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Freauxzen
| Favorite team: | Washington State |
| Location: | Washington |
| Biography: | LSU Alumni (2004) UWM (2007), Born and raised in LA. Moved from a cushy public sector job in Education to a crazy, cutting-edge, job in a tech/education. Currently a Software Executive. |
| Interests: | Reading, Writing, Arithmetic, Sports (soccer player by nature), Movies, Arguing about random things, Useless Information |
| Occupation: | Software, Sales |
| Number of Posts: | 38468 |
| Registered on: | 2/14/2006 |
| Online Status: | Not Online |
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I know this won’t be well-received but our social, economic, and institutional systems are organized around male comfort, credibility, and success.
Super vague statement, and I know I'm jumping in in the middle of this. I'm not sure you can say "male comfort," is at the center when men taking a exponentially higher proportion of "low comfort" jobs than women. Like significantly so.
Additionally, throwing terms like "credibility" and "success" out there without strict definition is haphazard. There are two spheres that you are talking about here: 1) Work Outside the House and 2) Work Inside The House.
On the second point, how do you measure "credibility," and "success," in a way that is publicly relevant or shown? Like I get the point, but the whole thing with Home life is that it is private. You, and many progressives, devalue what women can do in the home because you overvalue what happens outside of the home. And because "success" in the home isn't as monetarily rewarding as success outside of the home (but you know, it actually is, but that's a longer discussion and more esoteric), this is the way you've decided to frame the entire marriage and "human excellence" idea or whatever you want to call achievement.
The only thing that matters is "achievement" whatever that definition is. And that is only measured by earnings, "credibility," and influence. And nothing more.
It's the wrong measuring stick for marriage.
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Women are delaying or forgoing marriage because marriage has not reliably delivered safety, equity, or partnership for them. Framing this as men bravely refusing to “play the game” ignores the actual data and just lazily blames women for one more thing.
You do realize that a large part of how we frame safety, equity and partnership is driven by culture's need to upend marriage?
This is less the fault of men, and more the fault of a culture that really wants one of two things:
1) Completely single, and isolated loners who will be easy to manipulate consumers. And that's all they will do, make and spend money
or
2) 2-Working Parent households with unstable children with a complex home environment
Culture, and progressives, are completely uninterested in what marriage really is. This is why when you get to some of the studies above about happiness in marriages, especially in single working parents messages or conservative families, that ALL of the data is in the positive direction. People are happier, they live longer, kids are more well adjusted. The data is SUPER clear on stable, 2-parent traditional marriages.
The problem is you aren't looking at the collective success of the family, and you aren't looking at things like male heart disease, stress, etc. You simply isolate this to "women do more household chores and don't get public recognition for it," and that's why marriages are bad.
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Rachel Summers
FIFY
And this is not a complaint on Male/Female casting. :lol:
Rachel is a solid character.
re: oh shite - Vance just said ICE officer who shot woman had been run over once already
Posted by Freauxzen on 1/8/26 at 1:45 pm to DavidTheGnome
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Maybe this guy should learn not to stand in front of vehicles
You want to boil this whole thing down to this decision point? And ignore the amount of choices people made to get here?
How about the poor choice of illegal aliens to enter the country? How about the poor choice of the left and media to deride law enforcement? How about the poor choice of allowing illegals to run amok? How about the poor choice of this women to cross state lines to protect people who make poor choices? How about the poor choice of interfering with law enforcement? How about the poor choice of putting the car in reverse then accelerating toward an officer?
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What’s the theory?
Rampant mental illness? Wicked side effects of SSRIs?
What is going on with these people?
There's no theory needed. Women, and men, as adults aren't meant to be alone. The world isn't ordered that way. The whole point of organizing in families, in monogamous relationships, etc. is that for the 95% of the population- it's the best way to flourish as either sex. Women help men use their natural instincts for protection, survival and grand purpose - channeling all of that into being the head of a family. Dominating in the work-world, to support and expand their family and home. That's where natural competition, leadership, steadfastness - all the things men are good at makes them super valuable. Letting those things get disordered - not really good for society.
On the flip side, men help women build purpose at home. To create a place where they can practice all of their best qualities - tenderness, love, support and caring. Being a mother. The need to save, nurture, what women are good at, can actually be a bad thing when unleashed. Modern liberal politics shows you everything of what that is capable of. Rationality thrown out the door for feelings.
When either sex is left to their own devices, especially outside of that structure, chaos can ensue. Women will bring all of that emotionality outward - Helen Andrews points this out well. Men, when unshackled from greater purpose towards the home, will seek dominance and adventure in a variety of ways that are unproductive at large.
So not only have we spent a couple of decades trying to downplay the very good and natural masculine ideals, creating a culture that directly inhibits men from being men, but elevating women into more outward facing perspectives has thrown all of that emotionality into places it should never be.
Liberal white women are generally just women who have eschewed that purpose, meaning, order - and are letting all of their passions and drives go. No limitations. You can see some of the qualities of what women do, they just have nowhere to direct it meaningfully. And it's just escalated continuously for decades now.
Could see him as Dent, Black Mask or Hush pretty easily.
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It's absolutely insane, buying votes like this undermines the very foundation of a freely voting public. It feels dramatic to say but it's true.
You'd understand why this is possible when you understand that the general Democrat perspective is that all of their held opinions are morally superior, and completely correct with no questions allowed. They are "right," and "good," therefore all ways to get those opinions into law are valid.
Who cares if they have to "import" voters, what they believe is that their opinions are the only "right" and "just" action, therefore, it's worth it.
re: Avengers Doomsday: X Men Teaser
Posted by Freauxzen on 1/6/26 at 11:28 am to dawgfan24348
Leaks are all starting to be true, including the storyline.
It does feel like a classic big multi-year building comic book cross-over, so there's that.
It does feel like a classic big multi-year building comic book cross-over, so there's that.
Without true shared experience, which we dont have anymore, and a blending of large homogenous organized interest groups with odd cultures that often prioritize really bland "tastes," traditional art is suffering pretty heavily.
There's still lots of good music, its just harder to find.
There's still lots of good music, its just harder to find.
I just don't get it.
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What was the biggest mistake of each of Louisiana's 5 biggest cities?
Long term vision.
In general, Louisiana politics do a terrible job at that, always have, always will.
It's somewhat cultural as well. Breeds ideas like NIMBYs, chaotic political swings, and a more friendly welfare culture.
Indoctrination.
Plain and simple.
Plain and simple.
re: Am I stupid?
Posted by Freauxzen on 1/2/26 at 4:27 pm to SlowFlowPro
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It's not about intelligence as much as risk tolerance.
How much tolerance do you have to risk going to jail for several years (up to decades), losing everything, shaming yourself and your family, etc.?
Which is exactly why the whole political sham works. We all value safety and comfort more than right or wrong, which might be an ok gamble. Therefore, we allow ourselves to be taken advantage of, for the political class to run rufshod over law, decency and fairness.
It is what it is. We can all sit here and complain, but without actually taking a risk - it is what it is.
But we all will be joining together to file our taxes before April 15th. Many of us, I assume, aee actual tax payers.
Unfortunately, this is our lot in life. There is no change coming.
Unfortunately, this is our lot in life. There is no change coming.
re: Considering converting to Catholicism in this new year. Any converts here with advice?
Posted by Freauxzen on 12/31/25 at 9:43 pm to _Hurricane_
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Catholics worship Mary
Look, I'll say it. I love my Protestant brothers and sisters. No matter what, they are still Christian. They are still close to me as a Catholic and close to the truth.
But the fact that this is still a belief and an "argument" to this day makes it really difficult to take anything they say seriously.
We have explained this thing ad nauseum, and they still repeat it. Its ridiculous.
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I once thought like an isolationist but then traveled and realized most humans are simply looking for a better life for themselves and their children.
The problem with this is "a better life" means something different to different people. For some cultures that means not working. Some it means having 20 children, for some it means no children, for some it means dependence. And and on and on.
We have, or had, our own view here.
You know what those countries have now? A pretty easy guide to do it, by just copying the American model, rather than sending their people here. How about they just follow the plan? Revolt if they need to? Put the right people into power. Focus on a high trust society, with shared values?
Honestly, once the map was laid, it's pretty easy to follow. If you want to.
But they don't want to. Hence why they don't.
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has an obligation to serve as the bastion of the ideas we were founded on and provide opportunity for anyone willing to work for it.
This is an ideal, yes, but not a human reality. Because people are human.
re: Do Democrats care more about non US citizens than actual US citizens?
Posted by Freauxzen on 12/31/25 at 12:55 pm to RollTide4547
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Democrats care about political power. Nothing else.
This is correct.
Power comes from an extremely dependent class of people who will do anything, and take any amount of money, to vote for them. Immigrants, welfare recipients, students and, classically, unions.
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The ferment is about to explode
It's not going to explode - but do we become Brazil, do all of us start finding shortcuts because there is no better way to remain "decent" and not get taken advantage of?
Sadly, 90% of politicians and political ideology will remain. The general population will by distracted with its sports and Netflix, everyone will pay taxes dutifully, the corruption will continue, we might get a hearing, and they will find new ways to cheat once a few holes are closed up. Rinse. Repeat.
We are a country of comfort at ALL costs. And that often means just putting up with this stuff.
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no comprehension of the enormity of the universe.
There's a reason for this.
re: Bigos (Polish Hunter Stew)
Posted by Freauxzen on 12/30/25 at 1:50 pm to SpotCheckBilly
One of my favorite winter dishes.
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Income tax sucks. Once a man reaches the point at which he is valuable in his industry, he should start a company that he can sell one day and pay capital gains. And in the mean time he can take advantage of R&D tax credits or whatever the applicable scam is for his industry. For my career, I probably paid a blended tax rate - state and federal - of 28%.
Not really available to me, but I'm sure there is a loophole I missed somewhere. With the amount I had to work to do it - I never really had the time to find it.
It was mainly tech startups - so lots of stock, PE, VC acquisitions and options trading hands.
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