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re: Looks like it’s the end of the marriage line boys
Posted on 8/9/18 at 2:57 pm to Chad504boy
Posted on 8/9/18 at 2:57 pm to Chad504boy
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All the arse ahead of you
Speaking of.....
Is your step daughter 18 yet?
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Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:03 pm to yellowfin
You need some jaysis.
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:13 pm to StupidBinder
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But...there’s probably a reason that she did this. Were you two already having problems when your kid was born? Did she have any signs of postpartum depression?
I know she had postpartum, but refused to go see anybody for it, still refuses now. She thinks shrinks are quacks. Sure we've had a few minor things from the start, and she keeps bringing up some of those minor things now, many years later in current arguments. Seems like she's been in this marriage just for the kid and financial security, and she's already admitted to me before that she doesn't have any love for me any more. If you can't get anything at home, you're going to seek it out elsewhere eventually. I'd rather not do it by cheating on her, and I didn't just want to abandon her and my kid. We've been trying to work it out, but eventually it's C'est la vie and peace out. As George Strait would say "You can't make a heart love somebody."
This post was edited on 8/9/18 at 3:17 pm
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:15 pm to lowhound
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She thinks shrinks are quacks.
agree with her on that
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she's been in this marriage just for the kid and financial security,
sounds like it
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:22 pm to lowhound
Do what you gotta do, just don't google "chloroform".
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:23 pm to GeauxLax
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Sorry to hear. It's over already for here. She's already detached
"I don't think she wants our marriage to end but she says she doesn't love me anymore and wants nothing to do with me."
That's what it sounds like but I have been with her long enough to know that she is just looking for a way out of this mess but she doesn't really want divorce. She just doesn't see any other way right now and she doesn't believe it can get better because it hasn't.
I didn't put a real effort in it. She didn't either. We just need time and to fix ourselves. I helped as much as I could around the house and she misses that when I'm gone. Maybe it's over but I think there is dim bulb at the end of the tunnel. She is emotionally spent. I'm a man hard wired to fix things with my hands and I can't fix her. I have to fix me. I know if both of us put a real effort that our marriage would work. It's going to take alot of time.
When she moved back it was too early. She admitted that she she had no real reason to move back in. She was tired living at her sisters house but she won't admit that part. I'm leaving this time. She will have the house to herself and all the responsibility.
I talked to her. If it was 100% over I would know it. She will still have access to the checking account with all my money to continue paying the bills. I don't think I can find another woman that I trust with my money and thats a fact. She isn't a gold digger. She understands that it will be 10x harder without me. I will see her in 3 weeks to discuss more with her and grab some things.
My birthday is today and 2 days before I got this to deal with. It's fine. I can handle it. She was hesitant about marriage counseling again but she is somewhat open to it. Like I said man if it was over I would know it. I have alot of soul searching to do to make things right and she knows that. I'm hopeful.
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:26 pm to saintsfan1977
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. She will still have access to the checking account with all my money to continue paying the bills.
my god.
it's like you people dont even care.
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:26 pm to saintsfan1977
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My birthday is today
Happy birthday man, I hope you can still enjoy the day
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:27 pm to jchamil
Thanks buddy. I got a cake too lol
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:30 pm to saintsfan1977
Happy Birthday.
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:31 pm to CptBengal
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my god.
it's like you people dont even care
Dude I been with her long enough and been away from home long enough. If I had the slightest inkling of a thought she would drain the account I wouldn't do it. She is still helping me pay some debts off. When I tell you I doubt I can find another woman as trust worthy as this I'm not lying.
My attitude is a big problem in this relationship. If she sees me change that I believe we can make it.
This post was edited on 8/9/18 at 3:33 pm
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:32 pm to saintsfan1977
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. I'm leaving this time. She will have the house to herself and all the responsibility.
I talked to her. If it was 100% over I would know it. She will still have access to the checking account with all my money to continue paying the bills
You bought the house, right?
This is a terrible mistake. You're just setting yourself up to get fleeced hard.
Do you enjoy the thought of her banging a new guy in the house YOU paid for?
This post was edited on 8/9/18 at 3:33 pm
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:49 pm to saintsfan1977
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She will still have access to the checking account with all my money to continue paying the bills.
Mother of God, NO!
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:50 pm to tiggerthetooth
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You bought the house, right?
This is a terrible mistake. You're just setting yourself up to get fleeced hard.
Do you enjoy the thought of her banging a new guy in the house YOU paid for?
LOL. This is THE OT.
No. We are renting a house. I bought a house years ago and then she wanted to move closer to her family so we did. I rented mine out and I can't evict them.
If she is stupid enough to bring Jody in the house with my kids, Her life will be alot worse off for 12 months. She would never do that to me or the kids.
There is absolutely no talk of attorneys right now. When there I will proceed to get the best one and she will end up with a court appointed attorney.
I have access to my account. I can see where every dollar goes.
This post was edited on 8/9/18 at 3:52 pm
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:58 pm to lowhound
Need me to hold onto your money for a while? I promise not to spend it all.
Posted on 8/9/18 at 3:59 pm to saintsfan1977
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If she is stupid enough to bring Jody in the house with my kids, Her life will be alot worse off for 12 months
once separated you can't dictate her behavior unless the court deems it to be unsafe for the kids
"she will end up with a court appointed attorney."
uh, no, a lot of attorneys will represent her on the contingency that you will be on the hook for her legal fees, and it's very likely that the court would rule that way
Posted on 8/9/18 at 4:42 pm to 777Tiger
We aren't legally filing separation. I'm moving out. We will talk some things over and not worry about court proceedings until she says we need an attorney.
Posted on 8/9/18 at 4:48 pm to saintsfan1977
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We aren't legally filing separation.
doesn't really matter
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I'm moving out.
that does, you have made a voluntary separation
Posted on 8/9/18 at 4:52 pm to saintsfan1977
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We aren't legally filing separation. I'm moving out. We will talk some things over and not worry about court proceedings until she says we need an attorney.
lol.
1. you give her all the money.
2. you give her the house
3. you gave her custody
...and you think later on with alawyer you wont get fricked?
you already fricked yourself.
Posted on 8/9/18 at 5:00 pm to saintsfan1977
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We aren't legally filing separation. I'm moving out. We will talk some things over and not worry about court proceedings until she says we need an attorney.
Are you in Louisiana? There is no legal separation here. The clock for the divorce waiting period starts when you move out.
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