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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:13 am to
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27560 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:13 am to
quote:

know my daughter isn't biologically mine. She was just pregnant when I met her. But my daughter is my daughter. She's my world and nothing will ever change that.


Oh damn. Have you ADOPTED this child? If not I can GUARANTEE something will change that. If no adoption, you have zero to stand on. You’re lucky a baby daddy hasn’t wandered into the picture by now.

Just run. It will hurt, but just run. A woman like this will find somebody else to help provide for the child. Is the kid gonna be fricked up? Yep. Daddy issues? You bet. But you did nothing but try to help all of that. Again you have zero legal ground here it sounds like.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
71851 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:13 am to
my wife just left for work and I'm about to call a PI to follow her, just in case.

frick..
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
69374 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:15 am to
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Paternity test. You thought you knew a LOT about this woman and were wrong. Make damned sure you’re not wrong about that too.


Keep reading the thread......
Posted by CuseTiger
Member since Jul 2013
8938 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:15 am to
If you need help planning a quick getaway to escape this madness, i'm happy to help you find something. You'll get through this
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41880 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:16 am to
After how many times you mocked me for giving you warnings?

Rip
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
76163 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:18 am to
quote:

going to have to explain this again to you in 5 minutes


Explain what?

And I KNOW it was a joke. Did you sleep at Owl's last night or come home?
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
69374 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:19 am to
quote:

people don't routinely just "go over to a friend's house" by themselves after about 18 years old or so



Dafuq are you talking about?
Sorry you don't have friends.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
24948 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:19 am to
quote:

I know my daughter isn't biologically mine. She was just pregnant when I met her. But my daughter is my daughter


Chick thats dating around while pregnant with some other dude’s baby should’ve been a MAJOR red flag that she’s either a big time slut or doesn’t have life priorities in order, or both.

Sorry about your situation though but props to you for being a dad and raising the little girl as if she were your own
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:19 am to
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I’m sure the mom will have no problem lining up another guy to play father to her. She’s already suckered the OP into that role


Yeah, as bad as it sounds, seems like she has been using OP for a free ride while she had her fun on the side. Op is still in love with her though so she still has the upper hand and will screw him over again.
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
18524 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:20 am to
wish I could say I wasn't true - but yeah she said it.

funny thing - about 6 years later I was flying out of Milwaukee on business and as im driving on the freeway to the airport she merges onto the freeway next to me - for just an instant i wanted to run that itch off the road - buuut I didn't, and realized harboring the anger that many years later accomplished nothing.

i just decided to not care about her or anything in regards to her and have been better off sense.
Posted by Ancient Astronaut
Member since May 2015
36998 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:20 am to
If she is really sorry she can write you an apology
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77528 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:22 am to
I'm rooting for you. Next time though, think about things with a ruthlessly objective mind instead of an infatuated heart/dick. You'll find that the clues to a relationship's demise are usually clear as day. That includes the girl's family, the way she keeps her living space, her debt, her job history, her education, her interests, her drinking, her health, her reliability, her level of independence, etc.
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27560 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:22 am to
quote:

Keep reading the thread...


I did. Y’all ease up off of me. Many here seem to have made the same mistake.

I waded in at about 13 pages. Got no time to proofread and fact check.
Posted by MrLSU
Yellowstone, Val d'isere
Member since Jan 2004
28927 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:22 am to
Tell her you have to come clean too. Tell her you had sex with three of her really friends but don't tell her which ones they were. Let her feel a little pain too.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
71851 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:23 am to
did she see you on the interstate too?
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85352 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:24 am to
When I first read this thread, I felt really sorry for OP, like my stomach hurt

Then I read that he started dating this woman while she was pregnant with another man's baby and well...

My advice is too make better life choices and be glad you found out before you made the massive mistake of marrying this woman

and for the love of all the gods, please try and learn from this

there are always signs...you missed a massive one in the very beginning

LEARN FROM THIS
Posted by LSUTigersVCURams
Member since Jul 2014
21940 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:25 am to
Hey and one more thing, OP. WHEN yes, not if, but WHEN you meet a great woman in the future who will treat you correctly, don’t act like a fricking literal cuck like you have been doing. Don’t watch her kid while she’s going out doing whatever she wants. Don’t let her treat you like a bitch. Women take that as disrespect! If you don’t assert your dominance (in a firm but loving way) you will find yourself right back here again.
Posted by JBeam
Guns,Germs & Steel
Member since Jan 2011
68377 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:25 am to
quote:

I don't get this either. I really don't get putting your name on birth certificate...I think now he is screwed for child support

I'm starting to think the same thing.
Posted by PeterPeterP
Member since Jan 2013
781 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:25 am to
This is good that it happened now and not after you get married. You don't want that type of influence around your daughter. Trust me, there are better women out there who don't open their legs while in relationships, much less engaged. Hang in there and say good riddens. It will be hard of course and you'll feel like shite but before long you'll realize that it was good she told you and you got rid of her before you walked down the aisle.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
71851 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:26 am to
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Also, people don't routinely just "go over to a friend's house" by themselves after about 18 years old or so



huh?

i'm married and old and I go over to friend's house almost every week. Every other week at minimum.

Do you just watch sports alone at home every weekend?
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