if your son turned into a jackass and abandoned his child

Take care of my grandson

Drop him and take care of my grandchild.

Just because they’re related to you doesn’t mean you have to keep them in your lives.

Take a belt to his arse.

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Cut off all support to the boy and take in the kid and mom.

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Don’t think I could completely cut him off but it would be under the exception that he seeks out whatever helps he needs. Definitely would take in the mom and baby though.

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Cut off all support to the boy and take in the kid and mom

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Probably the problem to begin with supporting adult children. My brother (27) is still spoiled and that's his problem.

Why did he? Drugs, another women, maybe he’s just lost. Any event grandson comes first. Maybe it’s better for the grandson.

Not my son, my wife’s father. We have been married 8 years, and I have never met him. Wife hasn’t seen him in twenty years. His parents, my wife’s grandparents, never had anything to do with her growing up either. It is sad. I think they feel bad now about not being around and are too ashamed to have a relationship

Nothing in my post insinuates my wife’s age

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What would you do?

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At that point it's too late, you already failed at parenting once. Best off to help your daughter in law find a real man to raise your grandkids.

This is tough. If OP made his son a piece of shite, it's hard to believe he'd be a good influence on the grandkid.

You dropped the ball already, man.