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re: Infidelity in a marriage

Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:11 pm to
Posted by Dadren
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Member since Dec 2023
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Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:11 pm to
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Not everyone but the vast majority will, it's why so much cheating happens at bachelor/bachelorettes or men with nannies/women with their trainers

Looks >>>>

Yeah I’m pretty sure that’s incorrect.

I’ll have to dig this up, but there was a study recently that showed that there wasn’t much correlation between extramarital affairs and “more attractive options” let’s say.

Most extramarital affairs are a function of proximity and time, not “an OT9 hit on me at a club and I just had to”.
Posted by Aspercel
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Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:11 pm to
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Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88967 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:13 pm to
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he is definitely going to end up having an affair with a student and I got the vibe that it was already in progress with one.


quote:

UT



just keeping it all in the family, no foul
Posted by sqerty
AP
Member since May 2022
8147 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:17 pm to
Happier times

You can tell from the pic that Martha loves the cock
This post was edited on 11/15/24 at 2:19 pm
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
136295 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:24 pm to
My first wife cheated on me. Told that story on here a few times.
Posted by Palomitz
Miami
Member since Oct 2009
2667 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:25 pm to
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Her ex claimed he only started having affairs after she had one


That's revenge. If you truly love your spouse, revenge is not the answer.

I had a similar situation with a g/f many years ago. She found out I was fooling around at the time. Months later, she admitted to me that she had a one night stand with another dude because she was angry and resentful at me. I was heart broken, it was revenge. I learned a valuable lesson after that, never fvck around if you truly love your significant other.
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:30 pm to
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Most extramarital affairs are a function of proximity and time, not “an OT9 hit on me at a club and I just had to”.


that's how you get a thirsty af OT3 with raging periodontal disease at the office


I think these people intentionally put themselves in these opportunity rich situations

Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
32777 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:30 pm to
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Once that trust is broken, all the superglue in the world couldn't hold the relationship together for me personally


That’s how it is for me. People may call me shallow, and insecure, but they can suck a big bag of dicks

…. at least I’m willing to admit it.
Posted by Nayab
Brandon's shithole
Member since Feb 2024
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Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:32 pm to
Easy to disagree when you haven't faced that kind of temptation
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117034 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:32 pm to
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Posted by Nayab
Brandon's shithole
Member since Feb 2024
166 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:34 pm to
So you have nothing to say and instead post like a snarky teen
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
38952 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:34 pm to
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That’s how it is for me. People may call me shallow, and insecure, but they can suck a big bag of dicks

…. at least I’m willing to admit it.


I think you're in the majority here.

in my experience, I've seen more condescension heaped on the partner that chose to stay and try to repair the relationship
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:34 pm to
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Posted by Freauxzen
Washington
Member since Feb 2006
38443 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:40 pm to
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It's an interesting dynamic of two people who obviously want to be together and but the trauma from the first affair is too much to get over.


She didn't love him enough to keep herself from cheating, and he didn't love her enough to forgive her truthfully.

Seems like they just want to "be together" and not actually be married. It's not hard to keep it in your pants in either direction.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59207 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:41 pm to
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Easy to disagree when you haven't faced that kind of temptation

I think many people can resist the temptation and just don't put themselves in those kinds of situations. Its really not that difficult.

I can guarantee I won't ever cheat on a SO because there is an option of someone really really attractive. I'm not that shallow.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117034 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:42 pm to
Shitty people cheat
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59207 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:45 pm to
Its good to know that at least in this regard I am a good person.
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
38952 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:48 pm to
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Its good to know that at least in this regard I am a good person


you're a good person in all manners


especially relationship-wise... you're the conscientious shopping cart-returner of fidelity
Posted by Rex Feral
Member since Jan 2014
16051 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:48 pm to
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Easy to disagree when you haven't faced that kind of temptation



Nah. I'd venture to guess everyone one of us has faced temptation from another woman before. Hell yeah, that would be fun, but it would never be worth it. The lies and stories would be too hard to keep up with. The potential damage would be life altering for so many people.

I'm not going to judge anyone who has made the decision to give into temptation. If it works out for you, then live your life. But don't assume anyone hasn't been tempted before.
Posted by IndianMoundFireworks
Member since Oct 2021
833 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 2:48 pm to
Pretty unfair of her to blast him as being the only one who did something wrong.
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