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Is it abnormal to want to purchase your childhood home?

Posted on 3/13/19 at 1:51 am
Posted by MSUDawg98
Bear the F Down
Member since Jan 2018
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Posted on 3/13/19 at 1:51 am
The wife is fed up with her job and frankly I could go for moving back to my hometown instead of living in her's. The family homestead is currently occupied by my old man. My parents house got sold 23 years ago in what could best be described as a situationally caused depressed sale. It's Zillow estimated at half of what our current house is worth. Eventually we'll be moving into the homestead (6-10 years.)

Is it normal to want to move back there or not? Did I mention the average temp is 20° colder in winter with brutal lake effect snow/blizzards compared to where we live now? Have an autistic son entering high school in the fall and 2 years behind is my athletically talented son who I'd love to send to the private school I attended.

The community is stuck in the 90s except for the interstate site of big box stores turning a vibrant downtown into a ghost town. Reciprocity would make 3 states' land grant schools in-state tuition competitive with State's non-resident rates. Just trying to do the best thing for my family... the biggest decision I'll ever have to make since it will heavily influence my kids' futures.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 1:54 am to
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Is it abnormal to want to purchase your childhood home?


Not at all
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
37021 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 1:59 am to
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Is it abnormal to want to purchase your childhood home?


No. My mom owns hers. Just wish my grandma could've seen what my mom turned it into.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 2:01 am to
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Just wish my grandma could've seen what my mom turned it into.




Is that good or bad?
Posted by Ripley
Member since Aug 2016
4589 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 2:06 am to
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Have an autistic son entering high school in the fall

If you don't mind me asking, is your son severely autistic as in needing government care regularly like trained after-school sitters?

I'm asking because my parents won't move from my small hometown because if they were to leave the state then come back years later, my brother (who has a condition similar to severe autism) would have to get on a very long waiting list to receive government assistance again in the state.

Something to think about depending on your son's condition and what state you're going to and coming from.
This post was edited on 3/13/19 at 2:27 am
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 2:18 am to
I have wanted to do the same. My parents went bankrupt when my dad's restaurant burned down. They lost everything to the bank. The only thing that's held me back from trying to buy the house is the house we have now is paid for.
This post was edited on 3/13/19 at 2:19 am
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
37021 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 2:39 am to
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Is that good or bad?




My grandma never lived to see how amazing it is.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 3:12 am to
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My grandma never lived to see how amazing it is.


Ok, cool. The way you left it couldve went either way.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
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Posted on 3/13/19 at 3:34 am to
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Is it normal to want to move back there or not?


I think it's normal to have fond memories of your childhood home, and to sometimes reminisce.

But if you feel a deep desire to purchase your childhood home in an attempt to relive your childhood experiences then it might be a sign that you're unable to find meaning or happiness in the direction your life is headed. I'm not saying that's where your head is, but it's certainly the case for many people who constantly dwell on the past.
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18419 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:16 am to
I tried to purchase my childhood home to impress my childhood crush. Not only was I denied financing but come to find out, the girl passed away.
Posted by cj35
Member since Jan 2014
6153 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:16 am to
Is it abnormal to want to burn down your childhood home?
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76124 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:24 am to
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The family homestead is currently occupied by my old man.
When they say “You can’t go back.” for some of us this statement is literally a truism.

Sadly, something akin to what is pictured below is what has occurred to the former residence in which I clung tightly to the bosoms of those whom I loved whilst in my childhood-



PS: I don’t want no goddam Fop, I’m a Dapper Dan man!
This post was edited on 3/13/19 at 6:25 am
Posted by Pilot Tiger
North Carolina
Member since Nov 2005
74073 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:26 am to
I actually had a dream a couple nights ago that I purchased my childhood home

weird
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:33 am to
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Is it abnormal to want to burn down your childhood home?


Mine did. Nothing but a grass lot in the ghetto in NBR now.

I still have weird dreams where the house is still there though. Odd dreams that just happen to take place in my old neighborhood.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76124 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:38 am to
Include me in them and they won’t be dreams anymore...
Posted by Tchefuncte Tiger
Bat'n Rudge
Member since Oct 2004
64008 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:33 am to
No. I wish I could buy my childhood home.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:39 am to
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Include me in them and they won’t be dreams anymore...


That’s just creepy as frick dude

Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76124 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:43 am to
Yeah, I lolled when I thunk it.

It’s so far out of my normal schtick here.

I wouldn’t have used it on any other LLOTOT, you roll pretty good.

Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
49696 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:49 am to
California has a very good college program for autistic kids and it’s free for in state residents and residency is allowed after one year. Move to California.
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:53 am to
Oh yeah, I'm really just dying to buy my childhood trailerhouse.
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