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re: Is it ok for your girlfriend to go to an Ex's family member funeral?

Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:22 pm to
Posted by Bacon84
Texas
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:22 pm to
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I just feel all the maverick responses are losers who wish they were who they see on tv. People who respond like this hab been walker over constantly


WTF does TV have to do with anything on here?

I have ended long relationships over this kind of thing. Granted, it was the straw that broke the camel's back, but not nearly the only straw.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32708 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:26 pm to
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Would you want your wife, which I assume this is where this is headed after 2 years of dating, still being in touch with an ex's family?


My fiancee worked for multiple years with the mother of the guy who took her virginity (they broke up about 7 years ago). She also stood as a bridesmaid in his (and her best friend's) weding.

quote:

It's the way the world works. In 6 months or a year he'll lose another grandparent. When does it stop?

i see your point here.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:28 pm to
Did ya'll frick before she left for the funeral?
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:29 pm to
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She also stood as a bridesmaid in his (and her best friend's) weding.


threesome?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:30 pm to
foursome
Posted by Diddles
LA
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:30 pm to
She has no business going to that funeral
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:30 pm to
It's all clear now

see sig
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 1:31 pm
Posted by TigerNlc
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:33 pm to
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:42 pm to
Did op say it's the dudes grandma? Who gives a shite - seriously - everybody sees all 4 of their grandparents die - that is not an acceptable reason to alter existing plans with present bf

This wasn't handled correctly in that if op leaves her now he'll be the "bad guy" but the girl should be ignored for a week. Only forgive her if she shows up to your house and apologizes with a bj. Then cheat on her on top of that
Posted by saderade
America's City
Member since Jul 2005
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:52 pm to
Huge red flags here. Ex wants her back, his family wants them together (or mom wouldn't have stopped in), and she messes up out of state plans for current boyfriend and his family.
I don't see how anyone says this is ok
Posted by SirWinston
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Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:56 pm to
Agreed, plus shes cuckolding the op in front of HIS family. I repeat - it's the dudes fricking GRANDMA. are you kidding me? You lose more grandparents than wisdom teeth.

He should pee on her when she gets back and then dump her
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 1:58 pm
Posted by OFWHAP
Member since Sep 2007
5416 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:57 pm to
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Did op say it's the dudes grandma? Who gives a shite - seriously - everybody sees all 4 of their grandparents die - that is not an acceptable reason to alter existing plans with present bf

This wasn't handled correctly in that if op leaves her now he'll be the "bad guy" but the girl should be ignored for a week. Only forgive her if she shows up to your house and apologizes with a bj. Then cheat on her on top of that


All four of my grandparents are dead, and I didn't attend ANY of their funerals. Not a single frick was given by any of my parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, or cousins. My own mom died seven years ago, and I didn't keep tabs or pay attention to who attended the wake or the funeral. It didn't matter because I had more important issues going on with my life, and I knew everyone was supporting me one way or another.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 1:58 pm to
I don't attend funerals for people that I'm related to, let alone an ex's relative.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 2:04 pm to
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his family wants them together (or mom wouldn't have stopped in


Good point. You know mom's are usually protective of their baby boys. If they're still liking the son's ex-gf, there's no doubt she wants her back with her son.

The ex doesn't give a damn about the OP. The ex's family doesn't give a damn about the OP. The GF just drops what she's doing to be at the side of the ex. Not good. The whole way this went down was disrespectful towards the OP. He's been completely marginalized.
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 2:09 pm
Posted by OFWHAP
Member since Sep 2007
5416 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 2:04 pm to
Furthermore, it's also a rotten move for the ex and his family to pressure the girlfriend into attending the funeral, especially in light of her having to inconvenience her boyfriend/boyfriend's family of two years.
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30596 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 2:17 pm to
fricking bull shite.


Apparently, there was a slide show at the funeral. And lord and behold, there were many slides of old pictures of my girlfriend and the ex together for everyone to see. What a coincidence!



This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 2:19 pm
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 2:20 pm to
If you don't have trust in your relationship, you don't have a good relationship.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 2:21 pm to
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32708 posts
Posted on 10/24/14 at 2:23 pm to
is she coming back tonight to continue your plans for the weekend?
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 2:23 pm to
Sweet troll bro
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