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re: If you had a chance to get back with an ex, would you?

Posted on 11/15/16 at 8:16 am to
Posted by SmoothOperator96
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Member since Jan 2016
4137 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 8:16 am to
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No guy is best friends with a woman unless

They're mature enough to understand that it's okay to have women in your life that you're not trying to bone.

I agree
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
38420 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 8:17 am to
Is she still under 23? If so, then yes.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19883 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 8:46 am to
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Is she still under 23? If so, then yes.


Never was under 23 when met her. She was 26, sir. Now she's in her 30s.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133064 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 8:50 am to
Nope. Although a little fling would be fun there is a reason they are an ex.

Better to keep it that way and on good terms.
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
141168 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 8:57 am to
Just take it one day at time. But always keep in mind that nothing lasts forever and hearts can always change.
Posted by bulldog95
North Louisiana
Member since Jan 2011
21172 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 9:02 am to
No no no hell no.

I am very happy with the woman I am with now and I love her. I plan on marring her and that this will be my 2nd and last marriage.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21570 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 9:05 am to
No! There were good reasons to bail and those will reappear quicker than you may think!
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19883 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:02 am to
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the only thing that makes you old is replacing hope with regret.


Truth.

Time, regrets, and guilt. A hell of a combination.
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
31719 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:05 am to
i have one ex that things probably would have worked out with and we would have been happy together. she's still beautiful and seems like a great person.

we just went to different schools and it didn't work out.

in a cruel twist of fate, my wife ended up a friend of my ex's best friend in HS through coincidence. Their mutual friend was getting married and my wife and the ex somehow ended up at the bachelorette party they struck up a friendship. I ran into them at the end and saw them sitting together drinking at a table alone and lost my shite.
Posted by StraightCashHomey21
Aberdeen,NC
Member since Jul 2009
126573 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:07 am to
nah since we are both married with a kid

we almost did get together right before I met my wife though. The ex was going to spend a week with my in Germany.

She fricked up the relationship, bitches be crazy.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19883 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:09 am to
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I ran into them at the end and saw them sitting together drinking at a table alone and lost my shite.


That, sir, has happened before a long time ago... But at the time it wasn't funny
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
31719 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:11 am to
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That, sir, has happened before a long time ago... But at the time it wasn't funny



what was crazy is that my wife didn't know it was my long time GF from HS till i got there.

i was like... so her name is XXX and she went to HS with YYY. how did you not figure this out?
This post was edited on 11/15/16 at 10:12 am
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:12 am to
He would likely jump at the chance so I would give him another chance. We were together almost 2 decades and had a child together. He has never gotten over me, has never married, had a vasectomy so that he would never have another child with any other woman.

He still calls me and tells me that he will never love another woman the way he loves me. I always wonder that if in a decade or so that fate will intervene.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19883 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:12 am to
Ok, so there is one final twist to the story. She told me that over the years she has looked at my FB. I guess it was her way of keeping tabs. Not going to lie, I have also looked at hers every now and then. One fine woman...and still is.

So...she has a son who looks to be nine or so. We haven't discussed that yet, as that's a face to face conversation. However, there are some similarities.

No, she never married. Told me she didn't want to go through that again. However, she did say she has someone she wanted me to meet...
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19883 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:13 am to
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I always wonder that if in a decade or so that fate will intervene.


Kind of stretching it out, eh?
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
18823 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:14 am to
Do you mean a relationship or PIIHB one more time?
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19883 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:14 am to
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what was crazy is that my wife didn't know it was my long time GF from HS till i got there.


No awkwardness?
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19883 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:15 am to
quote:

Do you mean a relationship or PIIHB one more time?


Well, the second has happened, so the other.
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
31719 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:20 am to
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No awkwardness?



a bit. ex and i didn't end "well." she was a stud BB player and had a scholarship to play at our local school. i was headed to A&M and turned down a full ride because she wanted me to stay. then she got another scholarship and said she still didn't want a long distance relationship and left.

i was a dumb HS kid and was kinda beta bitch about the whole thing.

after the initial weirdness it was fine. they danced together at the wedding the next night.
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
18823 posts
Posted on 11/15/16 at 10:20 am to
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Well, the second has happened, so the other.


Oh....well then pass.
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