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re: Meeting your ex's new significant other

Posted on 1/30/20 at 7:36 am to
Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 7:36 am to
Didn't give a flying frick. They're an ex for a reason.
Posted by SnoopALoop
Nashville
Member since Apr 2014
4535 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 7:40 am to
If y'all are truly over each other, it shouldn't be a problem at all. As long as you (and him) are not immature or insecure, it shouldn't be a problem. The kids are still YOUR kids so there's nothing to worry about unless you're a deadbeat.
Posted by Slim Chance
Member since Oct 2012
1626 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 7:50 am to
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Ask him how your dick tastes and he will in turn tell you he loves getting that new pussy you couldn’t reach.


Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
7018 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 7:55 am to
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If you didn't have something about you meeting them before they met the kids in the decree you're an idiot or had a shitty lawyer


I didn't want to be control freak and dictate my ex's life after me.

Or have her dictate mine.


That's not dictating your life or hers, that's protecting you children from seeing a new dude every other week.
This post was edited on 1/30/20 at 7:56 am
Posted by ItNeverRains
Offugeaux
Member since Oct 2007
28166 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 7:56 am to
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Still married, but couldn't have dealt with meeting any of my ex's S.O. Feel for ya baw. That's gotta suck.


I feel the same way. But I’m a happily married man. I don’t have perspective.

My buddy who got divorced got his ex wife’s new husband a job. Every time he sees him he shakes his hand and tells him he can never repay him for fricking his wife. He would have never know true happiness if he didn’t.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:08 am to
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33102 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:27 am to
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It is a milestone of a divorce with kids.

I would be very friendly and even hang out with him. If he is going to be around my kids I want to be on his good side. Like the old saying goes keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
Posted by CHSTigersFan
Charleston, Arkansas
Member since Jan 2005
2738 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:36 am to
I met my ex's "steady" boyfriend once, pure dick. My ex is bi-polar so during one of her rants when I was trying to talk to her the dude wanted to bow up on me. Not fun, now 5 years later after he beat her arse at least once and she had his arse threw in jail, she dropped the restraining order and they live together in a one bedroom apartment with my son sleeping on the couch.

So yeah, not real fun, but it'll get better won't be long till my son is 18 and he has repeatedly told me he is GTFO and moving in with me and my wife until he goes to college.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88831 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:39 am to
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My ex is bi-polar


as was mine, she became a drunk and the village bicycle after we broke up, I didn't give a shite about who she was fricking, and it was almost everyone in town, just the kids, fortunately for me she drank herself to death
Posted by CHSTigersFan
Charleston, Arkansas
Member since Jan 2005
2738 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:41 am to
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as was mine, she became a drunk and the village bicycle after we broke up, I didn't give a shite about who she was fricking, and it was almost everyone in town, just the kids, fortunately for me she drank herself to death

Exactly, I don't give a damn who she whores herself out to, or that her boyfriend beats the shite out of her, just hate like hell that my son has to deal with it!! Thankfully he sees that it's a F*cked up situation and wants out!
Mine smokes like a freight train so I'm hopeful the Reaper gets her quickly, is that bad?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88831 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:45 am to
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is that bad?


nope, especially if she is a bad mother and neglects the kids to further her own primal desires, my ex only valued my kids because they were worth money to her, was a shitty mom and absolutely dropped them like hot rocks when the money was shut off
Posted by CHSTigersFan
Charleston, Arkansas
Member since Jan 2005
2738 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:47 am to
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nope, especially if she is a bad mother and neglects the kids to further her own primal desires, my ex only valued my kids because they were worth money to her, was a shitty mom and absolutely dropped them like hot rocks when the money was shut off
Yep my sons mom thinks of her priorities first and foremost.

My son could stay with his grandma or great grandma and sleep in a bed every night, but since her mom doesn't want her POS boyfriend around she lives at his place and my son sleeps on the couch.

All she cares about is herself and the support she is getting from me they goes to her cigarettes and shite like that.
Posted by Harry Morgan
Member since Sep 2019
10340 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:51 am to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88831 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 8:53 am to
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All she cares about is herself and the support she is getting from me they goes to her cigarettes and shite like that.


she was getting a pretty huge chunk of change form me at first, so money wasn't tight for her, if I sent the kids home in new clothes she'd throw them away, they would come back to me in hand me downs from her neighbors kids, reeking of smoke, tobacco flakes in their backpacks, one time I picked up the youngest from school and he had two left shoes on
Posted by olemc999
At a blackjack table
Member since Oct 2010
15083 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:26 am to
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All she cares about is herself and the support she is getting from me they goes to her cigarettes and shite like that.


frick bitches like this.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72913 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:42 am to
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The ex now has a new S.O. and they are spending lots of time together with the kids.
I would have (but fortunately didn't have to) put up with a lot of shite from Mrs Füt to not have to have another adult man living around my youngins.

Glad that didn't fall out that way.

Feels for folks who have to deal with that issue.
Posted by OlGrandad
Member since Oct 2009
4353 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:53 am to
My best friend married my ex.



Oh, I have never met him, but he is my best friend.
Posted by SantaFe
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2019
7626 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:57 am to
My ex had real mental issues that she hid from me really well.I supported us while she got her Phd. Afterwords,as I got my career really going she became jealous of me and told me that I was too boring because I was tired after the workday. So she decides that she wants a divorce so she could play the field.Now she dates a guy 30 years older than me that is a grandfather. I met a better looking woman at church ( without mental issues)and we now have been happily married for 15 years now.
This post was edited on 1/30/20 at 9:58 am
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
76419 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:57 am to
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That's not dictating your life or hers, that's protecting you children from seeing a new dude every other week.


If I thought that would be an issue I would have full custody of my kid. I didn't divorce a whore though.
Posted by Pedro
Geaux Hawks
Member since Jul 2008
38378 posts
Posted on 1/30/20 at 9:59 am to
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Many times, people will do something they really don’t want to do, I can’t imagine most want to get divorced especially when children are involved. Staying together for the kids is acceptable, providing the couple seeks counseling to work through their lack of communication, respect or selfishness issues.
i agree and he's tried for the last few years but its to the point where he can't do it anymore.

she cheated on him a while back and he tried to work through it but shes done very little to try and make it right until now, after he's filed the papers.
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