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re: Made mistake of offering wife a solution to a problem

Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:10 pm to
Posted by Tigers0891
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2017
6953 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:10 pm to
Women hate being told basic things. They always have.

Unfortunately for us modern lads, the buzzword mansplaining exists. So if you try to make any kind of point, whether it’s a solution to her problem or just you explaining a situation in your own life, it’s “mansplaining” and being an a-hole.

But don’t think this means “JUST LISTEN”. No. Just listening and offering little means “you don’t communicate”.

What do you do? I don’t know. No one does. Hence the divorce rate.

Cherry on top of this post? My iPhone doesn’t try to autocorrect mansplain.
Posted by EZE Tiger Fan
Member since Jul 2004
54702 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:10 pm to
I don’t miss this shite one bit
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
153878 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:11 pm to
Women be shoppin’, man.

Women be shoppin’.
Posted by Mariner
Mandeville, LA
Member since Jul 2009
2337 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:11 pm to
When women bitch about a situation, they want the man to listen, have empathy, and be supportive.

When I man hears a woman bitch about a situation, they are wired to solve the issue.

It’s nothing new.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130481 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:11 pm to
quote:

Waiting on a midnight stabbing.


A little midnight stabbing can solve more than a few problems
Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
20481 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:12 pm to
What were the solutions you offered up?
Posted by Christopher Columbo
Member since Jun 2015
2541 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:13 pm to
A bunch of betas in this thread. When I give my wife permission to speak, she knows better than to pull that kind of shite. I suggest you exercise the "obey" portion of your vows.
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
16705 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:13 pm to
quote:

I accidentally mentioned dust on the Peleton the other day. I feel your pain.

No, no, your pain will be much worse.
Posted by Costanza
Member since May 2011
3255 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:15 pm to
quote:

I accidentally mentioned dust on the Peleton the other day.



Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
22344 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:33 pm to
quote:

“mansplaining” 


If my wife ever uses that word when I'm trying to explain something to her, I'm immediately calling a divorce attorney.
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
41807 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:36 pm to
It's not about the nail
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
65867 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:42 pm to
quote:

What were the solutions you offered up?


For the special treatment of the CEO's kid, to bring up the situation to her immediate supervisor and continue to bring it up to them about how it is taking away some pay for her (she gets some commissions)
Funny, is that she muttered the exact same thought out loud as to what she'll do from now on.

For the tired sleepy feelings in the morning, I suggested cutting out the caffeine tea at night. I even offered to brew decaf tea for her. Also, suggested going to bed at the same time every night.
Neither suggestion went over well. No idea why
Posted by LessofLes
Member since Sep 2010
1695 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:53 pm to
Every man should watch this and make their sons watch this to get a better understanding of the female psyche.

Funniest/truest video out there.

It’s not about the nail
This post was edited on 8/22/23 at 6:54 pm
Posted by threeputtforbogie
Addison, TX
Member since Sep 2017
942 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 6:57 pm to
quote:

YOU'RE SUCH AN a-hole! (this is the response you'll get)


I should mention I proposed this strategy to my wife before implementing it. So far, so good.
Posted by lsufan1971
Zachary
Member since Nov 2003
21774 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:03 pm to
Wife: put your air pods in your tablet is too loud

Me: no problem

Wife: blah blah blah

Me: what did you say?

Wife: I’m not saying it again

FML
Posted by JoeNelson
Member since Sep 2019
427 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:15 pm to
I had a huge fight this weekend with my wife. I’ve asked her no less then 20 times to not wake me up if I fall asleep on the couch. Friday night after a long hot week of work I fall asleep on the couch she wakes me up at 10 because I was still in my work clothes ( khaki shorts and a polo) I lost my shite for a minute she has been mad for days.
Posted by RougeDawg
Member since Jul 2016
6881 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:20 pm to
Listen until she gets tired.

Agree with whatever solution she is considering.

Have sex.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
117961 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:21 pm to
Just say "that sucks" every once in awhile as she talks and you would avid a lot of problems.
Posted by ArkLaTexTiger
Houston
Member since Nov 2009
2539 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:38 pm to
You were given two ears and one mouth so listen more than you talk.
Posted by AcadieAnne
Space Force Cadet 1st Class
Member since May 2019
1661 posts
Posted on 8/22/23 at 7:41 pm to
What's wrong with that? It lets men know what's expected up front. If I do want a solution, I'll start with "What do you think about...". Keeps everyone on the same page.
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