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re: Mother's Day gift ideas for wife. 1st time mother

Posted on 4/29/18 at 12:52 am to
Posted by MSUmtowndawg
Jackson, MS
Member since Sep 2010
1490 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 12:52 am to
Baby birthstone jewelry. Ring, bracelet, necklace, earrings. Single pearl bracelet to signify the baby.

God willing if you’re lucky, you can stack said birthstone jewelry with the next baby’s birthstone.

I’ve been there and I am happy for the both of you. Happy mother’s day.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 1:30 am to
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I can't mess this up




Plan for a babysitter for the entire day, take off Monday, and procure a hotel room and an 8ball.
Take her to a nice Brunch for a boudin omelet and 12 mimosas.
Then chop a few rails in the car and head to Alex Box to see us sweep Bama at 2pm.

After the game take her to the L'Auberge and check in. Do some rails off her arse and her do one off your cock. Then go for a swim on the roof top pool.
About 8pm, do 3 rails off her titties and she do 2 off your cock and head to the craps table.
Let her roll the dice and have a good time.
Go back to the room, put some blow up her booty hole, and practice for next baby till daylight.
Go home to baby and enjoy the hangover together. Netflix and chill all day.


This post was edited on 4/29/18 at 1:31 am
Posted by partsman103
Member since Sep 2008
8797 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 8:02 am to
Put together a collage of photos from 1st year and have matted and framed.
Purchase a necklace with a diamond, her birthstone and your childs birthstone.

Posted by shinerfan
Duckworld(Earth-616)
Member since Sep 2009
28928 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 8:31 am to
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Maybe buy her a photo session for her and the baby, or for the 3 of you




Or an actual painting done from s photo.
This post was edited on 4/29/18 at 8:32 am
Posted by Isabelle81
NEW ORLEANS, LA
Member since Sep 2015
2718 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 9:24 am to
Is your wife fixing dinner every night, then doing the dishes among other chores? Having someone do the dishes every night for two weeks or so is like being on vacation!!!
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138855 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 9:25 am to
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Tried for 2 years. Had to have fertility treatments and IUI done. Daughter was in NICU for a month

I can't mess this up


You gave her a child

If that is not enough, you chose poorly
Posted by cave canem
pullarius dominus
Member since Oct 2012
12186 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 10:09 am to
She is not your mother, not your problem
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
17460 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 10:17 am to
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Plan for a babysitter for the entire day, take off Monday, and procure a hotel room and an 8ball.
Take her to a nice Brunch for a boudin omelet and 12 mimosas.
Then chop a few rails in the car and head to Alex Box to see us sweep Bama at 2pm.

After the game take her to the L'Auberge and check in. Do some rails off her arse and her do one off your cock. Then go for a swim on the roof top pool.
About 8pm, do 3 rails off her titties and she do 2 off your cock and head to the craps table.
Let her roll the dice and have a good time.
Go back to the room, put some blow up her booty hole, and practice for next baby till daylight.
Go home to baby and enjoy the hangover together. Netflix and chill all day.


I already did this with his wife while they were engaged. If he tried to repeat it, it may bring back awkward memories for her.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59323 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 2:40 pm to
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You gave her a child

If that is not enough, you chose poorly

No. You chose poorly if she expects something extravagant. And she chose poorly if you can't do something (even small) for her. Yes, a child is a gift, especially after infertility. But why not frame a nice picture for her, cook her dinner and do the dishes. Super easy and will go a long way.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45551 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 2:53 pm to
Buy her a steak and lick her nethers.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 2:54 pm to
quote:

You gave her a child



What if the infertility was on the guy's part and they had to use donor sperm?



Nothing wrong with doing something to make the day memorable for her. A day she has likely thought of for a long time. Doesn't have to cost a fortune either.

This post was edited on 4/29/18 at 2:56 pm
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99042 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 3:01 pm to
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Having someone do the dishes every night for two weeks or so is like being on vacation!!!


If I wanted to pay someone to do my dishes I wouldn't have gotten married
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138855 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 3:08 pm to
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You gave her a child


What if the infertility was on the guy's part and they had to use donor sperm?

then the mother is petty as frick if she throws that in his face

The point is that OP felt need to let everyone know that he could not mess this up

That implies pretty significant expectations

Mother's day and Father's day are much like Valentine's day. Do it right all year, and that specific day is like any other
Posted by Tridentds
Sugar Land
Member since Aug 2011
24177 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 3:09 pm to
If you were lucky enough to get a photo of her holding the newborn it makes an awesome mother’s day present. Not talking about a picture where she posed. One that you or a family member took where she is looking at the baby with sheer joy like no one else is around. That is a golden gift.

Trust me. My wife has the photo I just describedtaken a few minutes after birth. She never knew about it or saw it until mother’s day.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 3:12 pm to
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The point is that OP felt need to let everyone know that he could not mess this up

That implies pretty significant expectations


Just means he realizes this is important to his wife.


When you are dealing with infertility and haven't had a child yet...Mother's Day is a tough day. You wonder if you will ever get to be the one being celebrated that day. While this woman may not be expecting some huge ordeal made about it...I'm sure she has at least thought "hey...this is my first year to be a mom on Mother's day".

If I have a kid...better believe I'm gonna do something special for my husband for his first Father's day.
This post was edited on 4/29/18 at 3:15 pm
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138855 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 3:15 pm to
Matching family footprints and handprints

There you go
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59323 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 3:18 pm to
Great idea!
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/29/18 at 3:23 pm to
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Great idea!




Agreed. That guy gets it. I think most women would tear up if they got a Mother's day gift like that. 1)It's a great idea 2)reinforces to them how lucky they are to have such a sweet and thoughtful spouse.
Posted by Perrydawg
Middle Ga Area
Member since Jan 2014
5162 posts
Posted on 4/30/18 at 9:10 am to
First Mothers Day was small because my son was only two days old at the time so I got flowers and a card. The next year I got her a ring with my sons birth stones that matched her wedding band
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 4/30/18 at 9:13 am to
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Agreed. That guy fricking sucks. I think most women would tear up if they got a Mother's day gift like that. 1)It's a great idea 2)reinforces to them how lucky they are to have such a sweet and thoughtful spouse.





Look, bitches. Just because you find the unicorn of a man out there with just enough estrogen to a be a thoughtful little bitch of a husband without secretly craving cocks in his holes at night when you're asleep, don't be like "this guy gets it".
Because that shite ain't normal and most good husbands will just buy a spa day or regular gifts for his wife.

And some dumbasses will do what I proposed(and MAY have done IRL).
This post was edited on 4/30/18 at 9:15 am
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