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re: My baby momma wants to put me on child support

Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:28 pm to
Posted by TechDawg2007
Bawville
Member since Nov 2007
32348 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:28 pm to
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My baby momma
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My current girlfriend is giving birth to my daughter in May
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?
Condom or get snipped, whore
Posted by Gullah Gullah Island
SC
Member since May 2015
3063 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:29 pm to
Shoulda hired a hitman while she was pregnant then you wouldn’t be in this situation.
Posted by Commandeaux
Zachary
Member since Jul 2009
7710 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:30 pm to
All you have to do is get a lawyer and ask for shared custody. In order for her to get full custody, you have to (1) dont ask for shared custody and (2) not have a record of being abusive to the child or mother.

She will try to bait you with a domestic violence charge to be safe. Stay away from her or have a witness or cell phone camera ready.

You've already demonstrated that you share custody with her. That's half the battle.
Posted by LSUWoodworker
St George "God's Country "
Member since Dec 2007
18666 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:30 pm to
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It will get better when current baby momma to be finds out, she will go in dry. Your arse will be so torn up you will not be able to muster a mouse fart.


I’m not sure what your meaning is here..


You will have you arse torn so open you will be able to stash beer cans there?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:30 pm to
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TLDR; what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?


Ummm there these things that doctors invented a few centuries ago. They’re called condoms
Posted by Philzilla2k
Member since Oct 2017
11538 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:31 pm to
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Get a lawyer. File a set custody agreement. Stop giving her extra money. It's considered a gift and not child support at this point. If she wants to play ball, play.

this, because if you don't, she might.
Posted by tigeraddict
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2007
13359 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:32 pm to
If in Louisiana they will look at the charts showing what 1 child's liability will be based on your combined income, and what percent of that income is your vs hers. then if you have 1/3 custody and she has 2/3 custody, then calculate what child support is worth.

it is cut and dry if custody does not change. but lawyer up if she is going for more custody time as that will increase your child support payments.

IE if your combined income is $5000 a month, and she makes $2000 and you make $3000 then its a 40/60% split

Louisiana child support payment tables

$5000 combined 1 child + $822/mo




This post was edited on 3/7/19 at 3:35 pm
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:32 pm to
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We have no set custody agreement. I work on tows 28/14. I keep him the entire 2 weeks I’m off and she has him the rest of the time. TLDR; what are some actions that I can take to protect myself? I intend on getting a lawyer. What should I expect?



Yes get a lawyer. I would be concerned about potential back child support.
Posted by MojoGuyPan
Intercession City, Florida
Member since Jun 2018
2797 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:34 pm to
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Shoulda hired a hitman while she was pregnant then you wouldn’t be in this situation.


If it worked for Rae Carruth, it should work for a Tulane fan.

Posted by TulaneFan
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2008
14092 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:34 pm to
Thanks man, I appreciate the help.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:34 pm to
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Don't do it secretively. Make sure it is record. Not that it helps if the kid isnt his though.


Yeah, I’m sure this guy is into high fat- I mean class girls. This is a serious possibility especially given he’s gone for 2 weeks a month.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130259 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:34 pm to
I hate the term baby mama


Just say the Mother of my bastard
Posted by TulaneFan
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2008
14092 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:35 pm to
Does that make him Jon Snow?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:36 pm to
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You are so fricked in a year when you have child support payments for two kids


Don’t sell him short, I’m going with 3.

Posted by LSUWoodworker
St George "God's Country "
Member since Dec 2007
18666 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:36 pm to
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Just say the Mother of my bastard
Posted by Scoop
RIP Scoop
Member since Sep 2005
44583 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:36 pm to
You have made poor decisions and you are facing the consequences of those poor decisions.

That’s how life works.

Posted by TSLG
Member since Mar 2014
6724 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:37 pm to
I support your decision to procreate.

We need more white people: trashy or not.
Posted by MojoGuyPan
Intercession City, Florida
Member since Jun 2018
2797 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:37 pm to
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My baby momma wants to put me on child support


I think this thread sullies the rep of the OT. Something like this is better suited for World Star.
Posted by weadjust
Member since Aug 2012
15481 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:37 pm to
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she needs to ensure our 4 year old son has everything he needs. My current girlfriend is giving birth to my daughter in May so she feels threatened that my son will be forgotten.


She's going to get that child support money locked down before baby mama 2 child support comes into play.

Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
65512 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:37 pm to
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We have no set custody agreement. I work on tows 28/14. I keep him the entire 2 weeks I’m off and she has him the rest of the time.

You're fricked. You need to get an attorney and get an agreement worked out ASAP. Child support is going to be determined by a time with child vs income comparison, so get ready to pay.

But not having an agreement puts you at serious risk. You could get home, go to pick the child up and the mom say, "well I don't think so this trip." And there isn't a thing you can do about it. I know because I made the same mistake as you. NEVER TRUST man. Get that shite in writing and enforceable by the courts.
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