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re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:28 am to LNCHBOX
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:28 am to LNCHBOX
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OP doesn't even try, and OT is still blaming the wife.
I've got about four posts here blaming the guy.
It's telling that the OT has suggested the guy buy a Semen Testing Kit or divorce her. I think somewhere in this thread people are advocating some kind of violence/murder.
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Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:29 am to Eric Stratton
Married over 30 years. The correct answer of course is "often enough". You can't put that sort of thing on a schedule always.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:29 am to LNCHBOX
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OP doesn't even try, and OT is still blaming the wife
From OP's info, she's not into it, and he's tired of screwing a dead fish. There may well be some blame for both, but if shes never initiating sex and she doesnt enjoy sex or even act like it, there is a problem with her or their relationship
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:30 am to Upperdecker
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From OP's info, she's not into it
That's not exactly how he said it. He said he senses she isn't into it, even though she's never turned him down.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:31 am to LNCHBOX
My takeaway from that is she's "resigned" to it and maybe just wants it over.
"Is it hard? Well, stick it in. I gotta fold these clothes!"
Chris Rock's wife.
(Whom he has since divorced, BTW
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"Is it hard? Well, stick it in. I gotta fold these clothes!"
Chris Rock's wife.
(Whom he has since divorced, BTW
)Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:32 am to LNCHBOX
His issue is more "how can I make my wife want to have sex" vs agreeing to it.
Having sex with someone who isn't into it is worse than no sex at all. And it's way harder to fix.
Having sex with someone who isn't into it is worse than no sex at all. And it's way harder to fix.
This post was edited on 2/22/16 at 10:35 am
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:33 am to LNCHBOX
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That's not exactly how he said it. He said he senses she isn't into it, even though she's never turned him down.
OK, but she's not initiating sex FOR SURE. That's usually not a good sign
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:34 am to llfshoals
Actually......it's often recommended to put sex on a schedule when couples are struggling in that department.
When you schedule something....more likely to get done. Works for working out, why not for sex?
Agree that every Tuesday night or whenever is date/sex night. Have fun.
When you schedule something....more likely to get done. Works for working out, why not for sex?
Agree that every Tuesday night or whenever is date/sex night. Have fun.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:34 am to Spilled Milk
Been married for 2 days. Made sects 4 times. I'm batting .2000 
While we were dating, at least 2 or 3 times a week
While we were dating, at least 2 or 3 times a week
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:34 am to Upperdecker
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OK, but she's not initiating sex FOR SURE. That's usually not a good sign
Probably because she thinks OP doesn't like it since he doesn't either. Blaming this on the woman solely is just classic OT.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:35 am to LNCHBOX
OP could have low T levels and his wife is depressed. Bad combo there.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:35 am to Spilled Milk
It's up to the couple. Some people have higher sex drives and others don't. If you both are in the low sex drive group, then you are ok. If one of you is not, then there is a big big problem.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:36 am to LNCHBOX
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Probably because she thinks OP doesn't like it since he doesn't either. Blaming this on the woman solely is just classic OT.
There are many many non-troll posts putting some blame on him or questioning what he is doing. However he created the OP and he is the one in the relationship, not us. If his story slants the problem towards her, its natural to question her before him
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:37 am to Upperdecker
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If his story slants the problem towards her,
In my opinion, it doesn't. He's the one not trying when all his wife has done is say yes when he does.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:37 am to LNCHBOX
OP and wife need an adventure.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:38 am to ChandlerB03
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Been married for 2 days. Made sects 4 times. I'm batting .2000
quote:
ChandlerB03
Does not understand decimal placement or batting averages
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:39 am to Upperdecker
I know that more men have gripped to me about this issue than women.
Obviously, a woman (most of the time) is not gonna talk about her sex life w/ a married man anyway.
Obviously, a woman (most of the time) is not gonna talk about her sex life w/ a married man anyway.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:39 am to Upperdecker
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If his story slants the problem towards her, its natural to question her before him
It doesn't slant the story towards her at all. There's no evidence that she's doing anything wrong besides not engaging in a conversation with him about it.
The OT has just decided that because he wants more sex and he's not getting it, it must be her fault.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:39 am to LNCHBOX
If she never turns him down then there is an underlying reason he doesn't initiate more often. Something he ain't telling us.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 10:39 am to LNCHBOX
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In my opinion, it doesn't. He's the one not trying when all his wife has done is say yes when he does.
Alright well if OP ever comes back, hopefully he will read and respond honestly to my series of questions and we'll be able to get a better idea of the problem and give him some advice
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