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re: Just told a chick her husband cheated on her
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:49 pm to RougeTiger
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:49 pm to RougeTiger
You outed this affair on Facebook didn't you?
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Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:49 pm to RougeTiger
This board is peculiar. If a poster mentions cheating he/she is lambasted as scum yet, when someone asks if they should tell someone else about infidelity they get told to mind their own business.
You made the correct choice. If my wife was cheating I'd want someone to tell me.
You made the correct choice. If my wife was cheating I'd want someone to tell me.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:50 pm to RougeTiger
quote:
Yes, I may have POSTED it in spite. I won't argue with that. I was just annoyed that I was blasted for telling someone the truth. I understand that it is unfortunate and difficult to deal with, especially coming from a complete stranger. I also, agree that I probably should have handled the situation differently. That's fine, anyone can say that in hindsight about just about anything they do in life. I really wish I would have just contacted the cheater instead, and essentially gave him the choice to do the right thing or not. Really not trying to toot my own horn either I guess, just really surprised that most people would prefer to be lied to. To each his own.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:50 pm to Walt OReilly
you did the right thing
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:51 pm to RougeTiger
quote:
I understand that it is unfortunate and difficult to deal with, especially coming from a complete stranger. I also, agree that I probably should have handled the situation differently. That's fine, anyone can say that in hindsight about just about anything they do in life. I really wish I would have just contacted the cheater instead, and essentially gave him the choice to do the right thing or not.
Hold the fricking phone. You're saying you did this spur of the moment? It's not like this was time sensitive information. Jesus dude, come to the OT next time you need real world advice.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:51 pm to Jake88
quote:The cheater in this situation is still scum.
If a poster mentions cheating he/she is lambasted as scum
quote:And random person you don't know? Yeah... stay out of it.
when someone asks if they should tell someone else about infidelity they get told to mind their own business.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:52 pm to Jake88
quote:
Jake88
We are far outnumbered
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:53 pm to ell_13
quote:
Yeah... stay out of it.
or at least use common sense and maintain a modicum of decency.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:53 pm to Jake88
quote:
If my wife was cheating I'd want someone to tell me.
A complete stranger?
That was the point of all of the responses.
The OP didn't know the person he/she told that her husband was cheating on her.
That's just creepy stalker behavior.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:55 pm to RougeTiger
Have you admitted that it was your woman cheating with the dude, or are you still being a hypocrite? You did this to hurt the guy that hurt you, not help the woman.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:55 pm to NoHoTiger
I wonder how long this husband was cheating and how long it took the girlfriend to find out?
But seriously, this guy just thrusted himself into a situation that had nothing to do with him. The max he should have done is gone to the guy and said something like "I know you're banging my friend and you're married. She's done with you."
He's still knighting for the chick (his real purpose), and the guy stops cheating (with her at least).
But seriously, this guy just thrusted himself into a situation that had nothing to do with him. The max he should have done is gone to the guy and said something like "I know you're banging my friend and you're married. She's done with you."
He's still knighting for the chick (his real purpose), and the guy stops cheating (with her at least).
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 7:57 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:56 pm to Red Stick Tigress
quote:
A complete stranger?
You goddam right!
However, I think the OP's woman was cheating with the husband based on his OP and based on his OP he handled it like a bull in a china cabinet.
A little more tact would have been better.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:57 pm to Red Stick Tigress
quote:
A complete stranger?
That was the point of all of the responses.
The OP didn't know the person he/she told that her husband was cheating on her.
That's just creepy stalker behavior.
Absolutely. What if they are the only one who knows. Would you want to keep ignorantly going down on her tasting that guy's junk because the informant is a stranger?
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:59 pm to Jake88
Doubtful that they are the only one who knows.
Regardless, yes, I'd rather find out from someone close to me than have a complete stranger insert himself or herself in what's clearly no one's business but mine.
Regardless, yes, I'd rather find out from someone close to me than have a complete stranger insert himself or herself in what's clearly no one's business but mine.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 7:59 pm to RougeTiger
So are you ever going to tell the entire story or just gonna leave your story vague as frick and drama queen on here.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:00 pm to Red Stick Tigress
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You had no business saying anything to her.
Who did he harm?
You can make the case that he isn't to be applauded for his actions. But, he certainly shouldn't be criticized for them. He holds no responsibility for anything negative that occurs as a result of him informing the wife.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:02 pm to moneyg
quote:kids
Who did he harm?
Marriage
Families
OP left carnage in his wake, and he is bragging on a semi-anonymous forum
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:02 pm to RougeTiger
You're obviously an attention whore because there is no reason to post on here otherwise. Congrats on your accomplishment.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:03 pm to Red Stick Tigress
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Regardless, yes, I'd rather find out from someone close to me than have a complete stranger insert himself or herself in what's clearly no one's business but mine
So, if those who know you are too skittish to tell you, you'd prefer to remain ignorant and continue to believe that the "extra moisture" is hers.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:06 pm to Jake88
I'd prefer not to be cheated on... or for my SO to come clean... or be told by a friend... and then not to know at all before some stranger randomly pops up with a pic of my SO with some other guy because he/she wants to start some shite against my SO.
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