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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:36 am to
Posted by Winston Cup
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Member since May 2016
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:36 am to
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The extent of legality is my name is on the birth certificate.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
157225 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:36 am to
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Quick recap for those just joining. He started dating this girl who was already pregnant with someone elses child he refers to as his daughter. He has been raising his own son and his gf, now fiancée, daughter since she was born. He found out that while he's been staying home watching the kiddos she been out banging a guy
accurate re cap minus wally world parking lot. OP never said where she was fricking the other guy.
Posted by LSUZombie
A Cemetery Near You
Member since Apr 2008
29371 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:36 am to
quote:

To be fair, Im not going to be unfair to her. She made a horrible mistake, and there's probably no fixing "us", but no one deserves to have everything taken from them, no matter how much she has taken from me/our family.


So it's okay for her to be unfair to you, but you can't be "unfair" to her? Even though you really aren't being unfair at all?

I hate to say this, but it's no surprise she cheated. Sadly she probably didn't respect you anymore, and that was that.
Posted by tigerskin
Member since Nov 2004
43214 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:37 am to
This chick is even more evil than originally thought. She gets the guy attached to her daughter and then does this. I have a feeling her manipulation isn’t over.
Posted by Brageous
Member since Jul 2008
107724 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:37 am to
Why make things worse? Be the bigger man, move forward and on. Revenge is childish and won't help him at all with any sort of child custody/visitation moving forward.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 9:38 am
Posted by longhorn22
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Member since Jan 2007
42527 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:39 am to
this is insane.........


this is the reality TD

Pics of everyone involved would def make this situation easier to picture....this is a very interesting topic this merning...Long night for GeauxMedic following his posts from 12:37am....til 6:05am this morning....

On the real side of it all, good luck Geaux! You seem like a quality dude in your postings on numerous boards on TD...I hope all works out well for you and you get through all of this!
Posted by Char Aznable
Member since Dec 2016
250 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:39 am to
OP has the wrong mindset with this situation. It's the timeless art of seduction. Some rando thinks he can one up you with your fiance, so send the message back. Beat him at his own game, you're engaged right? Sounds like you have an advantage on the guy right there, only play he has is if he's got a shite ton of money
Posted by LZ83
La
Member since Sep 2016
17420 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:39 am to
I was with you till you said the kid wasn’t yours and you wanted to make it work with the bitch.
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
36536 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:40 am to
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Good people don’t cheat. Whores do.


Page 10 and no sign of LSUgirl4.......hmmmmmmmmm, probably off cheating
Posted by SirWinston
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Member since Jul 2014
95699 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:41 am to
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quote: OMG This chick found a sucker and you got licked. What else does this woman have to do to prove to you that you want to be as far away as possible from her? Get your son and remove this woman and her daughter from your lives. She's probably a sociopath. Just hearing the way you can't let go of her all but confirms it. She'll say and do anything. She got you once when she saddled you with another man's kid. Don't let her inflict anymore damage. GTFO!


Yah this is what geaux needs to hear. Sorry if it's harsh.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:41 am to
not going back through all the posts but is the place where they live the OPs? Or do they share responsibility for it?

Also did OP legally adopt the girl?
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
69187 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:43 am to
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GEAUXmedic


Damn brother. I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
38006 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:43 am to
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Quick recap for those just joining. He started dating this girl who was already pregnant with someone elses child he refers to as his daughter. He has been raising his own son and his gf, now fiancée, daughter since she was born. He found out that while he's been staying home watching the kiddos she been out banging a guy in the Wally World parking lot instead of being at her friends house... think that about sums it up.

whoa, i think i've been there before. i've sinced moved on though.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
172301 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:44 am to
guys, go to OP, click his name and read all of his previous posts.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59899 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:44 am to
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I hate to say this, but it's no surprise she cheated. Sadly she probably didn't respect you anymore, and that was that.


Truth.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
23937 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:44 am to
Just had time to actually read through the whole thread

quote:

my daughter is a toddler, we do live together, expenses are shared, everything is in my name though.




My advice would be to cut off her access to any joint credit card or bank accounts immediately as other posters have said. If her name isn't on the mortgage or lease, tell her she needs to pack up her shite and find somewhere else to live by the end of the month. Then get a lawyer to get your name off the birth certificate of a toddler that you're not the biological father of so you don't spend the next 16-17 years of your life having to continue to deal with this lying, cheating bitch on custody disputes and financially supporting her and the kid that isn't yours.

The kid is only a toddler, so she won't even remember you. This isn't really any different than a guy who starts dating a single mom and things end up not working out for whatever reason. Yeah, you might've developed an attachment to her kid. But if things don't work out between you and the kid's mom, you don't continue raising and financially supporting her kid. Only difference in OP's case is that he put his name on the birth certificate of the kid that wasn't his, so now needs to get an attorney to get that corrected.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 9:51 am
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
95699 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:45 am to
I don't get it. The daughter isn't his. It's not his. He needs to harden his heart.
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
95699 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:46 am to
quote:

. Then get a lawyer to get your name off the birth certificate of a toddler that you're not the biological father of so you don't spend the next 16-17 years of your life dealing having to continue to deal with this lying, cheating bitch on custody disputes and financially supporting her and the kid that isn't yours.


He should do this before he kicks anybody out. Do this first.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
18025 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:47 am to
One thing that's been bothering me since the being pregnant with someone else's kid when they first started dating part came out: how in the world do you bang a girl who is pregnant with someone else's kid? I'm not sure I could perform in that scenario
Posted by Maximus
Member since Feb 2004
81329 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 9:48 am to
Just tell us about him chadboi
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