re: Let's talk about porn

I'm 53 and thankful the web wasn't around when I was about 10. Hell I'd probably still be locked up in my bedroom.
We had the National Geographic .

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We had the National Geographic .

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Worst boobs of all time

It's an interracial site

Nothing like seeing a 98 lb white girl getting gangbanged by 5 black guys

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not sure if i should be flattered or offended

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Definitely flattered

Long story short...I basically crashed your party and you handled it with class. I was embarrassed when I woke up

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and my standard for how attractive my significant other needs to be has reached an absurd level.

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No point in setting the bar low.

That's why if I do break down and check out porn, I search over 60 BBW. By looking at only old fat women naked. My erectometer is calibrated at a low level. For example a OT 1.5 IRL 4.78 would literally bust my zipper. A IRL 6+? There are not words to describe that level of hard. Only a sound. It gives off a low hum. Almost like a natural vibrator.

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how it can frick up your brain

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Well for 1 thing, the brain is a mass of meat between your ears, it can no more think than the mass of meat between your legs.

The mind is another matter, you can definitely twist and warp parts of it with anything used to fill a void, or escape from reality. Fantasy is an attempt to release pressure, so to speak, escape reality, kill pain.

Fapping to porn is not about sex, it's about a thirst that cannot be quenched by anything in, or of this world, it really is a longing to be with God, believe it or not, but a poor substitute to say the least. If obsessed by it, you will begin to withdraw and isolate from society.

The above is for you, the one who is obsessive about it. You are likely the 1 who cant seem to find porn filthy enough to satisfy you, and it goes to places the human mind ought not go. If you are that guy, be careful, it can lead to actions that can land you in a really bad place for a really long time.

Now, if you pull up a page, see what you need to see, do what you need to do, get it over with in 5-10 minutes 2 or 3 times a week, and get on with your life, then you are not obsessed and will probably be fine.