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Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:13 pm to Tyga Woods
Everyone is every action they’ve ever taken. It’s just who you are. You can make up for bad decisions or actions but you aren’t wiping the slate. Be better, or don’t, but frick off with forgiveness. Sure as frick don’t forgive yourself.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:13 pm to FLBooGoTigs1

It does seem to be a very hard concept for some people.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:14 pm to Aspercel
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I think this is best solved by not cheating on the spouse.
Call me crazy
Everyone agrees. You can't unring the "my spouse or I are doing the horizontal tango with another" bell. It's over.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:15 pm to Aspercel
I usually don't talk to "crazy" people but the 10 hour distance puts me at ease.


Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:15 pm to HoustonChick86
quote:this. I have never understood why this is such a hard concept for people. They say they stay for the kids. Well if you get caught you lose your kids respect most of the time which is worse than a divorce. I have known people who literally hooked up at the office or had affair partners come to their house. How did you think you would not get caught?
My thoughts are don't cheat in your relationships or marriage. If you get to that point just end it and don't hurt the other person that way.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:16 pm to Rex Feral
Trust is the foundation of any relationship, doesn't matter if it is a business or a romantic relationship and once it is broken, it is very hard to rebuild. I've experienced a broken marriage that involved infidelity and even though I tried to work it out, it ended up a dumpster fire. Just couldn't rebuild the trust.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:16 pm to madamsquirrel
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I have known people who literally hooked up at the office or had affair partners come to their house. How did you think you would not get caught?
People are stupid and strange is a powerful motivator.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:17 pm to Errbody
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Trust is the foundation of any relationship,
I also frequently quote Twister from Rocket Power.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:17 pm to madamsquirrel
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I have known people who literally hooked up at the office or had affair partners come to their house. How did you think you would not get caught?
Thinking with the wrong head
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:19 pm to Tornado Alley
Then there’s all the lying and sneaking around and stories to try to keep straight.
Just get a divorce if you are even thinking about cheating
All of this “staying together for the kids” crap doesn’t really save them any heartache when they find out a parent was cheating. It can definitely make things worse when they find out, because it does always seem to come out.

Just get a divorce if you are even thinking about cheating

All of this “staying together for the kids” crap doesn’t really save them any heartache when they find out a parent was cheating. It can definitely make things worse when they find out, because it does always seem to come out.

Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:19 pm to madamsquirrel
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I have known people who literally hooked up at the office or had affair partners come to their house. How did you think you would not get caught?
It just seems really cruel to me. You're going to ruin the other person's trust in other people going forward, and at some point this is someone you loved so I just can't fathom doing that to someone. You're obviously not happy if you're having an affair so end it and move on. You're kids will be fine.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:21 pm to idlewatcher
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Once that trust is broken, all the superglue in the world couldn't hold the relationship together for me personally.
Same for the Mrs and I. That’s the red line that is never to be crossed. We’ve been together for 20 years and like every couple you have moments where things aren’t great but cheating is GTFO territory.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:21 pm to madamsquirrel
I guess they could always just do it at the office and gain a new husband once that pesky divorce is final 

Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:21 pm to Rex Feral
So she’s saying that her insider trading was also outside the stock market. She’s a sucker for a bull, and once she gets her hands on a wad she wants it to grow.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:24 pm to Aspercel
Infidelity is about options not mindset
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:25 pm to LSUtoBOOT
I am just hoping it wasn't with Snoop. He is married to his high school sweetheart.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:26 pm to Rex Feral
I could forgive it, but I couldn’t continue in the marriage.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:27 pm to Rex Feral
The first time my wife cheats on me would be the last time she cheats on anyone.
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