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re: My brother has been missing since 9/1/21. UPDATE HE’S BEEN FOUND BY THE OT.NEW UPDATE 1/23

Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:27 pm to
Posted by Sampson
Drusilla and Jefferson
Member since Mar 2012
24971 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:27 pm to
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You should probably take a grammar class



Why are you in this thread? Take a break. Go to sleep.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
66649 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:28 pm to
That's him. Wow!
Posted by MikeD
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2004
7877 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:29 pm to
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Is the latest video on Soft White Underbelly YouTube channel the clue? That’s the first place I looked. Being that he interviews homeless people in Los Angeles. First video from yesterday the guy says he is from Baton Rouge.


100% him. Tells the story of his wreck and going missing at minute 26 or so.
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
175753 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:29 pm to
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Yeah our parents specifically our mom sucks at life. Colin joined the coast guard, owned a home at 22, and has never done ANYTHING to anyone until he spiraled out of control recently. And the majority of it was done to himself. He never once harmed me, our family or his friends his entire life. This has been a sad and tragic period but I’m just grateful he’s alive and we’re in the process of getting him out of there.


Watching the video now. Your brother has some serious demons to deal with. The guy that posted the video also made some great points


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What do you suggest? Give him money to do the “right thing”? I’ve learned the hard way that that money won’t be spent the way you’re intended it to be spent. Shall we send him to rehab? That fails 98% of the time. If we still want to try a program don’t forget to consider that you get what you pay for. Amanda’s rehab was around $150K. The most important part to consider is whether Colin is ready to change. Even when an addict tells me they want to get clean for all the right reasons I’ve seen that what they’re actually going to do is nothing close to what they said. Talk is cheap. An addict who is ready to truly change doesn’t sit around and talk about what they’re going to do. They’re silently, privately doing it far from Skid Row. The problems you see here are not about drugs in my opinion. The problem is mental health, which is not easily fixed. How do you repair a broken childhood? These videos are preventative. They’re cautionary tales. If any of these people were truly serious about getting clean they wouldn’t be on Skid Row. I try to use the GoFundMe donations to help those few who are trying to do it with or without anyone’s help. Anything other than that is just enabling. This is a serious and very complicated problem. I believe the best solution is better parenting and that’s where these “cruelly voyeuristic” videos serve their purpose.



I hope he is ready to change. Seems like life just beat him up for a period and to deal with it he turned to drugs.
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
8727 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:29 pm to
Sampson, glad to hear your brother is alive and hopefully coming home. It’s mind boggling how some people are being complete douches in this thread.
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
66649 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:30 pm to
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Why are you in this thread?

08 is mostly a miserable a-hole. You have ignore him.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
157225 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:31 pm to
I am so sorry you and your brother had to grow up with alcoholic abusers. Please know there is more to life. Please get your brother in rehab and counseling. I know it sounds cliche but get help. It is not ya'lls fault your parents were drunk & abusive. You don't want to carry it on to others. Are your grandparents non abusive & loving?

Your brother may not want to leave.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
189216 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:32 pm to
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Yeah our parents specifically our mom sucks at life. Colin joined the coast guard, owned a home at 22, and has never done ANYTHING to anyone until he spiraled out of control recently. And the majority of it was done to himself. He never once harmed me, our family or his friends his entire life. This has been a sad and tragic period but I’m just grateful he’s alive and we’re in the process of getting him out of there.

heartbreaking story but the end hasnt been written yet

seems like a good hearted guy , prayers to you all

and antiquetiger is his bitch, admire Colins hustle
This post was edited on 12/17/21 at 7:44 pm
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
175753 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:38 pm to
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seems like a good hearted guy


I imagine when Colin is clean and sober in the future and he watches this video it will be a great reminder to never go back to this place hopefully.

When he described his daily cycle of revolving around drugs and getting robbed is sad
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
157225 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:39 pm to
he drowned himself in drugs because he couldn't see his kid. he needs to clean up and get back in the coast guard.
Posted by Sampson
Drusilla and Jefferson
Member since Mar 2012
24971 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:39 pm to
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and abtiquetiger is his bitch, admire Colins hustle



That was my favorite part. “I created a flea market”

I’m sad and heartbroken but he has always been a hustler lol
Posted by oVo
Member since Dec 2013
11983 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:40 pm to
Prayers sent!
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
157225 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:41 pm to
on skid row dumpster diving for 400dollar Nike's. he said Baton Rouge wouldn't have that kind of product in their dumpsters.
Posted by Big EZ Tiger
Member since Jul 2010
25282 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:43 pm to
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PersonataNonGrata

What a fricking retard.
Posted by Poichess
Member since Jun 2019
1119 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:45 pm to
Rule #1

Don’t rescue the addict.
Posted by upstate
Member since Nov 2015
693 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:49 pm to
OP. Not sure what your plans are or if he is ready, but going to throw this out. I’m a member at Rocky Creek Baptist in Greenville, SC. We have a ministry relationship with miracle Hill ministry here in Greenville and I know the president.
Christian based org helping people get things back on track, and at our church we have an Overcomers program where we minister with these folks, and have been relatively to very successful helping.
Colin is welcome to join us anytime, and we will love him while surrounding him with accountability. Some of our best members, members of my gospel group, and friends have all been in some really dark places and are thriving now. It can happen. Good luck and congrats on finding him
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
66649 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:50 pm to
Sierra Mccallister is the first to comment on the video with links to the OP. 28 minutes ago.

This post was edited on 12/17/21 at 7:53 pm
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
189216 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:50 pm to
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upstate

man I love you guys
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
157225 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:51 pm to
What are the odds of you ever seeing that interview he did? Unless a lot of people (The OT) were asked for help and someone happened to catch the video.

You know he is okay.
Posted by SwampRocket
Houston, Texas
Member since Dec 2012
643 posts
Posted on 12/17/21 at 7:51 pm to
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Rule #1

Don’t rescue the addict.


Depends on what you mean by rescue. Yes you can't make the decisions needed to progress for them, but you never give up on pulling them out of that environment and giving them a leg up on turning a new leaf. Sure they could fall back in, but pulling them somewhat out of the hole gives them a chance. He surely won't make it out being where he is
This post was edited on 12/17/21 at 7:52 pm
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