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Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:11 pm to kingbob
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Dating apps have women evaluating men almost ENTIRELY based on looks.
Men are doing the same exact thing and that isn’t new to dating apps. Dudes weren’t walking up to frogs 50 years ago
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:17 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
The difference is in how men rate women verses the inverse. Men rate women along a standard bell curve, and have few qualms initiating with women whom they consider “average” in appearance.
Women only consider 10% above average, 10% average looking, and 80% as below average, and thus undatable. This causes essentially all women to pursue a very small pool of men. You can work your arse off to get in that small elite group, but if you’re not, you’re invisible.
The men in that top group have zero incentive to settle down because they’ve got a stable supply of women who give up sex for nothing. They’ll bang women below their league because they’re bored, knowing they don’t have to commit. Women never settle for less because they’ve getting attention from these guys, but get frustrated they won’t commit.
Women are drowning in the ocean while men are dying of thirst in the desert.
If both men and women rated each other’s attractiveness on a similar standard bell curve, this wouldn’t be a problem
Women only consider 10% above average, 10% average looking, and 80% as below average, and thus undatable. This causes essentially all women to pursue a very small pool of men. You can work your arse off to get in that small elite group, but if you’re not, you’re invisible.
The men in that top group have zero incentive to settle down because they’ve got a stable supply of women who give up sex for nothing. They’ll bang women below their league because they’re bored, knowing they don’t have to commit. Women never settle for less because they’ve getting attention from these guys, but get frustrated they won’t commit.
Women are drowning in the ocean while men are dying of thirst in the desert.
If both men and women rated each other’s attractiveness on a similar standard bell curve, this wouldn’t be a problem
This post was edited on 3/25/25 at 1:18 pm
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:19 pm to scottydoesntknow
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I dont agree with this at all. Being charming can make up for a not so nice restaurant or having money. Girls certainly will take advantage of a rich simp that showers her with gifts...but that wont make her attracted to him
I'm not saying it won't work or get you more dates but those women aren't going to just stop talking to 10 other guys and give you all their attention because you were "charming".
Like Mingo said above, those guys may be seen as "mid as frick" because they are charming and not direct.
Everything that is outside of the women's "perfect guy" structure is seen as a negative.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:26 pm to kingbob
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If both men and women rated each other’s attractiveness on a similar standard bell curve, this wouldn’t be a problem
I just don’t think this is true when it’s actually not cutting time on both sides. Dudes know they can always find some ugly chick who’s looking to get dicked down and craves attention, and chicks no they can always find a simp when they want to.
When either party actually decides they want to settle down, they’re honest with what they’re actually looking for.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:34 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
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Dudes know they can always find some ugly chick who’s looking to get dicked down and craves attention
This is way more wrong than you think.
The ugly chicks that want to get dicked down are still searching that 10%.
The ugly fat chicks with kids are available to the other group of guys but also want long term relationships and provide less than nothing.
An ugly fat chick actually approached my friend at a bar. He talked to her just because he's single and she approached him. She got his number and he even asked her out because she was kinda cool and he was bored. She said no and then asked if he wanted to buy pics of her...
Unless you are around these people or go through this shite you really would never be able to understand.
This post was edited on 3/25/25 at 1:38 pm
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:35 pm to kingbob
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Today, it’s all about the three 6’s:
6ft tall
6 pack abs
6 figure income
You are off a bit here. Women want 6'2 minimum. Someone who is active and in shape you don't have to be Mike O'Tren or anything. Women want someone with a good healthy career. Someone who can earn. And lastly they want a man with an 8" dick. Bigger the better. You are right about one thing short men are screwed. Women don't want them no matter the other metrics. Also, get off dating apps and meet people organically. Its so much easier and you can see these people in person and without the edited filtered outdated pics they use on dating sites and them showing up 40 pounds heavier etc. Also, don't get too emotionally involved over any one woman. There are plenty out there if one is being shady stop talking to her and go find someone else.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:37 pm to Dire Wolf
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quote:Different strokes I get it...but this is so low on my list. I dont want any kids I might have going to daycare. I want their mother at home with them. I might actually take points off for highly educated, as it means shes probably highly indoctrinated I hope you are either living somewhere super cheap or are pulling 250k+
I mean I live in Alabama, not exactly NYC or SF. I make enough for my hypothetical wife not to have to work.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:41 pm to Dantheman504
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Unless you are around these people or go through this shite you really would never be able to understand.
I am. I guess I’m not around total losers enough
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:50 pm to Dantheman504
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quote:I dont agree with this at all. Being charming can make up for a not so nice restaurant or having money. Girls certainly will take advantage of a rich simp that showers her with gifts...but that wont make her attracted to him I'm not saying it won't work or get you more dates but those women aren't going to just stop talking to 10 other guys and give you all their attention because you were "charming". Like Mingo said above, those guys may be seen as "mid as frick" because they are charming and not direct. Everything that is outside of the women's "perfect guy" structure is seen as a negative.
This just seems a bit on the black pill side. Everything you say has a grain of truth... but there is always gray area.
Yes you are gonna have to separate yourself from those 10 other men. Shes gotta fear losing you more than she wants to continue entertaining other options. Luckily most guys dont know game, they listen to women and happily line up in the que.
Its also true that you cant be "mid" The gym is a must, a decent career is a must, hobbies and social proof is a must...and all of this is even moreso important if you arent blessed physically.
That said it isnt impossible. If I would move to Poland, I could get married fast. I value my freedom and am entertained enough by my business to forgo dating so im content with being a bachelor. Thats just me though
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:51 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
Or, you’re just older and left your dating phase in the rearview mirror long before technology took over the space. It’s akin to a boomer giving job advice like “just walk in, hand them a resume, and shake their hand!” When most places won’t even look at your resume until you apply online and it gets through some ridiculous ai filtering process. That was good advice, but simply no longer works because the world has changed dramatically since that advice was relevant.
This post was edited on 3/25/25 at 1:52 pm
Posted on 3/25/25 at 1:52 pm to kingbob
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Or, you’re just older and left your dating phase in the rearview mirror long before technology took over the space.
I’m younger than you, DA
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:02 pm to scottydoesntknow
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I mean I live in Alabama, not exactly NYC or SF. I make enough for my hypothetical wife not to have to work.
you also got to deal with Alabama tier chicks
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:03 pm to Dire Wolf
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you also got to deal with Alabama tier chicks
LOL, so trashy.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:05 pm to Dire Wolf
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you also got to deal with Alabama tier chicks
They are the same as anywhere else
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:07 pm to scottydoesntknow
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hey are the same as anywhere else
A little less toothy.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:09 pm to jizzle6609
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quote:hey are the same as anywhere else A little less toothy.
Sure...im sure whatever little hole in louisiana youre from is just classy, fit girls everywhere
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:24 pm to scottydoesntknow
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quote:hey are the same as anywhere else A little less toothy.
Sure...im sure whatever little hole in louisiana youre from is just classy, fit girls everywhere
Not at all my brother, major sluts and adulterers here. I would imagine where I'm from is far above the average in alcoholism, divorce rate, bankruptcies, etc.
Its pretty easy to succeed when you see everyone else always fricking up.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:27 pm to ronricks
Woman will freak any man with 7 figures in the bank and $100 bills in his wallet. Looks, height, weight, etc do not matter.
Posted on 3/25/25 at 2:41 pm to scottydoesntknow
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a girl is gonna have to show interest first
You are going to miss out on 95% of women who would date you with this approach. Young women haven’t changed that much in 20 years. They want the guy to ask them out. It doesn’t have to be some place expensive. Go on a picnic somewhere. Go to a museum, but they want to be asked. If she says no because you aren’t offering to spend a lot a money on a first date, then you probably dodged a bullet.
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