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re: Is anyone here adopted?

Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:45 pm to
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:45 pm to
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My youngest brother on my father's side slept with my girlfriend and had his friends beat the shite out of me and the other brother is retarded


Everything is starting to make more sense now.
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6213 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:47 pm to
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it teaches us belonging to something matters


I couldn't agree more
Posted by TJG210
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2006
28343 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:49 pm to
Have twins that were natural and 7yrs later we decided to adopt. I really hope my daughter never has the desire to meet her birth mom. She’s been basically been a baby factory before and after ours was born. We tried helping her out some after our baby was born, then she ghosted us. 2 years later we receive a call from our adoption attorney asking if we want another bc the mother is pregnant (come to find out she had another in the interim with the same guy (our baby was from a different person). We decided that another would be too difficult, so another adoptive family was found. Fast forward to the birth, the father steps in and wanted custody of both children..new adoptive family is absolutely devastated and the crazy father won custody of both kids.

My wife and I were so grateful we didn’t have to deal with any of that. I can’t even begin to imagine what the other family went through.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
142192 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:49 pm to
When I was 14 I told my parents they were adopted
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176034 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:50 pm to
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Everything is starting to make more sense now.


that's not even the weird part
This post was edited on 1/11/24 at 10:53 pm
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
142192 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:53 pm to
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Good to know I'm not the only 1 who has had a bad experience with this
I am also made happy to learn other people have been miserable
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176034 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:54 pm to
fricking germans and their wonderful oddly poetic language
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6213 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:56 pm to
Mine is a very complicated story but basically my bio parents want nothing to do with me. I honestly only searched them out to find out if I had siblings. I feel extremely confident that if I needed a kidney, they would say no. But that wouldn't stop me from asking. A closed mouth never gets fed if u know what I mean.

My bio parents were just high school kids. Moms parents sent her to a maternity home to have me. Apparently my bio grandmother felt so guilty about it that shortly after I was given away, she & her husband adopted a son. That poor bastard has my sympathy. I can't even imagine what he went through growing up in that household.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176034 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:59 pm to
thats fricked man

Im sorry,, it aint right what fricked up people do their next generation
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
131435 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:59 pm to
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I was the by-product of date rape


That’s horrible. Have you ever mentioned that?
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6213 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:02 pm to
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I really hope my daughter never has the desire to meet her birth mom.


My adoptive parents were supportive of my decision & I was told that I was adopted when I was a small child. I was an only child so I always wanted to find out if I had siblings. That was my motivation & my parents, particularly my mom understood that.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176034 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:02 pm to
yeah,,, Ive told the story on here kinda


shite back when that wounded puppy act could score a guy some LLotOT boobs pic
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
20387 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:03 pm to
Just cruising down the thread and suddenly:
quote:

I was the by-product of date rape

Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
131435 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:04 pm to
I guess maybe find some good in knowing it was date rape vs rape rape.



You would have had a 90% chance of being black too.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176034 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:05 pm to
omg are we about to have a everybody listen to Owlie's childhood trauma story /thread


think I can make 10 grand of the GFM?

now Im not telling yall shite
Posted by TJG210
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2006
28343 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:05 pm to
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I was told that I was adopted when I was a small child


How old were you? We’re still debating on when/how to tell her? My wife has tried keeping up with the other siblings so that we will have those answers for her.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176034 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:07 pm to
tell the kid as soon as they can possibly understand

don't let them think its something to be ashamed of
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6213 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:09 pm to
It's really crazy how nature takes it course & how history has a tendency to repeat itself. My parents used to party at the kingfish. I used to party at the same exact same club when it was reopened as firestone. We literally did the same drugs in the same exact spot 16 years apart without ever having know each other. Unreal
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5702 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:11 pm to
Nah, but I’m illegitimate.
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6213 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 11:12 pm to
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How old were you?


It's literally one of my 1st memories. My mom explaining to me that I did not come out of her tummy. I was talking, so maybe 3? I'm really not sure exactly how old I was, but it was definitely before I started kindergarten.
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