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Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:42 am to
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18371 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:42 am to
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I just don’t understand how people in 2018 still can’t grasp how birth control works.

With all the different options available now...you would think more would get it.



shite happens. All it takes is forgetting to take the pill, condom slippage or breakage, being drunk, whatever. Doesn’t take away the fact that in these scenarios the woman is the beneficiary, regardless of the “consequences” for having sex.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
42860 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:43 am to
quote:

will tell her to quit wasting money and bother her for sex all the time


Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
49603 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:44 am to
Jimmydatiger
LSU Fan
North Endzone
Member since Dec 2011
279 posts
Online


Jimmy believes in quality rather than quantity post.

Posted by FightnBobLafollette
Member since Oct 2017
12204 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:47 am to
This ain’t a divorce. And therefore your stat is irrelevant.

There is no difference when it comes to non marriage relationships.
Posted by LSUTigersVCURams
Member since Jul 2014
21940 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:47 am to
That's terrible man. I'm so sorry.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29454 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:48 am to
A couple words of advice for you younger guys:

1) Never stick your dick in crazy.
2) All women are crazy.












3) You're still here? Ok, fine. If you just have to stick your dick in a woman then for the sake of all that is holy find one who can't have kids.
Posted by eatpie
Kentucky
Member since Aug 2018
1554 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:49 am to
Baw it hurts now but you'll be better off in the long run. You're only responsibility is the kid, and the courts are going to have to help you there. She almost certainly would make your life hell if she's there everyday.

And ASAP get a paternity test. You might be pleasantly surprised at your fortune.
Posted by FightnBobLafollette
Member since Oct 2017
12204 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:52 am to
Beneficiary. Lol
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19118 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:59 am to
Nurse never had a condom break, she’s so perfect

Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18371 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:03 am to
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Nurse never had a condom break, she’s so perfect



Nurse can’t have kids anyways
Posted by Pussykat
South Louisiana
Member since Oct 2016
3889 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:07 am to
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Abortion


Bad call, 1 dead 2 wounded, y’all will regret it. If she doesn’t want the baby you take it, if neither of you want there are thousands who do and will give it a wonderful life.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
19299 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:09 am to
First off, condolences on the death in the family. I've had folks close to me with serious drug problems that have died from their addiction and it is a mix of sorrow and pissed off that they did it to themselves and hurt the folks around them who tried to help.

Now to the gist of your post. Questions I have, and not prone to reading all the replies to see if they have been asked are:

Are you absolutely certain this gal is really pregnant?

Are you absolutely certain this baby is yours if she really is pregnant?

Are you planning on having a DNA test done to prove paternity once the baby is delivered?


There are women out there that do this fake pregnancy thing, disappear out of the guys life and pretend to be pregnant to elicit sympathy from the guy------and as much cash as possible before the jig is up.

If this kid is really yours, then you are on the hook for a couple decades of financial, and hopefully emotional support for the kid even if the woman wants no part of you.

If the kid is not yours, then count your blessings you dodged that bullet and find a more stable person to give your love and devotion to. AND by no means sign anything that offers financial aid to the woman who could be scamming you. It has been proven in courts that once a guy starts the child support process, even if the child is not his, he could be hooked until that child reaches 18.

If you can't make things work with this woman, contact a lawyer to find out just what your legal rights and liabilities are before you do something stupid.
This post was edited on 9/27/18 at 8:11 am
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
19080 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:11 am to
Baby not yours I bet.
Posted by Restomod
Member since Mar 2012
13493 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:12 am to
quote:

I just don’t understand how people in 2018 still can’t grasp how birth control works.

With all the different options available now...you would think more would get it.



Some guys are dumb...

1. They trust the girl
2. Refuse to wear condom
3. Refuse to pull out.
4. Combination of the 3.


OP give it time, things might work out. Definitely get DNA test.
This post was edited on 9/27/18 at 8:14 am
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
19299 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:13 am to
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A couple words of advice for you younger guys: 1) Never stick your dick in crazy. 2) All women are crazy.


Like a older friend of mine told me when I was a young man.


He said, "Son, women are tempermental---------10% temper and 90% mental." Truer words were never spoken.
Posted by ZeekFreak
Member since Jun 2017
602 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:16 am to
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Impossible. She would have never had the time, and the time of pregnancy timing is exactly what we thought it would be.


not being rude bro but if she's all of a sudden someone you didn't know she could be...... good chance she was "some of that person" before you noticed it. Wishing you better days ahead.
Posted by LeroyBrown
South Side Of Chicago
Member since Jul 2017
577 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:22 am to
Mark me down with the "baby is not yours" crew.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18299 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:24 am to
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The woman I love is pregnant with my kid and she immediately did a 180 and all of a sudden no longer wants to be with me.


Women are crazy but pregnant women are psychotic. She will probably come around.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6169 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:29 am to
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This post was edited on 6/14/20 at 9:29 pm
Posted by rld280z
Richmond, VA
Member since Mar 2018
142 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 8:29 am to
Hormones are acting up. Try and work it out with a sit down. Just remember that women have hormone issues throughout their lives, not just during pregnancy. Don't take all of their weirdness personally.
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