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re: I'm 34 been dating a girl 2 years. Family doesn't like her.

Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:28 pm to
Posted by lsufan27
The PJ
Member since Mar 2014
385 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:28 pm to
Friends like her
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9784 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:28 pm to
quote:

Whatever you do, don't marry her, and don't impregnate her.


This. Especially the children part. You can always get a divorce, but once you have Achilles with someone, you are attached to that person for the rest of your life. Proceed with caution.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:29 pm to
You should listen to Nurse. Even though she doesn't have any kids as has only been married for 2 years, she knows a lot about a lot.
Posted by MoreOrLes
Member since Nov 2008
19472 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:30 pm to
Run Don't Walk
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97709 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:30 pm to
Just glad I'm the drunk belligerent idiot in my marriage

I couldn't deal with that
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39054 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:31 pm to
Plus Juan.
Posted by lsut2005
Northshore
Member since Jul 2009
2607 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:31 pm to
Where do y'all live?
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:32 pm to
BLUF - Life has enough drama. Don't look for more.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63191 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:32 pm to
quote:

Just glad I'm the drunk belligerent idiot in my marriage

I couldn't deal with that


Damn if I wasn't just thinking this.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:32 pm to
He is just making it sound like 2 years is such a long time. That he has to make it work because he has invested a whole 2 years of his life in this relationship. In the grand scheme of things...it's just a blip.

Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:34 pm to
you wanna break up with her on the consensus of the Internet?

FYL
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:34 pm to
Hey gb did it because we told him to
Posted by BACONisMEATcandy
Member since Dec 2007
46644 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:35 pm to
I think this is more of a relationship of convenience rather than love of my life but I'm an idealist I guess

ETA: What Yellowfin said too
This post was edited on 10/28/14 at 8:37 pm
Posted by drunkenpunkin
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
7659 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:36 pm to
34 and 28 means both of y'all are fully matured adults (or should be). 2 years with someone you're not quite sure about when you're 24 is not a big deal. Not too many people are sure of those things at that age. But at 34, if you're still not sure and you feel the need to come to a message board for advice, you're not just unsure. You don't love this woman. Better for both of you to cut and run now. Because at 28 she's probably looking forward to settling down and having a family. Dragging it out any longer so you can be sure isn't fair to her or you. End it.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97709 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:37 pm to
I'm lucky mrs fin barely ever drinks but that's cause she's better than this guys skank
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28309 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:38 pm to
It's long enough to know if there's a future.

It's not like he's nineteen.
Posted by ZekeTheTeke
Member since Sep 2014
1241 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:40 pm to
Just saying, I wouldn't be with someone I have any reservations about
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63191 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:41 pm to
I've been saved by the wife being tipsy at certain times, though. She lets a lot more roll off the back when she's had a few.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:42 pm to
Yes that is true. But it is still where they are both young and can easily move on and be happy with someone else.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5142 posts
Posted on 10/28/14 at 8:43 pm to
End it and provide the digits so I can console her.
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