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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:04 am to
Posted by AubieALUMdvm
Member since Oct 2011
11713 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:04 am to
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be happy you found out before you married her.


Also, people don't routinely just "go over to a friend's house" by themselves after about 18 years old or so

Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
71472 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:05 am to
quote:

I'm not staying with her, were not gonna be roommates for the sake of the child, etc.


good on you. You're already 1 step closer to healing. Good luck, buddy.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67943 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:05 am to
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She’s from the Westbank?
She’s owns a trampstamp?
She has a Love Laugh Live Monogram somewhere in the House?
You’ve been cheated on before?


Slow down, mother fricker.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32913 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:05 am to
As much as it is gonna hurt, don't waste money trying to pursue custody of the child. You won't win.
Posted by JBeam
Guns,Germs & Steel
Member since Jan 2011
68377 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:05 am to
quote:

good on you. You're already 1 step closer to healing. Good luck, buddy.

You actually believe this is going to happen?
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
39501 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:07 am to
quote:

I'll never understand the level of selfishness... And I told her I forgave her, but I'm not sure why. Part of me just wanted her to feel better. Why do I still love her and care about her? Why am I the one who is left here alone?
i'm really sorry for you. this is the saddest story. i wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. you have friends here.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
71472 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:07 am to
if he's saying he isn't going to stay with her, I believe him.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137774 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:07 am to
If screwups like the op can convince two women to marry them, what does that say about me? FML
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 8:09 am
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
68701 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:08 am to
quote:

I still haven't wrapped my mind around a dude dating/being engaged to a pregnant chick. Especially when the kid isn't his.


I don't get this either. I really don't get putting your name on birth certificate...I think now he is screwed for child support
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
21170 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:08 am to
Prayers man. Terrible
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
85657 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:08 am to
I don't know the GF, so have no idea if this is completely out of character, or maybe she's having some self esteem issues and this is how she dealt with it. Only you know. But I know betrayal is one of the worst feelings in the world. It's easy on the outside, looking in, just to say frick it, get over it. I wish I was like that, and didn't give a shite, and just moved on. Reading your OP, sounds like you aren't either.

She'll regret it at some point, and it will be too late. All I can say is while it may not seem so now, time heals, and over time, it will get easier to deal with. Just trust that.
Posted by OldeScratch04
Urban America
Member since May 2016
129 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:09 am to
Sounds like you’re growing up. Good luck and good for you.

Some of the toughest lessons in life are also some of the most important. God or nature or whatever you believe in is showing you signs, don’t ignore that.

Remember this, tough times don’t last but tough people do
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
18180 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:09 am to
Ive been there man - I was engaged and moved to Milwaukee WI and pretty much supported her and her 2 kids while she was in medical school.

after 7 months of being away from all my family and friends, her son asked me if the new guy she was cheating on me with was her new boyfriend - when I asked her she said it was none of my business.

moved home 2 months later and met my now wife.

it hurts man - hell it hurt me for almost a year after - did a LOT of drinking in that time, but it got better.

I wish you luck man - you are stronger than ya think - and this will show just how strong you can be.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
75061 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:09 am to
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If screwups like the op can convince two women to marry them, what does that say about me? FML


Way to make this about you, you pathetic loser.

Hope you're well.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 8:15 am
Posted by Bulldozer1899
Member since Aug 2017
158 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:10 am to
Been there. Kick her to the curb now and get custody of daughter
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
71472 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:10 am to
quote:

Ive been there man - I was engaged and moved to Milwaukee WI and pretty much supported her and her 2 kids while she was in medical school.

after 7 months of being away from all my family and friends, her son asked me if the new guy she was cheating on me with was her new boyfriend - when I asked her she said it was none of my business.


Posted by Winston Cup
Dallas Cowboys Fan
Member since May 2016
66448 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:12 am to
Well you got to ride trumps dick so doesn’t that make you even?
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137774 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:12 am to
It's a joke, Captain Alzheimers. The sad thing is that I'm going to have to explain this again to you in 5 minutes
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42032 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:12 am to
Good lord almighty. I think I am gonna stay single after reading some of this shite.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
43300 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 8:13 am to
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Paternity test. You thought you knew a LOT about this woman and were wrong. Make damned sure you’re not wrong about that too.


WTF you fricking monkey? Read the next sentence carefully as it has been mentioned 50 times in this thread. The child is not his. The whore was pregnant when he met her.

Get a paternity test?

Bless your heart.
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