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re: Mother’s Day- when mom and wife are miserable and pouty
Posted on 5/12/19 at 9:53 am to Ron Cheramie
Posted on 5/12/19 at 9:53 am to Ron Cheramie
But they are the mother of your kids. Therefore, you treat them for Mother’s Day as well. Some wives out there need new husbands. Downvote away. In before soy boy or whatever gay shite y’all say.
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Posted on 5/12/19 at 9:54 am to The Mick
Just give'em both the penis.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:02 am to SECdragonmaster
quote:It's not about the material gifts. It's a test to see who gets the most attention or priority when coordinating plans. Can't win either way. It's just how women do it, incredible. I can't imagine being pouty on father's day if my wife wanted to make some big plans for her dad or whatever. Then again, men are way more laid back so I am almost amused by the subtle drama.
If your wife expects more, she is expecting to be treated like a princess which is not healthy. I don’t expect to be treated like a king.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:04 am to Blueprint
quote:Yep. The dudes saying your wife isn't your mother so f her either don't have kids or they're talking shite on the internet and are huge gaping pussies at home.
But they are the mother of your kids. Therefore, you treat them for Mother’s Day as well. Some wives out there need new husbands.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:06 am to The Mick
I can't imagine my mother being that selfish. And I absolutely would never marry anyone that selfish. I feel bad for anyone that has to put up with that
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:08 am to The Mick
Also, when you have young kids everything may be "from" the kids, but guess who has to take care of all that (not that it is really that much trouble)
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:11 am to The Mick
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This post was edited on 12/23/21 at 11:19 pm
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:14 am to The Mick
I know shite's going to get started at my Mothers house. My mother hates my sisters husband, he's an asshat with Mommy and Daddy issues, who takes it out on my Mom, but 2 much of a pussy to say anything to my Father or My Mothers Husband..
I like to poke the bear, and then it's on like donkey kong. This year i won't have 2, the tension is already there, and it's about to burst. Luckily, i'm in good standing right now with my Mother, so i can sit back and chill, no shrapnel my way.
I like to poke the bear, and then it's on like donkey kong. This year i won't have 2, the tension is already there, and it's about to burst. Luckily, i'm in good standing right now with my Mother, so i can sit back and chill, no shrapnel my way.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:17 am to SeeeeK
quote:
SeeeeK
shite stirrer, like a gossipy woman
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:26 am to SeeeeK
Broken home problems
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:30 am to SeeeeK
quote:
in good standing right now with my Mother,
Some of you people have the weirdest home life.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:32 am to LouisianaLady
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Some of you people have the weirdest home life.
You don't even know. It's always drama. It's one reason i do not ever see My Mothers side of family. Just drama, drama, arguments, near fist fights, every get together. Stopped going 10 years ago.
Let's add, that 6 of the 8 siblings on my mom's side are bi-polar, and 5 of the 6 aren't trying to treat it, or get it under control. It's a fun time.
This post was edited on 5/12/19 at 10:37 am
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:33 am to yellowfin
remind me to never get divorced. jesus.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:33 am to The Mick
When are women not miserable
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:38 am to LouisianaLady
I'm glad I don't have to deal with my MIL today. She is the queen of passive aggressive behavior.
She just doesn't know how to act socially. Doesn't have any friends. She has siblings here in AZ but they don't talk to each other. My husband only has one sister so any family get togethers are very small. She won't even talk to anyone she doesn't know at her grandchild's bday parties. Once didn't even go to her grandson's party because my FIL had a minor sinus infection (basically a cold)and she had to care for him.
My poor sister in law. She can't even really get to celebrate Mother's day (even though she has 2 children) cause of having to make sure to properly juggle the day with her own mom and her husband's mother. What makes it worse is my MIL gets really jealous of any time my sister in law spends with her husband's family. She will notoriously not make plans for the day until the last minute...but get upset that my sister in law already made plans with her husband's family for part of the day.
Add to that...my MIL's bday is always right around Mother's Day(it's tomorrow) so that just adds to the drama.
It is like walking on eggshells any holiday get together at my inlaw's house. And holidays HAVE to be at their house. My sister in law was going through IVF one winter and wanted Thanksgiving at her house so she didn't have to travel..nope...my MIL shot that down quick and threw a fit over such a suggestion.
She just doesn't know how to act socially. Doesn't have any friends. She has siblings here in AZ but they don't talk to each other. My husband only has one sister so any family get togethers are very small. She won't even talk to anyone she doesn't know at her grandchild's bday parties. Once didn't even go to her grandson's party because my FIL had a minor sinus infection (basically a cold)and she had to care for him.
My poor sister in law. She can't even really get to celebrate Mother's day (even though she has 2 children) cause of having to make sure to properly juggle the day with her own mom and her husband's mother. What makes it worse is my MIL gets really jealous of any time my sister in law spends with her husband's family. She will notoriously not make plans for the day until the last minute...but get upset that my sister in law already made plans with her husband's family for part of the day.
Add to that...my MIL's bday is always right around Mother's Day(it's tomorrow) so that just adds to the drama.
It is like walking on eggshells any holiday get together at my inlaw's house. And holidays HAVE to be at their house. My sister in law was going through IVF one winter and wanted Thanksgiving at her house so she didn't have to travel..nope...my MIL shot that down quick and threw a fit over such a suggestion.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:46 am to lsunurse
I stopped caring about being my mom’s disappointment years ago
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:48 am to lsunurse
Oh my god, I could never deal with that. What does your husband and/or his brother say/do? Does she react better when it comes from them? Or does everyone just let it be for the sake of getting along? (I don't blame them if so)
I don't know if you ever read /r/JustNoMIL, but it is CRAZY the stories there. It blows my mind that there are so many legitimately terrible women out there terrorizing their son's wives. To the point where "crazy MIL" isn't a trope.. it's a legitimate phenomenon. Maybe there really is something to "bitches be crazy"
My mom is cool as shite so this would never be an issue, but I told her if she ever treats my brother's significant other with anything but complete respect, I will come down on her. I know how it feels and it isn't nice.
I don't know if you ever read /r/JustNoMIL, but it is CRAZY the stories there. It blows my mind that there are so many legitimately terrible women out there terrorizing their son's wives. To the point where "crazy MIL" isn't a trope.. it's a legitimate phenomenon. Maybe there really is something to "bitches be crazy"
My mom is cool as shite so this would never be an issue, but I told her if she ever treats my brother's significant other with anything but complete respect, I will come down on her. I know how it feels and it isn't nice.
This post was edited on 5/12/19 at 10:49 am
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:51 am to Tigerlaff
quote:
You know where this kind of stuff is never a problem? Muslim countries.
I think the US is the only country that culturally inflicts this nonsense on itself.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:52 am to liz18lsu
I don't have issues with my own mom.
She was just happy to get out of the house yesterday with me and away from my dad. Took her shopping and then to a movie and late lunch.
My dad's mental illness is getting worse. His anxiety is so bad that he physically feels ill most days and refuses to drive most of the time(even though he could if he really wanted to). And he is negative and grouchy all day long cause of his mental illness. And my mom doesn't drive (she is kinda simple minded so her learning was never really an option). So they have to use public transportation and Uber to get back and forth to work and the grocery store. Which you can imagine...is costing them hundreds of dollars a month that they really can't afford to spend..but they have to get to work. So they don't get to get out much besides going to work now.
She was just happy to get out of the house yesterday with me and away from my dad. Took her shopping and then to a movie and late lunch.
My dad's mental illness is getting worse. His anxiety is so bad that he physically feels ill most days and refuses to drive most of the time(even though he could if he really wanted to). And he is negative and grouchy all day long cause of his mental illness. And my mom doesn't drive (she is kinda simple minded so her learning was never really an option). So they have to use public transportation and Uber to get back and forth to work and the grocery store. Which you can imagine...is costing them hundreds of dollars a month that they really can't afford to spend..but they have to get to work. So they don't get to get out much besides going to work now.
Posted on 5/12/19 at 10:52 am to Scoop
My mom called me last night crying saying that she wished we lived closer. We love 20 minutes away. This all stems from a post my daughter made on Facebook (she’s 14. No pics) that didn’t include her in her Mother’s Day post. She included her moms grandmother.
My daughter lives 2 hours away and isn’t around my mom a ton. But she acts like it’s a competition and called saying it hurt her feelings that she wasn’t included in my daughters Facebook post.
sigh
My daughter lives 2 hours away and isn’t around my mom a ton. But she acts like it’s a competition and called saying it hurt her feelings that she wasn’t included in my daughters Facebook post.
sigh
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