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Is it abnormal to want to purchase your childhood home?
Posted on 3/13/19 at 1:51 am
Posted on 3/13/19 at 1:51 am
The wife is fed up with her job and frankly I could go for moving back to my hometown instead of living in her's. The family homestead is currently occupied by my old man. My parents house got sold 23 years ago in what could best be described as a situationally caused depressed sale. It's Zillow estimated at half of what our current house is worth. Eventually we'll be moving into the homestead (6-10 years.)
Is it normal to want to move back there or not? Did I mention the average temp is 20° colder in winter with brutal lake effect snow/blizzards compared to where we live now? Have an autistic son entering high school in the fall and 2 years behind is my athletically talented son who I'd love to send to the private school I attended.
The community is stuck in the 90s except for the interstate site of big box stores turning a vibrant downtown into a ghost town. Reciprocity would make 3 states' land grant schools in-state tuition competitive with State's non-resident rates. Just trying to do the best thing for my family... the biggest decision I'll ever have to make since it will heavily influence my kids' futures.
Is it normal to want to move back there or not? Did I mention the average temp is 20° colder in winter with brutal lake effect snow/blizzards compared to where we live now? Have an autistic son entering high school in the fall and 2 years behind is my athletically talented son who I'd love to send to the private school I attended.
The community is stuck in the 90s except for the interstate site of big box stores turning a vibrant downtown into a ghost town. Reciprocity would make 3 states' land grant schools in-state tuition competitive with State's non-resident rates. Just trying to do the best thing for my family... the biggest decision I'll ever have to make since it will heavily influence my kids' futures.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 1:54 am to MSUDawg98
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Is it abnormal to want to purchase your childhood home?
Not at all
Posted on 3/13/19 at 1:59 am to MSUDawg98
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Is it abnormal to want to purchase your childhood home?
No. My mom owns hers. Just wish my grandma could've seen what my mom turned it into.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 2:01 am to LSUintheNW
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Just wish my grandma could've seen what my mom turned it into.
Is that good or bad?
Posted on 3/13/19 at 2:06 am to MSUDawg98
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Have an autistic son entering high school in the fall
If you don't mind me asking, is your son severely autistic as in needing government care regularly like trained after-school sitters?
I'm asking because my parents won't move from my small hometown because if they were to leave the state then come back years later, my brother (who has a condition similar to severe autism) would have to get on a very long waiting list to receive government assistance again in the state.
Something to think about depending on your son's condition and what state you're going to and coming from.
This post was edited on 3/13/19 at 2:27 am
Posted on 3/13/19 at 2:18 am to MSUDawg98
I have wanted to do the same. My parents went bankrupt when my dad's restaurant burned down. They lost everything to the bank. The only thing that's held me back from trying to buy the house is the house we have now is paid for.
This post was edited on 3/13/19 at 2:19 am
Posted on 3/13/19 at 2:39 am to dbuchanon
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Is that good or bad?
My grandma never lived to see how amazing it is.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 3:12 am to LSUintheNW
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My grandma never lived to see how amazing it is.
Ok, cool. The way you left it couldve went either way.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 3:34 am to MSUDawg98
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Is it normal to want to move back there or not?
I think it's normal to have fond memories of your childhood home, and to sometimes reminisce.
But if you feel a deep desire to purchase your childhood home in an attempt to relive your childhood experiences then it might be a sign that you're unable to find meaning or happiness in the direction your life is headed. I'm not saying that's where your head is, but it's certainly the case for many people who constantly dwell on the past.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:16 am to MSUDawg98
I tried to purchase my childhood home to impress my childhood crush. Not only was I denied financing but come to find out, the girl passed away.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:16 am to MSUDawg98
Is it abnormal to want to burn down your childhood home?
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:24 am to MSUDawg98
quote:When they say “You can’t go back.” for some of us this statement is literally a truism.
The family homestead is currently occupied by my old man.
Sadly, something akin to what is pictured below is what has occurred to the former residence in which I clung tightly to the bosoms of those whom I loved whilst in my childhood-
PS: I don’t want no goddam Fop, I’m a Dapper Dan man!
This post was edited on 3/13/19 at 6:25 am
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:26 am to MSUDawg98
I actually had a dream a couple nights ago that I purchased my childhood home
weird
weird
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:33 am to cj35
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Is it abnormal to want to burn down your childhood home?
Mine did. Nothing but a grass lot in the ghetto in NBR now.
I still have weird dreams where the house is still there though. Odd dreams that just happen to take place in my old neighborhood.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 6:38 am to lsunurse
Include me in them and they won’t be dreams anymore...
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:33 am to MSUDawg98
No. I wish I could buy my childhood home.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:39 am to soccerfüt
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Include me in them and they won’t be dreams anymore...
That’s just creepy as frick dude
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:43 am to lsunurse
Yeah, I lolled when I thunk it.
It’s so far out of my normal schtick here.
I wouldn’t have used it on any other LLOTOT, you roll pretty good.

It’s so far out of my normal schtick here.
I wouldn’t have used it on any other LLOTOT, you roll pretty good.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:49 am to MSUDawg98
California has a very good college program for autistic kids and it’s free for in state residents and residency is allowed after one year. Move to California.
Posted on 3/13/19 at 7:53 am to MSUDawg98
Oh yeah, I'm really just dying to buy my childhood trailerhouse.
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