Started By
Message

re: Kids credit / debit cards?

Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:28 am to
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
38283 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:28 am to
My dad co-signed a small like $1500 limit credit card when I started driving

Used only for emergencies of course but it helped to build my credit score up from an early age

Highly recommend others to do that .

Also, we used cash for most everything growing up so I realize that part isn’t something people do anymore
This post was edited on 12/9/22 at 9:30 am
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53504 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:28 am to
quote:

Can’t believe all the people giving their kids a debit card smh

I can’t believe people are still using debit cards in the year of our lord 2022

I'm not giving a teenager a credit card
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33049 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:29 am to
quote:

Well they can't have credit cards except as authorized users. I'll add them as a user to help them build credit, but I'm sure not handing over a card with a 20k+ limit to them.

open one with a $1,000 limit on it and add them as a user.
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
7938 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:31 am to
Got my daughter a GreenLight card when she was 8
Posted by NATidefan
Two hours North of Birmingham
Member since Dec 2008
36787 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:31 am to
quote:

open one with a $1,000 limit on it and add them as a user


I might with my son when he gets older. My daughter just turned 18 and now has her own credit cards. Son is only 13 and doesn't really need either right now.

Can you request a lower limit? I've always tried to get the highest limit, lol.
This post was edited on 12/9/22 at 9:33 am
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112835 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:31 am to
quote:

It looks like Chase has an option for joint accounts for kids 6-17
My kids are 11 now, and I plan to go this route once they get cell phones.

Luckily they haven't really asked us much about cell phones so we're going to milk that as long as we can. They're mostly responsible but I can't imagine them with cell phones and going to their friends houses to play, seems like a disaster. We had an old cell phone they used around the house only and only to play games on it. The legit one and only time I allowed one of them to take that phone when we went to a Monster Jam thing, he lost it at the venue lol.

But I'm guessing in the next year or 2 we'll finally break down and get em cell phones. They're savers, so they both probably have around $1k each saved up, so I'd want to get them used to handling their money electronically so I'd want to deposit all their money into their accounts, and less so for the actual debit card itself, but more so letting them "handle" their money electronically.

Most of what they spend, we buy for them and they give us their cash, so it would be cool for them to learn how to do the exact same idea but going to their phones and transferring the money out of their accounts or just downright buying it online with our help but paying with their cards.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
178782 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:32 am to
quote:

GreenLight card when she was 8




don't you pay fees for that? frick that. Till free.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112835 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:33 am to
quote:

I'm not giving a teenager a credit card

You're not wrong in theory but that teenager is going to be 18, leave your house, and then have to handle money on their own. Seems like a good idea to get them a card before they go on their own entirely. It can be a smaller limit, just something to get used to.
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
25891 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:34 am to
I want my daughter to see money show when she deposits it, and see it go as she spends it. I don't want her to just be able to spend. I like the idea of her managing the balance.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
178782 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:34 am to
quote:

You're not wrong in theory but that teenager is going to be 18, leave your house, and then have to handle money on their own. Seems like a good idea to get them a card before they go on their own entirely. It can be a smaller limit, just something to get used to.


why is credit spending any different to a 16 year old than debit spending? debit spending deducts of what is actually there. You don't want to gift them the idea of spending what is not even really there.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60485 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:34 am to
open a card with a low limit and add them as an authorized user. wayyyy safer than a debit card and almost certainly a better tool to learn about personal finance.
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
115096 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:35 am to
My kids got checking accounts and debit cards when they were sophomores in HS (and debit cards).

It's a good way to teach them about money and spending.
Posted by Seen
Member since Aug 2022
1127 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:35 am to
I have a 25,20, and 16 y/o and have never done that for any of them
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60485 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:35 am to
quote:

why is credit spending any different to a 16 year old than debit spending? debit spending deducts of what is actually there. You don't want to gift them the idea of spending what is not even really there.

kids are dumb and lose their stuff and/or get scammed

rather lose the CC company's money than your own real money
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
38283 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:41 am to
quote:

that teenager is going to be 18, leave your house, and then have to handle money on their own. Seems like a good idea to get them a card before they go on their own entirely. It can be a smaller limit, just something to get used to.


This is all so true

And plus it helps a teen with responsibility and trust . To be responsible using the card and acknowledging the parents trust the teen with the credit card itself

Of course there are consequences for abuse of the card and those should be made clear
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
298305 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:41 am to
quote:

I'm not giving a teenager a credit card


I give grandkids a debit card, they can use it, and add money when they get paid if they choose.

Way preferable when dealing with adolescents as they learn responsibility. They spend $300 and its gone.

It helps with economics education to manage their own accounts.



Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53504 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:44 am to
quote:

open a card with a low limit and add them as an authorized user. wayyyy safer than a debit card and almost certainly a better tool to learn about personal finance.

She can learn about spending money she doesn't have in theory vs practice. She doesn't have a job or income. What's that going to teach her?

I don't really care if her debit card number is compromised. She never has more than $100-200 on there
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
102067 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:47 am to
quote:

I got my son a student checking account when he was 13, Capitol One was the only bank we could find that would set it for us....of course we had control over it but it was his money, I just had to sign him up and authorize him to have it......not many banks will open up an account for kids under 16


and you need an ID to set up their own account, which we also did.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
178782 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:48 am to
quote:

kids are dumb and lose their stuff and/or get scammed

rather lose the CC company's money than your own real money


the way my till works, i transfer monies into a parent account that sit there. I do manual transfers to each of my kids' cards. they never have more than say a $100 or so or if whatever needed.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
16598 posts
Posted on 12/9/22 at 9:48 am to
Zero reason for a kid to have a credit card. Checking and/or debit card, yes if they have a job and are earning income.
first pageprev pagePage 2 of 3Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram