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re: Is anyone else happily married to someone you love and generally happy in life?

Posted on 8/25/22 at 8:52 am to
Posted by ladyluckUGA
Member since Feb 2014
6432 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 8:52 am to


all the people here and the dudley do-right perspective of "marriage is a lot of work, BUT....!" this allows people to justify feeling good about staying in loveless marriages.
Posted by Mr. Misanthrope
Cloud 8
Member since Nov 2012
6076 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 8:59 am to
Pretty happy for sure.
Married 43 years this August to Mrs. M.
Kids all happily married to wonderful spouses, the kind you pray they’ll meet and marry.
Grandkids.
Great church.



Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
282536 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:01 am to
Ive been with some awesome ladies, They had one problem in common. Me.

Life is very good, as long as I can stay out of my own way.
Posted by Liberator
Revelation 20:10-12
Member since Jul 2020
9071 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:12 am to
quote:

I prayed to God. "Please send me a good, Christian woman to spend my life with." Eight years after my last divorce. He answered with her.

I love her dearly. I trust her explicitly. We will be together until death do us part.



Great story!

(btw -- nice Avatar of the Missus.)

Posted by alajones
Huntsvegas
Member since Oct 2005
35288 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:14 am to
Yes. 26 years. Quite happy and with someone that I love.
Posted by Liberator
Revelation 20:10-12
Member since Jul 2020
9071 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:27 am to
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I absolutely love my wife and I love my life.

I don't have a lot of money, and I'd probably be a considered an OT poor. I'm still working hard to advance my career

But all things considered, I'm pretty content in my life.


Nice...

Blow off any and all neg thoughts of other's definition of "poor" or "successful". You're already both rich AND successful. The rest is gravy.

All the money, status, and material wealth will never replace or be a substitute for what you have to this point: A shared love & happiness. A wife who obviously honors you and visa-versa. Positive 'tude. (Hope you've also Jesus in your life)

Posted by Mr. Misanthrope
Cloud 8
Member since Nov 2012
6076 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:36 am to
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They had one problem in common. Me.

Life is very good, as long as I can stay out of my own way.

Your not alone there. I’m a lot to put up with at times. How Mrs. M. has done so is one of the great mysteries of marriage.

Stay with it.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
53558 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:48 am to
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Kids all happily married to wonderful spouses, the kind you pray they’ll meet and marry.
This is truly one of the best things in my life currently.
Posted by BarleyPop
Member since Nov 2016
702 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 10:35 am to
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His wife, much like you, appear to struggle with entitlement. Nobody owes you, your wife or your kids anything.

Bojangles meanwhile appears to have found that wonderful inner peace that comes from knowing what you can and cannot control.

But seriously though, score keeping is pure arsenic in a marriage.


The reasons that lifetime pansies can come up with to justify letting people have their way with them and their family, just to avoid conflict, are amazing and very sad at the same time. Bojangles, the good advice you've gotten here is to grow a set and take up for yourself, your daughter, and your wife to all these people that are treating you poorly. Unless you are a trust fund baby or have some other understandable reason for not being able to deal with your parents.
Posted by SavageOrangeJug
Member since Oct 2005
19758 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 11:11 am to
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(btw -- nice Avatar of the Missus.)


That's my girlfriend. Not my wife.
Posted by msudawg1200
Central Mississippi
Member since Jun 2014
10409 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:07 pm to
Yep. Been with my wife almost 31 years and married 28. We actually love each and enjoy and want to be with one another. I got lucky on my wife. She isn't batshit crazy like most women.
Posted by Kay
Member since Mar 2011
1944 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:12 pm to
15 years together. 10 years married. Easy peasy. Until our daughter is a teen, I imagine.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
70402 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 9:23 pm to
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It’s ok to just be happy sometimes.
I love my wife*. She’s wonderful!

Hi honey!



*no pics
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
18185 posts
Posted on 8/25/22 at 10:55 pm to
absolutely - will be year 9 married in October, year 12 together
Posted by Michael J Cocks
Right Here
Member since Jun 2007
47155 posts
Posted on 8/26/22 at 1:55 am to
I’ve been happily married for 15+ years now. And I’m just as madly in love with my wife today, as I’ve ever been. I look in the mirror every day, and count that blessing. I can’t imagine my world without her.

I do however hate my job. And that is 100% the source of all my misery. So if I could just retire, and still keep my wife, I’d be the happiest dude in the world.
Posted by USMCguy121
Northshore
Member since Aug 2021
6332 posts
Posted on 8/26/22 at 2:12 am to
Unfortunately, despite having an on paper better life than many of my peers, and a great wife and great kids, I am perpetually unhappy.

I have always been this way, I'm always looking for the 'next big thing.' and it has led me to do both great and stupid things.
This post was edited on 8/26/22 at 2:14 am
Posted by BigNastyTiger417
Member since Nov 2021
4283 posts
Posted on 8/26/22 at 6:32 am to
Yes
Posted by pdubya76
Sw Ms
Member since Mar 2012
6390 posts
Posted on 8/26/22 at 6:48 am to
It will be 20 years in October. We’ve had our ups and downs but are in a very good place right now.
Retirement is a few years away and we are on track for me to retire at 55. The kids are growing fast and should be on their own by that time . Life is good.
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
108193 posts
Posted on 9/2/22 at 7:15 pm to
Respect
Posted by OakAgedandIceballs
Member since Mar 2014
92 posts
Posted on 9/2/22 at 7:24 pm to
Married my high school sweetheart. 38 years later I still want to go home and be with her everyday after work. Best thing that ever happened to me.
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