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Posted on 4/19/26 at 5:52 am to Roy Curado
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I got $1,800 from my money dance. That is not trashy
Folks who call it trashy didn't have one.
We got married in a cane field outside White Castle. We made like $2,500. For a newly Wed couple that was a lot of money.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 6:10 am to LSUGrad9295
quote:It's definitely a white trash thing but I don't think it's exclusive to the South...
I think it is a "Southern white trash thing".
Posted on 4/19/26 at 6:32 am to danilo
Had one at mine over 35 years ago.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 7:08 am to udtiger
Nah, thats not nearly as trashy as the people who ride around with “buy the bride a shot” chalked on their car windows with their Venmo info.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 7:11 am to Tarps99
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Next thing you know they will have a QR code for the bride to Venmo or CashApp them
Would not be surprised to see it printed on the bridal shower invitation, wedding invitation, at the door to the reception, on the bride and groom.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 7:13 am to danilo
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I only have a card. Where do I slide it?
I know where

Posted on 4/19/26 at 7:20 am to danilo
If you can’t afford it then dont worry about it. But if it makes you feel better about being poor I guess it’s ok to come cry about it on a message board.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 7:47 am to LemmyLives
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your only salvation is begging people for money to get out of debt within 5 years over it.
My first wife and I didn't go on a honeymoon because we were young and living paycheck to paycheck. She never got over it. She was asking a year later for my father to send us on a vacation because he didn't pay for a honeymoon. Just another one of my poor decisions in life and one of the reasons she is my EX wife now. My father was in no way obligated to do that and no way I was asking for it.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 7:56 am to danilo
Who are some of you baws marrying? Money dance is usually done by people from third world shitholes like Lebanon, Jordan, and Syria, Philippines, Nigeria etc.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 8:07 am to ronricks
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Who are some of you baws marrying? Money dance is usually done by people from third world shitholes like Lebanon, Jordan, and Syria, Philippines, Nigeria etc.
And Louisiana. I agree. shite hole places.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 8:07 am to Jim Rockford
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No such thing at a Baptist wedding.
Yeah, do you know why Baptists don't engage in sexual activity standing up?
Because people might think they are dancing.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 8:14 am to Alyosha
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Is this a Louisiana thing?
Definitely a southern thing. Usually done by people who complain about beggars at gas stations and street corners, but the concepts are identical as a practical matter.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 8:15 am to Everyday Is Saturday
Last few weddings I’ve been to, I haven’t seen any money pinned. They usually just have a bag they put the money in as people come up.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 8:26 am to Alyosha
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Is this a Louisiana thing?
Maybe but it is certainly an Italian thing. We did it at our NOLA wedding. My wife is from a long time Italian family in NO. (No Mafia and no pics). I don't remember what we hauled in that night. It isn't a ploy to get rich. It's just a nice gesture to wish the bride and groom good luck. Some may pin a dollar, others may give more.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 8:39 am to Alyosha
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Posted on 4/19/26 at 9:03 am to Everyday Is Saturday
quote:I've gone to a dozen wedding in and around New Orleans and have never seen a money dance.
Guessing you are not familiar with S LA.
Posted on 4/19/26 at 9:13 am to Everyday Is Saturday
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A specific dance at start of wedding reception
wrong!
Posted on 4/19/26 at 9:22 am to danilo
The money dance is/was popular at receptions in Cajun country. Never considered it trashy, just cultural in nature. Money is pinned to the bride’s wedding veil, sometimes to the groom’s jacket. It is a great way to dance with the bride. I’m surprised some university professor has not researched the cultural or ethnic origins of this tradition.
I dunno, maybe TulaneLSU knows.
I dunno, maybe TulaneLSU knows.
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