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re: Infidelity in a marriage

Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:13 pm to
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
57318 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:13 pm to
Crazy
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41208 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:13 pm to
Everyone is every action they’ve ever taken. It’s just who you are. You can make up for bad decisions or actions but you aren’t wiping the slate. Be better, or don’t, but frick off with forgiveness. Sure as frick don’t forgive yourself.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114233 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:13 pm to


It does seem to be a very hard concept for some people.
Posted by Tornado Alley
Member since Mar 2012
27705 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:14 pm to
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I think this is best solved by not cheating on the spouse.

Call me crazy


Everyone agrees. You can't unring the "my spouse or I are doing the horizontal tango with another" bell. It's over.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
57318 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:15 pm to
I usually don't talk to "crazy" people but the 10 hour distance puts me at ease.









Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
53529 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:15 pm to
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My thoughts are don't cheat in your relationships or marriage. If you get to that point just end it and don't hurt the other person that way.
this. I have never understood why this is such a hard concept for people. They say they stay for the kids. Well if you get caught you lose your kids respect most of the time which is worse than a divorce. I have known people who literally hooked up at the office or had affair partners come to their house. How did you think you would not get caught?
Posted by Errbody
St. Tammany
Member since Feb 2022
154 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:16 pm to
Trust is the foundation of any relationship, doesn't matter if it is a business or a romantic relationship and once it is broken, it is very hard to rebuild. I've experienced a broken marriage that involved infidelity and even though I tried to work it out, it ended up a dumpster fire. Just couldn't rebuild the trust.
Posted by Tornado Alley
Member since Mar 2012
27705 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:16 pm to
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I have known people who literally hooked up at the office or had affair partners come to their house. How did you think you would not get caught?


People are stupid and strange is a powerful motivator.
Posted by Tornado Alley
Member since Mar 2012
27705 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:17 pm to
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Trust is the foundation of any relationship,


I also frequently quote Twister from Rocket Power.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
53310 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:17 pm to
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I have known people who literally hooked up at the office or had affair partners come to their house. How did you think you would not get caught?


Thinking with the wrong head
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114233 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:19 pm to
Then there’s all the lying and sneaking around and stories to try to keep straight.

Just get a divorce if you are even thinking about cheating

All of this “staying together for the kids” crap doesn’t really save them any heartache when they find out a parent was cheating. It can definitely make things worse when they find out, because it does always seem to come out.

Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
58871 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:19 pm to
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I have known people who literally hooked up at the office or had affair partners come to their house. How did you think you would not get caught?

It just seems really cruel to me. You're going to ruin the other person's trust in other people going forward, and at some point this is someone you loved so I just can't fathom doing that to someone. You're obviously not happy if you're having an affair so end it and move on. You're kids will be fine.
Posted by Figgy
CenCal
Member since May 2020
8935 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:21 pm to
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Once that trust is broken, all the superglue in the world couldn't hold the relationship together for me personally.


Same for the Mrs and I. That’s the red line that is never to be crossed. We’ve been together for 20 years and like every couple you have moments where things aren’t great but cheating is GTFO territory.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114233 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:21 pm to
I guess they could always just do it at the office and gain a new husband once that pesky divorce is final
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
16649 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:21 pm to
So she’s saying that her insider trading was also outside the stock market. She’s a sucker for a bull, and once she gets her hands on a wad she wants it to grow.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114233 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:21 pm to
Posted by Nayab
Brandon's shithole
Member since Feb 2024
165 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:24 pm to
Infidelity is about options not mindset
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
53529 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:25 pm to
I am just hoping it wasn't with Snoop. He is married to his high school sweetheart.
Posted by Tiger in the Sticks
Back in the Boot
Member since Jan 2007
1619 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:26 pm to
I could forgive it, but I couldn’t continue in the marriage.
Posted by Huey Lewis
BR
Member since Oct 2013
4927 posts
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:27 pm to
The first time my wife cheats on me would be the last time she cheats on anyone.
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