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re: Married couples renewing vows, does it just mean someone cheated?

Posted on 7/12/24 at 12:42 pm to
Posted by Schmelly
Member since Jan 2014
15701 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 12:42 pm to
I’ve seen people do it for like a 25th anny. 3 years? Yeah, somebody frickin somebody else
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
24361 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 12:45 pm to
3 years? Is there gonna be free booze there? If so, sure. Why not?
Posted by LSUBanker
Gonzales, La
Member since Sep 2003
2650 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 12:53 pm to
Are they renewing inside church with a priest. Recently converted to Catholicism?

If so, then renewing makes more sense
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17295 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 12:55 pm to
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Needing to renew vows seems like it’s defeating the purpose of a vow in the first place.


100% agree.

What was the point of the first wedding?
Posted by Kingshakabooboo
Member since Nov 2012
1412 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 12:55 pm to
3 years is indeed weird. Never heard of that. My wife and I will be hitting our 30 year anniversary this year. We discussed possibly doing it. Ultimately we decided not to and to take whatever monies would have went toward that and put it towards a nice anniversary trip to a cabin somewhere up in Arkansas where we can just get drunk and hang out all naked in a hot tub for a few nights.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired - 31 years
Member since Feb 2019
6055 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 1:01 pm to
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I’m being forced to go to a vow renewal this Saturday and not too happy about it. The couple has been married for just over 3 years.

It got me thinking, what’s even the point of these things unless there’s been infidelity going on? And if there has, why would you want to draw attention to it with some big arse production? Were the original vows you made on your actual wedding day not enough? Were you just kidding the first time? Do some people just do this for attention?

Will someone help me understand?


Don't go, just tell your ole' lady you considering turning gay and need time to think.
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
51876 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 1:04 pm to
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Are they renewing inside church with a priest. Recently converted to Catholicism? If so, then renewing makes more sense


Good point
My friends did this after his wife converted to the Catholic Church
It was their family, her parents, his sister & me
Their 2 youngest were baptized at the same time
Posted by pankReb
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Member since Mar 2009
71360 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 1:05 pm to
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If it’s a couple that’s been married 30+ years I can see doing it just to “relive” the wedding experience. But if it’s within 10 years, yeah. Someone 100% cheated or got caught flirting with other people


I would think either this or they just want the attention they got again on their wedding day.
Posted by CAD703X
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Posted on 7/12/24 at 1:53 pm to
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Posted by White Bear
AT WORK
Member since Jul 2014
17159 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 1:56 pm to
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I would think either this or they just want the attention they got again on their wedding day.
Maybe she simply promised him some posse (if he agreed to renew).
This post was edited on 7/12/24 at 1:57 pm
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
84485 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 2:01 pm to
I probably wouldn't have gone to their first wedding in the beginning, let alone a renewal of vows a whopping three years
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
7107 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 2:32 pm to
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My mom and stepdad renewed theirs back in May for their 30th anniversary.


25 or more years makes complete sense. It is something worthy of being celebrated. They are happy and proud and want to share this with their family and close friends.

3 years? Attention seekers for sure. Maybe infidelity since it's not even on their actual anniversary.
Posted by Sterling Archer
Member since Aug 2012
8200 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 2:34 pm to
Did they have a real wedding the first time? Maybe this is their chance to waste money for pictures and videos that they didn't have the money for initially
Posted by Doctor Strangelove
Member since Feb 2018
3308 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 3:42 pm to
I renewed my marriage vows at Buc-ees in Alabama this spring. I also did all my Christmas shopping. It’s such a delightful place.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13501 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 3:47 pm to
3 years is ridiculous. Maybe for a 25 year anniversary or something.
Posted by Wulfgar
Member since Jan 2013
1986 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 4:48 pm to
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They got married New Year’s Eve of 2021. I had to go to that too
quote:

It’s family of my SO

The ceremony isn’t for them. It’s for YOU. You’ve been with your “SO” for at least 3 years. She and her family are ready for you to tie it down. You’re being”invited” so that she can get you to put a ring on it. Good luck
Posted by Wing T
Joint Base Andrews, MD
Member since Aug 2022
588 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 4:51 pm to
I renew my vows each day.
Posted by 62Tigerfan
Member since Sep 2015
5313 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 4:52 pm to
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I renewed my marriage vows at Buc-ees in Alabama




What a place to work! Making fudge one minute, officiating at a wedding ceremony the next.
Posted by Tenfold
Member since Mar 2023
331 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:18 pm to
I thought about it for my 20th.
It would be cool to have my kids there since they weren’t part of the first wedding. I renew my vows daily but a ceremonial renewal and being able to write my own vows would also be cool. I was too small minded to write my vows the first time.

Maybe I could go somewhere nicer with better views as well.
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
4163 posts
Posted on 7/12/24 at 6:45 pm to
Only a woman would pose a 3 year vow renewal........and it's absolutely because she cheated.
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