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re: I Refused To Help a Sr Manager from Another Department
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:43 am to imjustafatkid
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:43 am to imjustafatkid
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Yep. You nailed it. But no, I am not low level management.
How many people do you manage?
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:43 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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This isn’t what they asked for

Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:44 am to littleavery1948
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Am I being unreasonable?
yes everyone should be looking out for the best interest of the company. if you arent then you have to go.
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:44 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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How many people do you manage?
I have said enough about my work on these forums over the years that I will not be answering questions like this as it will make it too easy to identify where I work. There are only so many cpa firms that specialize in government audits in the world.
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:45 am to Cuz413
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At my location you will end up being "Always.Be.Voluntold" to go help those who can't help themselves.
That's the crux of the issue. I did help them; I just did not help them as much as the CFO wanted. I'm a Gen Y, btw. CFO was my direct boss at one point, FWIW.
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:46 am to GoCrazyAuburn
I’m positive, the OP was premad about possibly being asked in the future. At which point you say something to the effect of “I’ve been helping the last several months and I’ve been a lot more involved than I think was originally intended. It’s eaten into my ability to perform my own job, we need to really think about my exit process from this project”
If it ever even gets to that point
If it ever even gets to that point
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:46 am to GoCrazyAuburn
Are you and the OP dating because you sure as shite try to answer everything for him.
We only hear what he’s telling us and I highly doubt it’s 100% truth,
We only hear what he’s telling us and I highly doubt it’s 100% truth,
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:47 am to littleavery1948
You sound like a douchebag who never should have been promoted into a leadership role. This is a very poor display of leadership qualities.
People like you are the exact reason that companies end up with shitty cultures, miserable employees, and high turnover rates.
Also, when someone who outranks you such as the CFO asks you to do something, you do it. You don’t say no.
Hopefully for you they won’t find decide to find someone else to replace you who will be a better team player.
People like you are the exact reason that companies end up with shitty cultures, miserable employees, and high turnover rates.
Also, when someone who outranks you such as the CFO asks you to do something, you do it. You don’t say no.
Hopefully for you they won’t find decide to find someone else to replace you who will be a better team player.
This post was edited on 6/20/25 at 11:52 am
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:47 am to imjustafatkid
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I have said enough about my work on these forums over the years that I will not be answering questions like this as it will make it too easy to identify where I work.
How many people you manage gives precisely zero input into where you work
So the answer is clearly zero. As expected
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There are only so many cpa firms that specialize in government audits in the world.
Most of which have hundreds or thousands of employees
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:47 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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Say yes when there is something in it for you. Say no if there’s not or you truly don’t have the capacity. Pretty simple concept. This wasn’t a big ask.
gladly take on the work
mention that it will come at a serious strain to your duties (probably complete BS)
Do the task full-assed enough that there is no room for anyone to complain about it
do the task half assed enough that the new manager wont reach out to you again
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:47 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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I’m positive
Yikes.
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:48 am to littleavery1948
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Am I being unreasonable?
If you're asking this question, then the answer is probably, yes.
If you're not, then you'd have no doubt.
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:48 am to littleavery1948
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That's the crux of the issue. I did help them;
How much time have you already sunk into helping?
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:48 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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How many people you manage gives precisely zero input into where you work
Completely incorrect. This shows you know very little about the accounting world.
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Most of which have hundreds or thousands of employees
Well this is just wildly incorrect.
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:49 am to Blutarsky
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Are you and the OP dating because you sure as shite try to answer everything for him.
First time on a messgae board?
You're welcome to answer the question. How does the person learn by someone else doing their job for them?
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:49 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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How much time have you already sunk into helping?
I hope you don’t expect the truth from this question.
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:49 am to imjustafatkid
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Completely incorrect. This shows you know very little about the accounting world.
I’m a higher level at a larger public accounting firm than you work for
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:50 am to littleavery1948
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CFO is very upset that I refused to assist and says that my expectations for this new Sr Manager is unreasonable.
Start working on that resume.
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:50 am to GoCrazyAuburn
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You're welcome to answer the question. How does the person learn by someone else doing their job for them?
You refuse to just do it for them. “I’ll help, I’ve booked the conference room for Wednesday, I’ll work with you through the process”
Are you autistic?
Posted on 6/20/25 at 11:50 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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I’m a higher level at a larger public accounting firm than you work for
You may be at a larger firm. If so, I feel sorry for you. You're definitely not at a higher level.
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