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re: is this a fair divorce deal?
Posted on 11/13/16 at 4:44 pm to gingerkittie
Posted on 11/13/16 at 4:44 pm to gingerkittie
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I am going to divorce my husband (have left the family compound already, lol) and have land and a new home of my own.
Pics?
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Posted on 11/13/16 at 6:54 pm to gingerkittie
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I am actually friends with all of my ex-husband's exes.
Mark of the crazy
Posted on 11/13/16 at 6:57 pm to ZULU
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Pics to fully evaluate..
and "poof" now the pic is gone, lol.
This post was edited on 11/13/16 at 7:07 pm
Posted on 11/13/16 at 6:59 pm to gingerkittie
Posted on 11/13/16 at 7:04 pm to Chad504boy
don't offer "fair" anymore.
wonder aloud what his criminal charges will be.
later he will be glad to get "fair".
wonder aloud what his criminal charges will be.
later he will be glad to get "fair".
Posted on 11/13/16 at 7:05 pm to gingerkittie
Delcambre Reeboks make my dick hard
Posted on 11/13/16 at 7:05 pm to Upperdecker
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I am actually friends with all of my ex-husband's exes.
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Mark of the crazy
Thanks but I think we have already established that I am weird and crazy, lol.
These women are my stepkids moms and the grandma of my step-grandkids. I have nothing against them. they are lovely people. Why not have a friendly relationship with them since we have a common love of the kids and the grandkids? It makes it so much easier on the kids and grandkids to know that we are friends with each other.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 7:13 pm to gingerkittie
Haven't taken the time to read the entire thread but length of marriage is usually one of the most important factors in evaluating whether or not a settlement would be fair to the parties involved. Typically in the state of Alabama, after 10 years you begin to deal with issues such as alimony and the sharing of retirement. In addition, inheritance used for the benefit of the marriage can be subject to division.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 7:16 pm to gingerkittie
Do you not have biological children?
Posted on 11/13/16 at 7:31 pm to Paige
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Do you not have biological children?
Yes, I have a son who is a adult and lives over 100 miles away who does not have children.
My stepkids and grands live close to us and so I am a part of their daily lives. They do not agree with what their father has done and are on my side. I will continue to be part of their lives and will love them and support them as I always have.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 7:32 pm to gingerkittie
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Yes, I have a son who is a adult and lives over 100 miles away who does not have children.
So you have a son that lives just over an hour away?
Posted on 11/13/16 at 7:42 pm to tgrbaitn08
Most of the property you mentioned is your private property and not community property. You need to stop talking to this loser and hire a lawyer to get the job done. The sooner, the better. You'll never reach a fair settlement negotiating with this guy. It will only drag on and on.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 8:09 pm to CelticDog
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don't offer "fair" anymore.
wonder aloud what his criminal charges will be.
later he will be glad to get "fair".
He put his hands on me in a violent manner, said he would kill me and got physical with me. Plus a few other illegal activities (theft) and threats. This was a new level of crazy for him.
Luckily I had it on tape because I was concerned about his increasing violent behavior and was really just taping him so his family could see how insane with rage he had become. So he really screwed himself by behaving that way.
His rage was because I took my two big flat screen TV and had given one to his child and another to a grandchild. He thought that I should have given them to him and his new gf.
He was also angry about the other things of value (furniture, bedroom set, laptops,washer/dryer, freezer, generators, etc) that I owned and had given to friends and family. He felt those things were HIS because he said I did not "need" them. Therefore he felt they belonged to him because he said I did not need them.
I explained that it did not matter if I needed them, that they belonged to me and i would do with them as I wished. At that point he lost it and went after me.
I didn't wish to have to post about this as this is already a 3-ring shitshow but those are the facts. I have not pressed charges although I have been advised to do so by the police. He can/will be charged if he continues to behave in this manner. I would hate to do such a thing but it all depends on his behavior.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 8:13 pm to tgrbaitn08
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So you have a son that lives just over an hour away?
Yes and I am close with him. I see him often and we are in contact daily. He despises my ex.
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NawlinsGator: Most of the property you mentioned is your private property and not community property. You need to stop talking to this loser and hire a lawyer to get the job done. The sooner, the better. You'll never reach a fair settlement negotiating with this guy. It will only drag on and on.
The lawyer is on the case and I have little contact with the ex. However he is holding many of my possessions hostage so I will have to involve the police to go get that stuff. It should be a simple and quick extraction and he can and will be arrested if he gives the police any trouble.
He will never take it to court to contest it as he does not have the money to do so and he would lose anyway. So I expect he will sign the paperwork and not contest it because he knows it will be an expensive and hopeless cause.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 8:27 pm to gingerkittie
If I were your son, I'd probably be pretty annoyed with you for throwing away so much money on a complete loser (according to you)
I find it hard to believe that you come from "old money". My take is that you got a decent bit of money from a mom/dad who handled their affairs properly
And with the way you've admitted to spending, you will blow through that before you die and then will be living on a fixed income
Also wouldn't you rather leave all that money and stuff to your son than someone who supposedly doesn't legally deserve it?
I find it hard to believe that you come from "old money". My take is that you got a decent bit of money from a mom/dad who handled their affairs properly
And with the way you've admitted to spending, you will blow through that before you die and then will be living on a fixed income
Also wouldn't you rather leave all that money and stuff to your son than someone who supposedly doesn't legally deserve it?
Posted on 11/13/16 at 8:37 pm to Paige
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If I were your son, I'd probably be pretty annoyed with you for throwing away so much money on a complete loser (according to you)
I find it hard to believe that you come from "old money". My take is that you got a decent bit of money from a mom/dad who handled their affairs properly
And with the way you've admitted to spending, you will blow through that before you die and then will be living on a fixed income
Also wouldn't you rather leave all that money and stuff to your son than someone who supposedly doesn't legally deserve it?
My son is well taken care of. He owns a house, I gave him a car, I send him money and buy whatever he wants. He is always #1 and gets whatever he wants. He has a trust fund as well. He is well set in life.
The money comes from mom/grandmother/godfather/daddy and their investments. The way I am "blowing thru it" is a minor amount. I have spent the money on the ones I love and not on myself. I still live my basic modest life. I'm not into living an upscale, fancy life. I enjoy spending money on the ones I love. It makes me happy to do so and so I will continue to do so. I love being able to help my loved ones.
As it is, my medical issues means I will not live a long life anyway so I am living my life the way I choose while I still have the ability to do so.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 8:44 pm to gingerkittie
So you don't want to leave your family's money to your son? You'd rather leave it to an abusive adulterer?
That literally makes no sense and it's honestly not right
Your son could become handicapped in a year or develop cancer. Then he wouldn't be nearly as set. Why would you want to blow any of it on your ex? I just don't get it
That literally makes no sense and it's honestly not right
Your son could become handicapped in a year or develop cancer. Then he wouldn't be nearly as set. Why would you want to blow any of it on your ex? I just don't get it
Posted on 11/13/16 at 8:44 pm to gingerkittie
Off topic, but how well do you think your son is coming along in developing himself independently and as a man?
Does he have a real job? Career? Works hard for things he wants?
Being as you are giving him every thing he needs, I wonder if he is conditioned to sit back and wait for all you give.
Does he have a real job? Career? Works hard for things he wants?
Being as you are giving him every thing he needs, I wonder if he is conditioned to sit back and wait for all you give.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 9:08 pm to Paige
Yeah, good point Paige. This makes zero sense. My take is this is a very lonely lady and very little of this story is true.
Posted on 11/13/16 at 9:09 pm to Paige
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So you don't want to leave your family's money to your son? You'd rather leave it to an abusive adulterer?
That literally makes no sense and it's honestly not right
Your son could become handicapped in a year or develop cancer. Then he wouldn't be nearly as set. Why would you want to blow any of it on your ex? I just don't get it
The ex is getting nothing bit some community property, basically nothing since we were not married for long and had lived together for years and I bought the expensive items before marriage. As i said before my son is financially set, has income in a trust, rental property and has his own business. He is doing well.
Nothing is being "blown on the ex". Frankly the community property he has isn't much. He will soon lose it all anyway. That's just how he is which is why I never mingled my money with him.
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Cdonaldson27: Off topic, but how well do you think your son is coming along in developing himself independently and as a man? Does he have a real job? Career? Works hard for things he wants? Being as you are giving him every thing he needs, I wonder if he is conditioned to sit back and wait for all you give.
He works hard, has his own business and is a good man. He is independent, supports himself and his fiance and is financially secure in his own right. He is also fiscally responsible and is wise about the money and assets he has and does not live a flashy life.
This post was edited on 11/13/16 at 11:09 pm
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