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re: I think I ruined my marriage
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:36 am to jizzle6609
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:36 am to jizzle6609
I would also suggest that marriage and love in general takes work and is a conscious choice.
When we get married typically we make a bunch of promises on how we are to love the other person, and none of those come with any promises of how they treat us back or circumstances as to whether we uphold them.
Richer or poorer, sickness and health, etc
Not many marriages have two people living this out
When we get married typically we make a bunch of promises on how we are to love the other person, and none of those come with any promises of how they treat us back or circumstances as to whether we uphold them.
Richer or poorer, sickness and health, etc
Not many marriages have two people living this out
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Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:36 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
All y’all posting in a troll thread. Nobody would actually post an L like this right?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:36 am to jizzle6609
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Hypothetically if she did, would it be disrespectful if we looked?
na.....just like if my wife cheated...i wouldnt blame the guy....that is on her.
and to your other post...correct...if your wife isnt your best friend then wtf are you doing? she is the person you spend by far the most time with....like wtf are you doing if she isnt.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:49 am to lsu777
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going to vegas or miami or any random large city as a guys trip where you go to clubs and shite like that.....yes that is weird
This is where these stories go off the rails. Guys trips that involve excess drinking, clubbing, raves, shite like that are where it becomes risky and you have to ask the question "why?". Why do men in healthy marriages need these types of trips? They don't. They seek this because of the lack of sex, lack of relationship, lack of connection to their wife.
Golf guys trips where it's just a bunch of friends having fun? That's fine. You add in strip clubs, private women dancers, etc. you're emotionally cheating at best. If that's the shite you seek out on a guy's trip, maybe you should also seek out a marriage counselor because something is wrong.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:52 am to Oates Mustache
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This is where these stories go off the rails. Guys trips that involve excess drinking, clubbing, raves, shite like that are where it becomes risky and you have to ask the question "why?". Why do men in healthy marriages need these types of trips? They don't. They seek this because of the lack of sex, lack of relationship, lack of connection to their wife.
Golf guys trips where it's just a bunch of friends having fun? That's fine. You add in strip clubs, private women dancers, etc. you're emotionally cheating at best. If that's the shite you seek out on a guy's trip, maybe you should also seek out a marriage counselor because something is wrong.
100% truth.
I do like the golf trips where the guys exclude everything they are doing but the golf. Give me a break. My FIL has been going on "golf trips" with his buddies for a decade and I know what goes on.
Oh, and he and my MIL are divorced now. Go figure huh?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:53 am to STLDawg
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All y’all posting in a troll thread. Nobody would actually post an L like this right?
He originally posted this at like midnight on the "help board". That's a great troll thread if so.
I'm thinking it's real and a drunk night posting.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:53 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
You came to the right place buddy.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:53 am to jizzle6609
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100% truth.
I do like the golf trips where the guys exclude everything they are doing but the golf. Give me a break. My FIL has been going on "golf trips" with his buddies for a decade and I know what goes on.
Oh, and he and my MIL are divorced now. Go figure huh?
agreed. if its truely golf...ok fine...but even a lot of the fishing trips i hear about.....end with crazy shite especially the ones to SA.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:54 am to BrohemAlem11
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I don't think she needed to fly off the handle like she did over it...but he is 90% in the wrong here
Wut? She definitely needed to fly off the handle.
And what is this “90% wrong” stuff? He is having an emotional affair with his ex fiancé…on what planet do you imagine that a person can carry on in a “plutonic relationship” with an ex fiancé??
I’ve always argued on the OT that divorce rates are likely overstated, then I read posts like this and realize that there are people out here jumping head-first into them.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:55 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
A fiance from 34 years ago and you're still checking up on her?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:56 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
quote:probably neither
What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy
But possibly a touch of both
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My current partner of 15 years found some messages and saw me commenting and keeping up with my ex on Facebook
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I called her some real harsh names and told her to grow up
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:58 am to Giantkiller
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A fiance from 34 years ago and you're still checking up on her?
exactly...if he isnt trying to smash...then why the frick does he care?
OP needs way more hobbies if he has time to check up on and chat with a old fiance from 3+ decades ago
like who in the frick thinks that is fun or even gets anything from that unless they are trying to smash on the DL
sad AF
fricking pathetic
Posted on 12/27/24 at 11:01 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Men and women can't be friends. She knows this. The ex-fiancee may make a move some day and you not recognizing that upsets her. You may be faithful and reject the advance from the ex, but not recognizing that and preventing it from happening in the first place is your mistake.
You've been playing with fire and got burned. Own it and let her react how she wants. You being indignant about it only made things worse.
You've been playing with fire and got burned. Own it and let her react how she wants. You being indignant about it only made things worse.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 11:01 am to Giantkiller
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A fiance from 34 years ago and you're still checking up on her?
My chick bad, my chick hood, my chick do things your chick wish she could.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 11:02 am to lsu777
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exactly...if he isnt trying to smash...then why the frick does he care?
OP needs way more hobbies if he has time to check up on and chat with a old fiance from 3+ decades ago
like who in the frick thinks that is fun or even gets anything from that unless they are trying to smash on the DL
sad AF
fricking pathetic
I said it earlier but I think he may have hit the sauce too hard yesterday.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 11:12 am to SECSolomonGrundy
Post of the year candidate.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 11:14 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Dude, you're 100% in the wrong and its pretty unbelievable that you can't see that....assuming this whole post isn't a troll.
Would you not be pissed if you found out your wife was keeping in touch with her exes that were laying the pipe before yall met?
If either ex is in a committed relationship with someone else, there's no good reason to be keeping in touch with an ex-fiancee unless there's kids involved. Whether true or not, it will only create a cloud of suspicion that you're having an affair or that at least one of you still has feelings for the other.
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Every time my ex reaches out my wife is so upset and tells me to go if I feel the need to keep looking in the rear view mirror
Would you not be pissed if you found out your wife was keeping in touch with her exes that were laying the pipe before yall met?
If either ex is in a committed relationship with someone else, there's no good reason to be keeping in touch with an ex-fiancee unless there's kids involved. Whether true or not, it will only create a cloud of suspicion that you're having an affair or that at least one of you still has feelings for the other.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 11:14 am to Naked Bootleg
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2) Pretty much any woman would be upset if her husband stayed close to an ex-fiancé, dumbass
Yeah this isn't like this is him running into her at the grocery store or church and chatting for a few minutes.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 11:15 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 11:22 am to lsu777
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sorry but men cant really be friends with women
Agree with everything else, but this is untrue.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 11:22 am to lsu777
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my question is why the frick as a male are you trying to be just friends with a female?
like wtf do you talk about?
It's like the Shane Gillis quote from his comedy special where he says something like "I don't have female friends...I'm more of 'having a good time' kind of guy...Like what do women even do? Fold shite?"
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