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re: Losing a loved one during the Holidays
Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:48 pm to meauxjeaux2
Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:48 pm to meauxjeaux2
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Lost my pops last week
man, i am truly sorry to hear this meaux... my hope for you is that you find peace soon about it...
i lost my grandfather 18 years ago on Dec. 13th, and it gets easier with time, but i'd be lying if i said i didn't still think about it...
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Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:49 pm to LSUintheNW
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while my brother was having cpr performed on him by the Coast Guard.
What happened to him????? If you don't feel like answering I completely understand......
Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:51 pm to meauxjeaux2
I lost my mom on New Year's Eve 10 years ago this year. New Year's Eve was difficult the first couple of years but now means something more. It's a time for my brothers and I to celebrate the most wonderful, selfless person we've ever known or ever will know.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:52 pm to meauxjeaux2
a family friend blew his brains out on Christmas eve because he lost his job and he was like 500k in debt. his wife hasn't recovered.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:53 pm to Will Cover
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Whoever down votes a person that recently (or at anytime) has lost someone that is near and dear to them can eat a bag of dicks. I love the OT for what it is, but many of you are a bunch of pussies that hide behind the keyboard. I would love to see the upvote | downvote feature reveal who actually does this.
I will never understand how this could happen... I just noticed this after reading your post... I know its just a message board, But those who downvoted need to be held accountable........
Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:56 pm to dukke v
I think downvotong means different things to different people. I didn't vote either way for the OP, but I assumed down voters were showing they were sad for the OP and didn't like the news. Up voting such a sad post seems weird to me.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:57 pm to fr33manator
That's a great way to keep his memory alive. 
Posted on 12/18/15 at 6:58 pm to dukke v
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His bday is New Years eve. Lot of alcohol and weed will be consumed.
You think that is the best way to handle this man???? Not harping on ya, Just thinking of being with the Family would seem like a better idea.... However you choose be careful.
I'm just going to celebrate his bday like I always did. This'll be a first though celebrating with tears in my drink.
I'm careful. I don't drive anywhere on NYE. Won't be with family but I'll be with my lady.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:03 pm to meauxjeaux2
My bil was killed in Vietnam right before Christmas. That sucked.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:03 pm to fr33manator
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Not that it matters to him, maybe, but it helps me to feel that he's not forgotten. Maybe it's silly, but I don't want him to be lonely.
I think you're the one who feels lonely. You're missing a piece of you that can never be replaced. You have to believe that he would not want you to be or feel so isolated and that the thought of him should comfort you. He knows you won't ever forget him. Just my 2 cents. Keep staying strong
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:05 pm to meauxjeaux2
Three weeks ago we were told my grandmother has cancer and it's pretty much every where now. She's been given 2-6 months to go so this is most likely her last Christmas. Her birthday is also Christmas eve which doesn't help.
It's not the same as grieving a lost love one but it still hurts.
It's not the same as grieving a lost love one but it still hurts.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:05 pm to dukke v
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What happened to him????? If you don't feel like answering I completely understand......
I would but the few clues I'd give would be instantly searched by the OT and his story would come up very easily and my last name would be known.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:08 pm to LSUintheNW
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I would but the few clues I'd give would be instantly searched by the OT and his story would come up very easily and my last name would be known.
I can understand this... God bless ya bud....
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:15 pm to meauxjeaux2
God bless you and your family. I hate it for you but there is no good time to lose someone you love. Praying for you guys. Hang in there.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:17 pm to 13SaintTiger
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think you're the one who feels lonely. You're missing a piece of you that can never be replaced
I agree with this. This is how I feel. I have plenty of friends and plenty to keep me busy but I'm just lonely.
My brother and I weren't even as close as we were our first 26 years together. Now, if I could just have one last conversation with him I'd give up everything I have.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:17 pm to meauxjeaux2
Lost my dad 10 yrs ago this month. Really put a damper on Christmas for a while. Over time you start to heal somewhat, but there's always a missing piece, especially over the holidays. Stay close with your Mom and siblings, be each other's safety net. I'm so sorry for your loss, but believe it or not it gets better with time. Be patient and keep your glass half full.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:19 pm to meauxjeaux2
My granny passed Wednesday night. Gramps went in may. It will be the first Christmas I've had without them. Just how it goes I guess.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:24 pm to Peazey
I'm sorry to hear that. Condolences.
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:28 pm to meauxjeaux2
My grandfather died a few weeks before Chrsitmas a few years ago. He always said he wanted to live long enough to see all of his grand- children graduate college.
He died in his sleep 2 days after attending my youngest cousin's graduation ceremony
He died in his sleep 2 days after attending my youngest cousin's graduation ceremony
Posted on 12/18/15 at 7:43 pm to meauxjeaux2
Sorry for your loss - I know how you feel....
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