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Just got served divorce papers today

Posted on 7/13/15 at 11:58 pm
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 7/13/15 at 11:58 pm
23 years of marriage in a what I thought was faithful, catholic marriage. 7 kids, 5 still at home, 4 are 9 and under.

Man this hurts more than anything I have ever felt. I can't believe this is where we are. Says she is afraid of me and I bully her. Never, ever raised a hand to her or even came close to doing so.

shite sucks.
Posted by FT
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Posted on 7/13/15 at 11:59 pm to
Sorry, man. Don't know what to say.
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 7/13/15 at 11:59 pm to
Sorry for all, especially the kids.
Counseling an option?
Posted by Chuckiee
Member since Jan 2007
2499 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:00 am to
What gives her that impression then? She didn't just wake up after 23 years feeing afraid of you
Posted by belowmebama
Member since Jul 2008
7303 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:00 am to
Sucks.

Keep your head up man. Be a great dad and stay focused on positive things. I'll say a prayer for you all.

Is she willing to do marriage counseling?
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
76472 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:00 am to
Wow, that's unbelievable.

That's an extremely tough situation. You need to find the root issue. I highly doubt a mother of 7 kids 4 under 9 is walking out of a marriage over bullying.

Thoughts are with you man, I hope you can make it work out.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141600 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:01 am to
quote:

7 kids
dude it's not a clown car
Posted by GeauxLSUGeaux
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Member since May 2004
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:01 am to
quote:

Says she is afraid of me and I bully her. Never, ever raised a hand to her or even came close to doing so


She is afraid of what you'll do if you found out she has been f*cking someone else, kids probably aren't yours, etc etc.
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
37564 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:01 am to
Odd accusation, but women are crazy
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:02 am to
Been in counseling for 18 months. Every time the focus get too hot on her she decides to either change or has "scheduling" issues.

I pray my kids come out all right. Not too worried about me but can't bear to imagine their faces when they can't see daddy or mommy.
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:03 am to
That's unreal, and she sounds like a selfish bitch (if what you say is accurate).

Wow.
Posted by countryboy2
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Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:03 am to
You were served divorce papers while you were still living together?
Posted by Wolfhound45
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:03 am to
Sorry to hear it bro.
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
76472 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:04 am to
Also, I would start documenting everything for court if it goes that far. You want as much custody as you can.

And get a damn fricking good lawyer that specializes in male clients.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164014 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:04 am to
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Says she is afraid of me and I bully her.
quote:

7 kids

You bully that womb.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:05 am to
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by Chuckiee
What gives her that impression then? She didn't just wake up after 23 years feeing afraid of you




We have been having struggles with a lot of stuff and almost everything I say I bullying or mean or ugly according to her none of our friends see it that way.

She says I know what to change but refuse to. I am freaking clueless.
This post was edited on 7/15/15 at 10:01 pm
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:06 am to
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23 years of marriage


Better 23 than 33.

This post was edited on 7/14/15 at 12:07 am
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
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Member since May 2013
11535 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:06 am to
Damn, that's awful man. After 23 years?
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
76472 posts
Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:06 am to
She's probably going through menopause.
Posted by c on z
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Posted on 7/14/15 at 12:07 am to
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Kafka

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