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re: married men with female friends- possible??

Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:10 am to
Posted by kc8876
Member since May 2012
3595 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:10 am to
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wtf are you talking about? Can you read…what in the frick makes you think I’m female?


Your ridiculous reasoning on this topic and your lack of understanding opposing viewpoints

Oh, and the fact that you won’t shut the frick up about it
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 3:27 am
Posted by Earnest_P
Member since Aug 2021
5120 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 7:33 am to
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It isn’t possible if the man is straight and the chick is frickable. There is always an underlying intention in that scenario. Even if it doesn’t start that way, it will eventually develop into it.


It’s evolution, baby.

I do think it’s probably possible once a man has reached a certain level of holiness, but at that point the man would probably avoid the relationship for the greater good.
Posted by Kreg Jennings
Parts Unknown
Member since Aug 2007
3915 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 7:40 am to
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Any man who says otherwise is either lying or deep in the closet. It's how straight men are wired. Pussy on the brain 24/7.

This.

Pussy is undefeated. This type of scenario has literally started wars (Helen of Troy).

Also, never forget what Chris Rock tried teach us about women and men being “plutonic friends”.
LINK
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 7:44 am
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98774 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 8:05 am to
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have not read the prior posts, but will submit some facts that you all will discount as impossible. I was faithful to both the women I married, and I believe it was clear to them that I would be. They were not. Both were young and quite beautiful and gave in to temptation and flattery of constantly having men desire them. That said, while married to first wife, an ex-girlfriend who also attended our wedding was a sometimes overnight guest in our home. While married to second wife, first (then ex) wife joined us and my in-laws for dinner in a restaurant. Father-in-law declared in front of his daughter (my then wife) that my ex was "a quite impressive young lady" - which was understood by all, that in his vocab, was the equivalent of "smokin' hot". He was wondering, without saying it, why we had ever divorced (of course because she couldn't keep her pants on, though I didn't think anyone was entitled to an explanation). After divorce from second wife, I stayed for a short time as a house guest with my friendly first wife and her then current husband (number three). We are friends to this day, and have gone out to dinner both together and separately. Between husbands, this first ex let me know that she would marry me a second time "because she didn't realize what she had" the first time and had messed up. I was over her by then. I am also very good friends with a former girlfriend and her husband in a neighboring state and usually see them about once a year. We have also gone out to dinner and to baseball and football games together. We are all mature adults and understand that we have certain ethical beliefs. For several decades I got phone calls periodically from young ladies I had dated in college, from as far away as Los Angeles and New York, who also stopped in to visit when they were in the locale. I'm sure that none of this would be possible but for the fact that all of them knew me well enough to know that I was 100 percent trustworthy, and would never cheat on my vows or be a party to cheating by others.


All of that typing to tell us you’re the gay best friend. Congrats on coming out
Posted by LanierSpots
Sarasota, Florida
Member since Sep 2010
70034 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 8:11 am to
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After divorce from second wife, I stayed for a short time as a house guest with my friendly first wife and her then current husband (number three).





Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2440 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:29 am to
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have not read the prior posts, but will submit some facts that you all will discount as impossible. I was faithful to both the women I married, and I believe it was clear to them that I would be. They were not. Both were young and quite beautiful and gave in to temptation and flattery of constantly having men desire them. That said, while married to first wife, an ex-girlfriend who also attended our wedding was a sometimes overnight guest in our home. While married to second wife, first (then ex) wife joined us and my in-laws for dinner in a restaurant. Father-in-law declared in front of his daughter (my then wife) that my ex was "a quite impressive young lady" - which was understood by all, that in his vocab, was the equivalent of "smokin' hot". He was wondering, without saying it, why we had ever divorced (of course because she couldn't keep her pants on, though I didn't think anyone was entitled to an explanation). After divorce from second wife, I stayed for a short time as a house guest with my friendly first wife and her then current husband (number three). We are friends to this day, and have gone out to dinner both together and separately. Between husbands, this first ex let me know that she would marry me a second time "because she didn't realize what she had" the first time and had messed up. I was over her by then. I am also very good friends with a former girlfriend and her husband in a neighboring state and usually see them about once a year. We have also gone out to dinner and to baseball and football games together. We are all mature adults and understand that we have certain ethical beliefs. For several decades I got phone calls periodically from young ladies I had dated in college, from as far away as Los Angeles and New York, who also stopped in to visit when they were in the locale. I'm sure that none of this would be possible but for the fact that all of them knew me well enough to know that I was 100 percent trustworthy, and would never cheat on my vows or be a party to cheating by others.


That’s great for the guy and his exes and their husbands, but i wonder if these loosey-goosey relationships with exes have caused issues in HIS relationships. Most women also care about the emotional aspect of a guy being close with other women, especially exes. Guys don’t want their women having sex with other men but most women don’t want their guy sharing his emotions with other women except maybe family members. I wonder if the guy who posted this is still single.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
91757 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 9:50 am to
I am 58 and have a ton of female friends I grew up with around that age. Granted I only see them when we go to the town I grew up in but there's absolutely nothing Mrs cad has to worry about.

They are some of my dearest friends and I think as we get older there's less of the "oh you're taking to her because you like her" nonsense. They text my wife more than they text me.

Also one of them let us stay at her Airbnb last year when my parents died for a week and they all got together to cook and run errands that week while we were trying to get through all planning.

One had a daughter who was getting married here in Nashville and couldn't afford an elaborate pre wedding dinner so we turned our house into an amazing venue for them and even bought the food. I would do it again tomorrow if she asked.

Absolutely I will be best of friends with them until I die.
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 9:52 am
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26106 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 11:50 am to
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You're not the only one. My wife is my best friend and partner in crime. No one I would rather be with than her


This is probably a great spinoff topic.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
176000 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 11:54 am to
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I am 58 and have a ton of female friends I grew up with around that age. Granted I only see them when we go to the town I grew up in but there's absolutely nothing Mrs cad has to worry about.

That’s not fair Cad, it’s easier to be married and be friends with women after your boner stops working.
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 11:55 am
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
26106 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 12:00 pm to
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That’s not fair Cad, it’s easier to be married and be friends with women after your boner stops working.


He's the tech guy, he uses a bionic boner machine, baw. Solid titanium.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
176000 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 12:02 pm to
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He's the tech guy, he uses a bionic boner machine, baw. Solid titanium.

*Taps metal dick with cane.

“It’s what they use on the space shuttle.”
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
176000 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 12:02 pm to
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 12:02 pm
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
25242 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 12:04 pm to
quote:

I’ve had some very good platonic female friends. They were all utterly unsexy.


Us dudes are so horned up that we will want to frick then BECAUSE they are unsexy, given enough time.

Risking a marriage for a female friend as a dude is so utterly stupid given how bad women are at being friends.

wtf are you gonna do with this friend? Brunch? Lol
This post was edited on 12/29/24 at 12:05 pm
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
83275 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 2:31 pm to
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Risking a marriage for a female friend as a dude is so utterly stupid given how bad women are at being friends. wtf are you gonna do with this friend? Brunch? Lol


Sounds like you have a bad combination of low standards and no impulse control.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
25242 posts
Posted on 12/29/24 at 3:16 pm to
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Sounds like you have a bad combination of low standards and no impulse control.



Have fun with the girlies bro
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