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Posted on 2/4/25 at 12:56 pm to
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 2/4/25 at 12:56 pm to
Me and my wife were kinda planning out future family vacations and where we all wanted to take our kids.

For budget reasons, we are kinda planning international travel every other year.

Our oldest is turning 12 in a few months and it broke my heart that we likely only have like 6-8 more summers where she will be traveling with us.

I find myself already having to think about vehicles and the timing of paying off notes and whatnot so I suddenly don't have 3 car notes.

This all happened way too fast.

Posted by MintBerry Crunch
Member since Nov 2010
5854 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 12:57 pm to
Can’t believe my oldest is 7 already
Posted by thegreatboudini
Member since Oct 2008
7102 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 12:59 pm to
I've got a 2.5 yr old and a 4month old and I'm considering throwing another in the wife just to drag this out. Having a great time with my kids. I kind of like the pain the little one brings.
Posted by LA Lightning
Member since Jun 2023
753 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 2:05 pm to
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We all hear it. We all know it. But man, it happens faster than you can even imagine.


Or even faster than unimaginable. My daughter grew up at warp speed, or jumped to light speed, or bent the space-time continuum. I had the somewhat unique experience as a single dad raising a profoundly gifted IQ kid. Seems like just last week I was reading to her each night. By age two she was reading to me. Took her to her first LSU football game and she read 150 pages of Harry Potter during the first half, at age 7. She started going to classes at a university at eleven years old, now has multiple college degrees and in a couple months will be a doctor. All in the blink of an eye. Each day you have is special and to be cherished.
Posted by LBro337
Lousiana
Member since Jan 2019
369 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 2:20 pm to
Mine 1st born turns 1 on the 18th. He is truly the best thing to ever happen to me. I never thought I could love someone so deeply until he arrived. He is my best friend and I enjoy every moment together! Future LSU Linebacker -RAB
Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
43337 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 2:20 pm to
Mine starts middle school in a year and a half. It makes me sad. She's not my little baby girl anymore.

ETA: Serial downvoter hates kids.
This post was edited on 2/4/25 at 2:23 pm
Posted by Giantkiller
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Member since Sep 2007
24658 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 2:27 pm to
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Kids growing up… holy crap it happens fast


I can't even read threads like this. Chokes me up. But to any new parents out there, soak every bit of it in. It's really something.
Posted by Cleary Rebels
Member since Oct 2024
2899 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 2:28 pm to
Like a whirlwind - soak it up - one at LSU and one graduating HS this year - empty nest coming.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
60522 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 2:36 pm to
The empty nest is fun as hell. You get to resume your life if you’ve done your job and raised the kiddos to be good, independent decision making units.

Enjoy affordable car insurance again but I don't think they ever come off your phone bill.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
89172 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 2:36 pm to
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The empty nest is fun as hell


yessir
Posted by GatorReb
Dallas GA
Member since Feb 2009
9404 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 2:43 pm to
I have a 9 year old boy.
My middle boy is turning 7 tomorrow.
My youngest boy is turning 3 Saturday.
We are sitting in labor and delivery awaiting the birth of boy #4.

Crazy when a Facebook memory hits and shows my boys younger and it seems like yesterday.

I know it’s already been posted but “the days are long and the years are short” is the best thing ever.
Posted by Cleary Rebels
Member since Oct 2024
2899 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 3:01 pm to
Mine totaled 3 cars - I can’t wait
Posted by FredBear
Georgia
Member since Aug 2017
17002 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 3:15 pm to
quote:

It took 900 years to go from Kindergarten to 5th grade....and then 14 seconds to go from 6th grade to HS graduation



I never thought of it that way but there is a lot of truth in this
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
42131 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 3:33 pm to
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It took 900 years to go from Kindergarten to 5th grade....and then 14 seconds to go from 6th grade to HS graduation.


This.
Posted by LSU1SLU
Member since Mar 2013
7901 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 3:43 pm to
How do I do all this when I am required to work and also takes 45 minutes to 1 and half commute
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60781 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 3:56 pm to
My wife just hung up from our daily who is running who to where and what needs done conversation

After hanging up I remembered that my older boy drives in two months.

All that frustration turned to a bit of melancholy.

I’ll be frustrated again tomorrow.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60781 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 4:00 pm to
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don't prioritize family enough in this country. We work ourselves to death only to look back and wish we spent more time with our loves when it's too late and laying on our death beds.
my only regret is not remembering all the cool shite when they were toddling around. I don’t know if anyone does fully, but I can’t remember crap other than moments here and there
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Member since Feb 2008
23952 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 4:02 pm to
I just spent Sunday morning babysitting my grandson.


I was changing his dad’s diaper yesterday it seems. That shite hit hard. I read him the same book I read his dad 10,000 times. Splish Splashy Day.


It’s crazy how fast time really goes and how short our time on this marble is.
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
20679 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 4:05 pm to
All true.

Until your first grandchild arrives. Then you can choose to start the cycle anew if you did a good job with your child.

It’s not quite the same, but in ways it’s better because you appreciate it more.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40025 posts
Posted on 2/4/25 at 6:24 pm to
Our youngest will be 24 on the 14th.

Older 2 are married and we have o e grandbaby.

It all happened in the blink of an eye. I’m still adjusting to having only me and my husband at home. I refuse to feel old .. and I’m working on keeping myself healthy and strong. I want to be around for more grandbabies when that time comes!
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