Started By
Message

re: Is it me or is the swinger movement growing like crazy?

Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:56 pm to
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
24362 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:56 pm to
quote:

Its as simple as respect.

If your wife respects you, she will not fall out of line.


I agree.

Respect means not texting a male "friend", which evolves into something more. Respect means not having one on one lunches, dinners, etc. with male "friends". These are just two examples of that respect, which goes both ways.

I'm not suggesting you're naive, but I'm surprised that more posters here think guys (of which you are one) can't seduce a woman given enough time and access. Do none of you have game?
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:58 pm
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9849 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:57 pm to
quote:

I've never said I lock her up in the house. Your exaggerated responses like this are a bad take.

In the past on here you gleefully told us how your wife is not allowed to do very much. It was really weird how excitedly you described it
quote:

Do you think, given enough access to a happily married woman, you could over time convince her to cheat. Pretty straight forward.

Have no interest in such. In fact, its actually married women that seek out men more than men seeking out married women. The statistics tell us such. If your wife is going to cheat the likelihood is she will be the predator not the prey. I was at 100 after high school. 300 after college. Can I say I have never had sex with a married woman? Not for sure but I can tell you this I haven't done it knowingly because that is not what I am interested in and I also am not interested in women that have had children because just like Elvis Presley I can't perform on a woman that has birthed a child it is some mental block. I just don't want anything to do with it. So, at 44 my options are much smaller than they were when I was younger and I won't date anyone over 32 anyway. My only rule is no children and I'm not crazy about dating anyone that has even been divorced either. Hope this helps explain things. If you think I am out there seeking married women with stretchmarks and damage from having children you are sadly mistaken.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
24362 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:01 pm to
quote:

Have no interest in such.


I didn't ask if you had an interest, I asked if you thought you could accomplish that end. Fact is, there are guys out there doing just that for trophies. Just because you don't desire it doesn't mean you couldn't accomplish it.

quote:

you gleefully told us how your wife is not allowed to do very much.


Wtf, no I didn't. You have me confused with another poster in that thread. Or maybe you just misunderstood me. My SO does pretty much what she wants.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
33914 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:01 pm to
quote:

Do none of you have game?


You don’t even need game. Most women who are texting a dude will do most of the heavy lifting. First girl I made out with had to take my hand and put it on her tit. Boy I’ll never forget college graduation party!!! Lol.
Posted by Jenious
Member since Apr 2020
758 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:20 pm to
I worked with a guy whose wife was bisexual and she was nice looking. She would go on dates with women while he stayed behind with the kids. She would send him pictures and video of the fun. He couldn't participate but could watch at times and they went to a swinger's club out in NOLA a few times. Seemed like a beta guy but I won't lie, girl on girl porn is a top 3 watch for me
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9849 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:22 pm to
quote:

I didn't ask if you had an interest, I asked if you thought you could accomplish that end.

I mean its possible? But that actually takes two to tango. I'm just not interested. I'm pretty boring these days and have been for years now. I don't put too much effort into meeting women as I have a specific type I like and again, I am very limited in the scope of what I am willing to date - just personal preference. I was after what I thought was a Latina at the gym because some baw on here a few weeks back in a dating thread was talking up the Latina's as long term girlfriends well long story short she wasn't a Latina she is 'Palestinian'
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
5115 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:33 pm to
quote:

Yup. You hang out at the barbershop long enough eventually you’re gonna get in the chair for a haircut. I started chatting on Instagram with an old girlfriend several years ago who was happily married to a rich husband. She had two kids and a seemingly perfect life. Talked all the time about how great her husband was and how much she loved him. Took about two months and she was masterbating during our texts and sending me pics and videos of her self. It happened very quickly and I was stunned. I kept it up longer than I should and I’m not proud of that but it will absolutely happen if you start down the road.



There’s also the “taboo” element that comes into play. It’s pretty well documented that taboo things can often be a turn on. In a twisted ironic sense, it’s the fact that you shouldn’t having an affair that makes it all the more enticing to people.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 2:52 pm
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
33914 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:37 pm to
quote:

There’s also the “taboo” element that comes into play. It’s pretty well documented that taboo things can often be a turn on. It a twisted ironic sense, it’s the fact that you shouldn’t having an affair that makes it all the more enticing to people.


Undoubtedly.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
18025 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:38 pm to
quote:

Let's be honest, most men only want to talk to women if they want to bone them.


You would think a big dick ladies man who has bedded plenty of married women would know this. That's the problem with being full of shite, it gets tough to keep up with all of the shite spewed.
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
95699 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:38 pm to
What's the verdict - is this a real thing? I agree with a poster who said his stomach drops at the thought of his wife with another man.

I could never handle that, it's horrendous.
Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4638 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:39 pm to
Lot of old people are swingers. Look at Florida, the Villages. They don’t care if some other dude screws their wife if they get to screw his. The women are past menopause and no kids are coming from it, so why not?

It’s not for me, but there could be a demographic twist to it also.
Posted by cheobode
Member since Dec 2017
1417 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:40 pm to
quote:

swinger's club out in NOLA


Colette's. Wife and I have been there once. We were out at a bar that was nearby and some girl that was talking to my wife brought us there. While we didn't partake in any activities, the upstairs was very intense. I was sitting next to an older guy watching his very hot wife get railed by a younger guy. After they were done, she came up to him, kissed him and said "See, that wasn't so bad after all". The poor guy just gave out a miserable half hearted attempt at a chuckle.
Posted by Master of Sinanju
Member since Feb 2012
11644 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:40 pm to
quote:

sending me pics and videos of her self


Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9849 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:44 pm to
quote:

You would think a big dick ladies man who has bedded plenty of married women would know this. That's the problem with being full of shite, it gets tough to keep up with all of the shite spewed.


I haven't slept with any married women. I made that very clear.
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
17687 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:46 pm to
quote:

I would assume it's because he gets free rein to do as he pleases in that department.

It's most likely those guys never get to use their hall pass either
Posted by Neveragain
Ok, maybe one more time
Member since Apr 2023
210 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:47 pm to
I wonder about this very question. There is a rumor that it is going on in my neighborhood out in Central. I think it is just rumors but who knows these days.
This isn't my thing but to each his own I guess
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
5115 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:47 pm to
quote:

Have no interest in such. In fact, its actually married women that seek out men more than men seeking out married women. The statistics tell us such. If your wife is going to cheat the likelihood is she will be the predator not the prey. I was at 100 after high school. 300 after college. Can I say I have never had sex with a married woman? Not for sure but I can tell you this I haven't done it knowingly because that is not what I am interested in and I also am not interested in women that have had children because just like Elvis Presley I can't perform on a woman that has birthed a child it is some mental block. I just don't want anything to do with it. So, at 44 my options are much smaller than they were when I was younger and I won't date anyone over 32 anyway. My only rule is no children and I'm not crazy about dating anyone that has even been divorced either. Hope this helps explain things. If you think I am out there seeking married women with stretchmarks and damage from having children you are sadly mistaken.




Just to be clear, I’m not saying you’re a douchebag, but every adult male I’ve ever come across that can recall and regurgitate the number of women he has slept with as a badge of honor have been massive douchebags.
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9849 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:52 pm to
quote:

Just to be clear, I’m not saying you’re a douchebag, but every adult male I’ve ever come across that can recall and regurgitate the number of women he has slept with as a badge of honor have been massive douchebags.


I don't give a shite what you think

You are some guy on the internet. You shouldn't give a shite what I think either.

I'm not out there trying to frick your wife. I have zero interest in any of that. I have plenty of female neighbors and co workers and guess what? I'm not trying to frick them either. Its called being a normal adult and being able to interact with people without trying to sleep with them. What kind of paranoid lives do you people live where everyone is running around trying to screw your wife?
Posted by MemphisGuy
Germantown, TN
Member since Nov 2023
10842 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:53 pm to
quote:

Just to be clear, I’m not saying you’re a douchebag, but every adult male I’ve ever come across that can recall and regurgitate the number of women he has slept with as a badge of honor have been massive douchebags.


Nah, he's a douchebag. And a liar. But yeah, a douchebag.
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
5115 posts
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:53 pm to
I rescind my prior statement, you are definitely a douche.
Jump to page
Page First 4 5 6 7 8 ... 16
Jump to page
first pageprev pagePage 6 of 16Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram