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re: "Men are intimidated by or afraid of smart and powerful women"
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:38 am to tiggerthetooth
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:38 am to tiggerthetooth
My girl makes more $ than me and has a way more prestigious job and the disparity is probably only going to get wider.
It is a little bit of a mindfrick b/c this wasn't the case when we met 5 years ago, but I'm dealing relatively well.
It's not the worst "problem" in the world, but it's also not the "nonfactor" that I was confident it would be.
It is a little bit of a mindfrick b/c this wasn't the case when we met 5 years ago, but I'm dealing relatively well.
It's not the worst "problem" in the world, but it's also not the "nonfactor" that I was confident it would be.
This post was edited on 1/2/20 at 10:43 am
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Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:39 am to ShortyRob
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True It's more accurate to say they are simply, as a group, MUCH more unreliable. Obviously, this doesn't mean none are reliable
Part of the problem with this whole subject is the fact that feminism has overturned the natural order of things. Biologically, traditionally, genetically, men and women need different things in their mates. Men seek sexual conquest for procreation. They look for younger, healthier women in their prime child-bearing years. Women look for men who can provide prosperity and safety for them and their offspring. Ultimately, the propagation of the species is the goal of both. Feminism fricks this up so you get men who are uncomfortable in an "inferior" role and women that don't know how to balance success with biological imperative.
This post was edited on 1/2/20 at 10:40 am
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:41 am to ShortyRob
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But the reality is. American women are actually more likely to cheat now than men are. By a fairly we margin too.
But is that true for economically successful people. We are discussing certain women not “all women.”
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:46 am to ShortyRob
I have a sister in law that is very smart,electrical engineer and MBA by time she was 23.She’s very arrogant,be around her 5 minutes and she lets everyone know she’s the smartest person in the room.Her husband is a big pussy so it works for them.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:46 am to Saint Alfonzo
quote:see. I don't like this terminology.
so you get men who are uncomfortable in an "inferior"
As you stated earlier in your post. Men seek sexual conquest. They PAIR for sexual/emotional security.
Women have effectively eliminated the reason to pair. Men aren't reacting to this with "fear". They're just recognizing that the reason to pair has largely disappeared. So. They go with conquest.
Women, look up and see men not pairing and preferring to treat women as disposable as "fear" but this is silly. Women are being treated in exactly the manner they are ASKING to be treated.
Pussy has ALWAYS been easy to give away. Men have always known this. The change is that now, more and more women happily use their pussy as a constant attention whoring mechanism.
So. Men, who pair for sexual security said...... Ok
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:49 am to ShortyRob
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American women are actually more likely to cheat now than men are. By a fairly we margin too.
Is there anything to back this up?
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:51 am to Antonio Moss
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But is that true for economically successful people.
Yes. Economically successful men have always been more likely to cheat too.
But for most of history, women got something out of those pairings. And. We set up legal frameworks basically institutionalizing this reality.
Remember. Men don't actually ever have children. They simply borrow them for as long as the woman is willing to stay.
That's why often in the past, men cheated but stayed.
Women bear no such risk when they cheat. They can one up the guy, be economically Superior, and STILL keep the kids and get child support.
Men have noticed. That's just rational. Not fear.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:51 am to xxTIMMYxx
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Is there anything to back this up
Yes
Basically every study on the subject in the last ten years
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:52 am to LSUA 75
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I have a sister in law that is very smart,electrical engineer and MBA by time she was 23.She’s very arrogant,be around her 5 minutes and she lets everyone know she’s the smartest person in the room.Her husband is a big pussy so it works for them.
I'm honestly shocked she is married at that age.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:55 am to The Spleen
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Has anyone ever met a single man that was legitimately AFRAID of a woman because she was "too smart" or made too much money?
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Yes.
Several.
My wife's coworker had a fiance that I met at a Christmas party. While talking to him he had brought up about how his fiance would soon be making more than him and he made some comments that seemed like it was kind of an issue. Less than a year after that he ended up cheating on his fiance.
While I haven't met one in person also research the Incel movement. They all have issues with successful women.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 10:57 am to TiketheMiger
Women are closing the gap on cheating. Still haven't seen one study that says they cheat more. I'm going to stop looking.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 11:00 am to ShortyRob
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Women have effectively eliminated the reason to pair. Men aren't reacting to this with "fear". They're just recognizing that the reason to pair has largely disappeared. So. They go with conquest.
I would say that many men do react with fear. Sure, the alphas go with conquest. The betas become scared, angry little incels.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 11:00 am to tiggerthetooth
I think the fear is grounded in the fact that women are much more manipulative than men. So when you have a female boss you have to watch your back more and be extra careful how you speak to her.
Meanwhile she can get away talking down to you like she would her 5 year old kid.
Meanwhile she can get away talking down to you like she would her 5 year old kid.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 11:10 am to Saint Alfonzo
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I would say that many men do react with fear. Sure, the alphas go with conquest. The betas become scared, angry little incels.
Well yes. I guess this category has manifested itself.
Same reasons though.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 11:11 am to Poker_hog
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A rich man would gladly marry a secretary if she’s hot. Not so much with women. You’ll rarely find a female dr married to a blue collar guy.
I don't agree here. Not necessarily about status, but intelligence.
I couldn't see myself marrying someone I thought was stupid and I didn't respect. I'm married, and she's smart and successful.
There's a difference between physical attraction and long term. I don't know how you make it work long term if she's hot but you don't respect her intellectually. Looks fade and you're just left with someone you don't respect.
Posted on 1/2/20 at 11:16 am to Rep520
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There's a difference between physical attraction and long term. I don't know how you make it work long term if she's hot but you don't respect her intellectually. Looks fade and you're just left with someone you don't respect
There are many things one can respect about a person other than just raw intelligence.
I don't know that my grandmother was brilliant. But. She was the absolute epitome of loving, nurturing, and motherhood.
And it isn't like she was an idiot. Feminists often looked at history and saw the men who didn't have the good sense to RESPECT and VALUE such women as the norm. But the reality is, there are many men who are absolutely sensible enough to recognize that such a woman is deserving of great respect and exceptional treatment.
Now. Don't take that to mean I'm saying professional women can't exhibit these features too. They most certainly can.
But these features are highly valuable regardless of income
Posted on 1/2/20 at 11:20 am to xxTIMMYxx
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You can't speak it into existence
Did you notice that there was a category of women who DO cheat more?
I mean. Ok. Old women skew the stats. But, what that graph tells you VERY fast is in the pairing years, women are worse.
Moreover. Right wrong or otherwise, men often cheat and stay.
Women cheat and dump because men cheat to frick, women cheat to improve
This post was edited on 1/2/20 at 11:22 am
Posted on 1/2/20 at 11:35 am to ShortyRob
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I mean. Ok. Old women skew the stats. But, what that graph tells you VERY fast is in the pairing years, women are worse.
You could argue that older women cheat less because of natural biological factors.
Old women (in a very general sense) are less attractive than younger women. This goes back into what both sexes value. Older men are seen as more attractive because they are at the height of earning potential.
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