her and then acknowledge the child by authentic act. Art 195 of the civil code used to allow for the signing of the birth certificate, but that has been removed.
Also would need to know if she was ever married to the baby daddy.
Also would need to know if she was ever married to the baby daddy.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:20 pm to real turf fan
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She got knocked up by other man. She gave birth. Judge in divorce proceeding didn't care that our friend hadn't signed the birth certificate or that they had lived apart for several years. Our friend got stuck with child support.
Family court is a terrifying terrifying place. American Family Court System is one of the most fricked up "legal" systems on the planet.
I had an old boss that was in the special forces in the Vietnam War and a P.O.W. He said he was more scared in family court than in Vietnam.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 2:36 pm
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:21 pm to Breesus
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In my opinion, all children and parents should be DNA tested at the hospital
Being a nurse that works the labor and delivery floor of the hospital would be a whole lot more interesting
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 2:22 pm
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:21 pm to Breesus
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In my opinion, all children and parents should be DNA tested at the hospital. Don't know why that's not routine.
Yep. Agree 100%. This would solve many many problems in our society.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:23 pm to Tiger Prawn
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Being a nurse that works the labor and delivery floor of the hospital would be a whole lot more interesting
Want free healthcare?
Every reveal should be on reality TV with a Maury like setting. I'd watch that all day forever.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:23 pm to SlapahoTribe
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This would solve many many problems in our society and create many more.
FIFY
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:25 pm to real turf fan
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A friend in New Orleans had legally separated from his wife. She was living with another man. She got knocked up by other man. She gave birth. Judge in divorce proceeding didn't care that our friend hadn't signed the birth certificate or that they had lived apart for several years. Our friend got stuck with child support.
His obituary said he was survived by his two children (names listed) and by (name of child of his wife.)
holy shite
it's these kinds of stories... family law is absolute crap for men
Posted on 11/17/17 at 2:25 pm to SlapahoTribe
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he could be legally financially obligated to support the child, should the mother/child demand it; while also putting himself into a position whereby he has very little power to be in the child’s life
Yup. He IS going to be obligated to pay child support unless the biological father decides to suddenly volunteer but good luck with that. Also, if she doesn't want him in the daughters life he isn't going to be and unless he pays out of his arse that isn't going to happen. It is beyond sad but its the way it is.
People always say not to date women with kids because the kids are a pain and/or you have to deal with their baby daddy and the drama that comes with it but that isn't why you shouldn't date them. You shouldn't date them because if the kid isn't a pain and you get attached but then breakup you are shite out of luck and have zero rights. Doesn't matter if you were the dad to that kid for years and years and years, if you break up and she or the baby daddy don't want you to see the kid you won't so there goes your child.
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