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re: I think I ruined my marriage
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:47 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:47 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Talk to whoever you want.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:48 am to CocomoLSU
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Why do you keep apologizing? And I guess I'm sorry you aren't capable of being friends with females. I'm not sure why you're assuming I'm friends with "random, single females," I'm not going out and meeting singles and befriending them.
But for example one of my friends is literally someone I have known since first grade. She and I are damn near like siblings and have been for decades. I talk to her a few times a year. My wife has met her.
But don't act like other people are incapable of plutonic, adult relationships just because you aren't
i dont consider someone i talk to 3-4 times a year a friend, more an acquaintance. i have those too but i dont consider someone i talk to couples times a year "like a sister"
and yea that is fine but i was speaking of randomly trying to be friends with someone and having conversations witth them regularly
as far as not being capable of being friends with a female....why the frick would i want to be? friends wives...sure......friends of my wives...sure.........females i have known since forever and speak too when i see them....sure.........random female...why the frick would i want to?
in fact I wouldnt want to call any female other than my wife to have random conversations with. fricking weird
my boys....sure. but wtf you calling a female for to talk? I mean if you need to call and ask if your wife would like something or what they think about a gift or a vacation or something...sure
but im not trying to have conversations really with any females...they arent that interesting.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:50 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
You should hide it better.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:51 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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commenting and keeping up with my ex on Facebook
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we are separated. I called her some real harsh names and told her to grow up
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I’ve moved out several times over this as she looks so pathetic
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I refuse to talk to my wife and won’t allow her to speak to me

Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:52 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
1. How old are you that you still use Facebook?
2. If you are old enough to still be using Facebook, you should be smart enough to know you don’t keep up with ex’s unless you have a burner phone.
2. If you are old enough to still be using Facebook, you should be smart enough to know you don’t keep up with ex’s unless you have a burner phone.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:52 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
You’re at minimum 50+ years old. You’re on Facebook (lol fig). And you “move out” when you’re in the wrong
Sounds like your parents raised a little cuck bitch if we’re being honest
Sounds like your parents raised a little cuck bitch if we’re being honest
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:53 am to lsu777
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i dont consider someone i talk to 3-4 times a year a friend, more an acquaintance.
She is literally one of my best friends in life since I was about 5 years old.
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and yea that is fine but i was speaking of randomly trying to be friends with someone and having conversations witth them regularly
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random female...why the frick would i want to?
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but wtf you calling a female for to talk?
You're the one inserting the "you want to meet random single women and have conversations on the reg with them" aspect of this conversation, not me.
You're a weird dude, man.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:54 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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she looks so pathetic when she brings this up and accuses me of not being faithful for sharing things about our kids and our marriage with my ex fiancé.
Please tell me you’re trolling.
If not, when your wife divorces you, takes half your stuff and gets full custody of your children, understand that you deserve every bit of it and never get married again…you simply have no idea how to do this.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:54 am to Sun God
quote:Like a fart. He hasn't posted for nearly 5 years.
Blast from the past
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:57 am to CocomoLSU
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Someone a page or so ago summed it up best when they said the simplest form of this is that he wants to throw away his family so he can talk to an ex. That's pretty sad.
Yep.
For some fantasy pussy that wasn't even as good as he remembers it. There's a reason she is is Ex. But he's probably unhappy or bored with the current wife, things are routine, life is stressful, so his dick starts remembering that one time the ex was a little drunk and let him stick it in her butt in the laundry room bent over the dryer with a comforter knocking the sides out. We can be a slave to our primal urges and we always want that rainbow pussy.
But reality is that pussy comes attached to a person. A flawed, imperfect human.
Just beat off to the laundry room memory. 2 minutes post nut and you'll remember why she's your ex.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:57 am to Jcorye1
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Lol who does this shite? I could hand off my phone at any time to my fiance with zero fear that she would find anything (yes even my TD account). There is literally no communication I would hide from her
This.
Marriage is the joining of two people and souls forever forsaking all else and becoming one. Choose who you marry very carefully and purposefully.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:58 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Let me guess, you have a TikTok account too…
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:59 am to TygerTyger
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2 minutes post nut and you'll remember why she's your ex.
Post nut clarity is always a true gift
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:59 am to Jake88
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Like a fart. He hasn't posted for nearly 5 years.
To be fair, he's been busy virtual cheating on his old lady and treating her like garbage. A man only has so much time in the day...
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:59 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
If your wife was messaging her ex on Facebook, would you be ok with that?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 8:03 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
My wife and I are not friends on FB for that fricking reason. We're in mutual agreement on that.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 8:05 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Have you tried posting this on facebook and tagging both women? Create an environment where all 3 of you can discuss the situation out in the open. That’s the only way this is resolved. Oh and make sure at least one of your friends posts on the OT
Posted on 12/27/24 at 8:12 am to CocomoLSU
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Mature people can be friends with anybody. I have female friends that I talk to here and there, and it's totally fine (and my wife doesn't give a shite). I also text/talk to friends' wives on occasion as well, as I am friends with them too.
The difference is that there's literally nothing shady about it at all, and no reason for anybody involved to be mad/jealous/etc. Because everyone involved trusts their significant others,
Some of you are so stupid with the "men can't be friends with women, and vice versa" bullshite.
I agree 100%. As long as you aren't ignoring your spouse and chatting to other women, it's easy to have female friends. The issue is when you brush your spouse aside so you can talk to others. Any man who loves his wife, and respects his marriage, knows when it is a good time or a bad time to send a message or reply to one.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 8:13 am to lsu777
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lsu777
Just gave out a well-deserved spanking here.
Bravo
Posted on 12/27/24 at 8:15 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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Anyone else have or had a wife get angry when seeing post on Facebook between an old fiancé and yourself? I’m talking really old fiancé from 34-35 years ago. My current partner of 15 years found some messages and saw me commenting and keeping up with my ex on Facebook and it upset her. I tried telling her we are just friends but she is not having it. She literally has withdrawn from me and we are separated. I called her some real harsh names and told her to grow up. Am I wrong for this? Is she just crazy? Every time my ex reaches out my wife is so upset and tells me to go if I feel the need to keep looking in the rear view mirror. I’ve moved out several times over this as she looks so pathetic when she brings this up and accuses me of not being faithful for sharing things about our kids and our marriage with my ex fiancé. We don’t even live close to each other my ex lives in Shreveport. I refuse to talk to my wife and won’t allow her to speak to me because I know the conversation will lead there. My wife says I get defensive when the topic is even brought up but I’m really just tired of hearing it and I don’t like how my wife has become jealous and definitely insecure over this friendship. What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy
You know how we always say I can fix her?
Well you are the her and there isnt much fixing my man.
Not talking to your wife is about the most childish thing I've ever read on this website.
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