re: It's sad seeing millennials talk so gracefully about not having kids...

The younger generations (millennial here) are far too selfish to have kids or be good parents

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Some of you just need to accept that this isn't true for everyone.

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True. Also, it's funny that everyone just now is deeply concerned with all the single/unmarried/childless people out there.


As if you couldn't find a concerning trend 8 years ago when no one was talking about it. (I.e. the % of married people vs age was likely very clearly trending down from previous generations)


It's pretty sad and pathetic to try and dunk on people who simply made themselves apart of the culture and became victims of said culture. Most everyone participated in It's ideals and claimed virtues...people were afraid to tell people to get married and have kids....especially afraid of telling women it's good to be married and have children. All these people proclaiming their antinatalist choices were around before...the public conversations never allowed anyone to reveal these values.


People gaslit each other and of course now you can see a huge contingent left out in the cold as it's tough to pivot from being the hottest girl at the nightclub to wife/mother. These roles are in different universes yet no one is willing to say it.

These people "left out" absolutely will now be making the lives for the rest of us a living hell. They're not just going away and you can't just ignore them anymore than you can ignore the incel school shooters.


They're going to vote for themselves and their preferred state against yours.


Marriage/monogamy is a community existence, not an individual one. Every person you dunk on will be an enemy against you and your way of life.


If you want to stop this then help/encourage people you know to get married and have kids and join your community. That's the only way to defeat the antinatalist anti-tradition deathcult. The more of them there are, the more likely it is they prey upon your community instead of being apart of it.

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All I know is some of these people are going to end up being miserable alone and in a nursing home with no one to even visit them.

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Nursing homes are filled with parents who are miserable and alone, with kids who rarely or never come visit them.

I go visit my grandma in the nursing home a few times a month. The amount of residents I see there who have never been visited by their kids is baffling. Either way, we're all going to be alone and miserable at some point

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I got news for you..... We all die alone

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Exactly.



Having and raising children is a massive net benefit for society and should be pursued by all those capable.


The logic of "You should have kids because if not, you will be lonely in old age" is probably one of the most retarded reasons I've ever heard regarding motivation to have children. If that cracks your top 100 reasons for having kids, please don't.

The problem is that our system is structured in a way that having kids is most burdensome on the middle class. That's a huge problem long term.

There’s even a new acronym for it lol

DINKS

Double Income No Kids

How cute