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re: Male fatigue
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:34 pm to 4cubbies
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:34 pm to 4cubbies
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It's the experience of being treated like a plaything by mediocre men looking for an ego boost over and over for years.
The incomprehensibly stupid person that knowingly and willingly has sex with homeless men is now upset about “being treated like a plaything by mediocre men”?
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Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:35 pm to Meauxjeaux
yet another example of the patriarchy shutting down women's voices
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:38 pm to Open Your Eyes
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The incomprehensibly stupid person that knowingly and willingly has sex with homeless men is now upset about “being treated like a plaything by mediocre men”?
Hoooold up.
What now?
Please do explain.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:46 pm to Jake88
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Your OP was deleted, so I didnt see it, but, you don't drive an electric???
I have too many kids. Need a third row so I drive a gas guzzler.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:47 pm to UptownJoeBrown
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Are you and all the women posting in this thread typical of how women are today? Holy shite!
Pretty much.
This is what I experienced with 90% of the women I dated before I met my wife. Unless you're lucky like me and find a unicorn. I see why a lot of dudes are becoming passport bros or are staying perpetually single. It's a constant uphill battle with these women.
They complain about not being treated equally but when it comes to equal work or equal difficulty, they fold like towels.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:53 pm to OweO
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Cubbies.. I get what you are saying and I am sure its frustrating, but do you see how what you experienced isn't really a male thing?
Sure. In this particular instance, I just don’t see him treating a male candidate that way though. Maybe it’s just me. He obviously paid the woman in the position before me much more so maybe he just wanted to leverage our relationship to extract cheap labor form me. I’m sure there are women out there who do the same thing.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:54 pm to Defenseiskey
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They complain about not being treated equally but when it comes to equal work or equal difficulty, they fold like towels.
It’s what I always say: they all want to be treated as equals. Until they don’t.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:56 pm to AcadieAnne
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But it sounds like you have an a-hole problem in this case, not a male problem.
Yeah definitely. I told my friend at work about what happened and she said “but didn’t you already know he was kind of a creep?”
I said “I knew he had boundary problems but I didn’t know he was an a-hole.”
He’s an a-hole.
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Ghost this turd. He was trying to use you, and for all you know did the same thing to male acquaintances. He sucks, no matter who all he was harassing.
Great advice.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:58 pm to Jake88
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Apparently. My conservative arse will have to plant a few trees in the back for her offsets.
Thank you for your service.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:58 pm to 4cubbies
quote:So you don't know whether he treats men like this or not
I just don’t see him treating a male candidate that way though. Maybe it’s just me.
You just assumed it was women, even though you know he actually paid another woman more
Maybe it's just you who doesn't deserve respect
Posted on 12/1/25 at 8:59 pm to 4cubbies
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he just wanted to leverage our relationship to extract cheap labor form me.
You are delusional. It’s a state job. He doesn’t set rates for classified jobs (which is what he had you interview for), the state civil service does. He’s not trying to “use you for cheap labor.”
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:01 pm to 4cubbies
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He’s already calling me 3 times a day when I don’t work for him. I don’t want to deal with that stress. I have 3 kids, the youngest of whom just turned one. Nor do I want to spend 10-20 hours a week commuting. It’s not even worth the headache to attempt to negotiate.
If you countered with twice or more of your current or most recent salary working from home three days a week and he said I can make that work, you saying you’d say no?
See this is part of the “be an adult and figure out what you want” part. No one truly says no all the time. You have a price. You need to learn it. What if it’s a quarter mil a year?
Anyone can do anything for a year.
This post was edited on 12/1/25 at 9:06 pm
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:02 pm to 4cubbies
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he just wanted to leverage our relationship to extract cheap labor form me. I’m sure there are women out there who do the same thing.
Oh, so he wanted to marry you.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:02 pm to 4cubbies
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have too many kids. Need a third row so I drive a gas guzzler.
Typical
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:04 pm to Defenseiskey
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They complain about not being treated equally but when it comes to equal work or equal difficulty, they fold like towels.
Is that your takeaway? He pressured me to meet with him 10 days after I had a baby, courted me to work for him for a year, lied about the work conditions to bait me then offered to pay me $35k less than the last person who had the same position (for only 18 months). All while calling me incessantly to pressure me to take his shite offer. This is just unprofessional behavior.
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:06 pm to N2cars
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he just wanted to leverage our relationship to extract cheap labor form me. I’m sure there are women out there who do the same thing.
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Oh, so he wanted to marry you.
post of the year 
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:11 pm to 4cubbies
No it's not but you're doing a nice job of trying to deflect from how stupid the op was
One men don't do this to women only
men do this to man and women do this to women and women do this to men
he was hiring he was trying to get cheap labor to do a job where he could get credit for hiring someone at a reduced rate you are dumb enough to put up with it as long as you did
So logic would dictate I realize that's a foreign language to a woman
that he either did not respect you and didn't respect your boundaries or he does this to others and you're not that special
One men don't do this to women only
men do this to man and women do this to women and women do this to men
he was hiring he was trying to get cheap labor to do a job where he could get credit for hiring someone at a reduced rate you are dumb enough to put up with it as long as you did
So logic would dictate I realize that's a foreign language to a woman
that he either did not respect you and didn't respect your boundaries or he does this to others and you're not that special
This post was edited on 12/1/25 at 9:12 pm
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:20 pm to 4cubbies
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lied about the work conditions to bait me
We already addressed this. He told you about the job in October 2024. WFH was allowed in 2024. Jeff Landry ended that June 30 2025. You interviewed for the job after June 30 2025. He didn’t bait you, the governor set a new mandate for workers to be in the office. Again he has no say in that.
quote:. No. He had you interview for a classified position. That rate is set by the state civil service - not him. You declined. He offered you an unclassified position. Just because someone was paid more in an unclassified position doesn’t mean you should. For all you know they reviewed the jobs and determined she was being paid too much (which is why she was only there 18 months). Since the job is unclassified she had no state civil service protection so they let her go because the rate was higher than what it should have been.
then offered to pay me $35k less than the last person who had the same position (for only 18 months).
This post was edited on 12/1/25 at 9:21 pm
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:22 pm to bcoop199
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That's what women said they wanted, they want all the good but expect none of the bad parts of dealing with the business world.
This. They always want their cake and to eat it too
Posted on 12/1/25 at 9:27 pm to Lsupimp
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Sounds like a guy who likes to play games/waste time and/or manipulate people. Again- glad you are good with your employment. That’s pretty huge by itself.
I’m glad we are friends again
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