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Is anyone here adopted?

Posted on 1/11/24 at 9:59 pm
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 1/11/24 at 9:59 pm
I was adopted at birth & I wondered who my biological parents were all my life. Long story short, I found my biological parents & it has been a complete nightmare. The only good that came out of finding my parents was that I gained a sibling. We are now very close. My relationship with both my biological parents is beyond toxic & I am so thankful that neither of them raised me. Just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience.
Posted by UnitedFruitCompany
Bay Area
Member since Nov 2018
3363 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:00 pm to
Lol yes.

Trust me, some stones are better left unturned.

The family that picks you is the one you want in your corner.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
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Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:02 pm to
yes


finding the biologics was a fricking shite show
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6204 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:08 pm to
I honestly regret it every single day. My sibling is the only reason that I still have contact with my bio mother. She is mentally ill & it's a really terrible situation. Bio father is just a complete jackass. I wish them no harm but I'll never have any dealings with either of them unless I needed a kidney or something like that.

Good to know I'm not the only 1 who has had a bad experience with this.
This post was edited on 1/11/24 at 10:09 pm
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:12 pm to
I was the by-product of date rape


that's fun to know
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
55986 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:15 pm to
quote:

Just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience.


I’m sure lots of folks have the same experience you had. Life rarely has the fairytale endings we all like to envision….
Posted by Raoul Stimulato
Hale Bopp Comet
Member since Sep 2022
1219 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:17 pm to
Eww dude.

No.
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6204 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:20 pm to
Ouch.... what a mind frick that must have been.

My bio dad told me lots of things about my mother that I'd rather not have known, but nothing like that.

I did the ancestry DNA thing & I discovered that one of my best friends from high school is actually my distant cousin.

Another crazy thing is that my cousin from my adopted family actually married one of my distant biological cousins. 6th I believe.
This post was edited on 1/11/24 at 10:22 pm
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:21 pm to
If I'm really bored one night I'll retell the story i've told it on here before it is an absolute shite show every possible malfunction of a family it's the worst story you've ever heard
Posted by Spankum
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Member since Jan 2007
55986 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:23 pm to
quote:

I wish them no harm but I'll never have any dealings with either of them unless I needed a kidney


Well, suppose one of them needs a kidney….
Posted by sparkinator
Lake Claiborne
Member since Dec 2007
4458 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:25 pm to
Nope, but I adopted twins 18 years ago. They are 20 now.

Absolutely the best thing I ever did.
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6204 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:26 pm to
I'd be interested to hear it. Mine is pretty crazy too. It involves attorneys, lawsuits, child protective services, having my sibling removed from my mothers care, paternity tests... Complete shite show.

Again, glad I'm not the only one...
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6204 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:28 pm to
quote:

Well, suppose one of them needs a kidney….


They gave me away, ain't no take backs. However, I'd take a bullet for my sibling. No questions asked...
This post was edited on 1/12/24 at 1:43 am
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175719 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:28 pm to
My youngest brother on my father's side slept with my girlfriend and had his friends beat the shite out of me and the other brother is retarded
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6204 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:30 pm to


You win.
This post was edited on 1/11/24 at 10:31 pm
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:31 pm to
oh yeah,, like I said a real shite show
Posted by jsmoke222000
Lake Charles
Member since Oct 2007
6204 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:32 pm to
And all this time I thought that my mentally ill whore mother was the worst thing ever...
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175719 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:35 pm to
hey fricked up is fricked up

don't minimalize your fricked up


hey,, it teaches us belonging to something matters


This post was edited on 1/11/24 at 10:41 pm
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
55986 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:39 pm to
quote:

Zero chance they would get mine.


Not judging, but just trying to see what your mindset is…thankfully I have never been in that situation.
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
13900 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 10:44 pm to
Half-adopted. I know my biological father and he's a good dude, but we've never had a parent/child relationship. What's crazy is that he had no hand in raising me whatsoever, yet we're exactly alike. Nature beat nurture on that one.
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