re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?

Yeah pretty weird that someone would just text a person they just met at the pool while kids were swimming that they feel that other person is unappreciated.

What would make him think that?

the entire acknowledging you sent something inappropriate with a 'lol' but hey lets be serious for a second is a sign he is 100% up to no good.

i got shackles in the back just in case, not really...but serious i have them

The wife sounds pretty naive to leave that door open in the first place.

Wait, did your wife “like” the first message?

id imagine the wife mentioned something along the lines of “being stressed and having her hands full”…

this provided the perfect opening for him in the text.

the truth is that the wife initially opened the door during their pool side talk. she was game to eventually sucking his cock BUT the tool jumped the gun in the very 1st text. he did not play his cards correctly therefore it turned off the wife. If the tool would've played it cool and established a "friendship", the wife would've never shared the text and she would've spread her legs for him around October'ish.

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"Hey our kids are retarded. Wanna massage?"

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This seems unnecessary and a little fricked up considering the OP is the father of one of those kids.

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Get her to respond with a text saying.. That she already has a masseuse but that my husband is looking for one.. That should put out his fuse..

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But what if it doesn’t

This guy is so obviously trying to frick your wife, it’s not even funny. Nothing about that text is about kids playing together. Amazing massages? Unappreciated?

I’m telling the guy that his actions are completely inappropriate, and it better not happen again. Then, I think wifey needs a little talking to, as well, lol. She could have shut that down immediately lol.