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Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:24 pm to
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
43230 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:24 pm to
Why don't you find what you want to do and apply your law practice to it?

If you like Dollar Ballets, represent dancers in their drug, prostitution, divorce, etc. matters.

If you like boats, join up with a boat builder that wants to start a company. Do the legal work. Build it into a big successful company, then screw him out of his half.

Deal with things you like.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
56786 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:25 pm to
I went to law school and went to work for biglaw and got burned out so I drug up and became a welder


im much happier now
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
33582 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:26 pm to
I have a love-hate relationship with law. In 16+ years of practicing, I have worked in a firm full-time only about 4 years. The flexibility for travel, living in multiple places, working from home, low overhead, high pay per hour, and low administrative burden (the way I do it), are all pluses of my solo practice (with most time spent on one client).

And I enjoy helping people and coming up with creative solutions and resolving conflicts amicably (or putting the screws to assholes and dbags, and frauds). I also enjoy an intellectually challenging brief or agreement, researching, and investigating.

What I hate:
Days seem to be sapped by inane phone calls and emails and dealing with annoying technical (as in technicalities, not IT necessarily) and procedural details.

Dealing with egotistical and defensive clients and a-hole/idiotic/"gunner"lawyers.

The Sisyphian aspect of never really creating anything and just waiting for the next BS matter so you can pay bills (or if you're at a firm, figuring out how to bill enough to please partners).

The general shittiness of both big firms and "bulldog" solo/small practitioners.

The general feeling that--as an ENFP-A personality, I could be doing something much more fitting.

Never really putting it down, which wouldn't be an issue I guess if I really loved it. But it's usually more anxiety and dread than creative obsession.
This post was edited on 1/17/18 at 9:38 pm
Posted by HappyTownTiger
Member since Jan 2012
1577 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:31 pm to
Think of it as a graph where two points meet. Money should be a factor and the work should be the other. My goal was to make the most money without the extremely hard work/hours. Personally, happiness isn’t found at work, but I know I have to meet my financial obligations. I made a job change at 40 that Comes as close to the optimal point on the graph as possible. My stress is low and I have time for friends and family.
I turned down a VP job in Las Vegas at age 39 only 10 seconds after being offered it. It wasn’t worth it to me.
You really do have one shot at this life. To quote Vanilla Sky, “ What’s happiness to you?”
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
82583 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:32 pm to
These threads with these insurance defense and big firm guys tracking their lives in 6 minute increments and coming here moaning and groaning really make me appreciate my SULC degree and PI career.
Posted by El Magnifico
La casa de tu mamá
Member since Jan 2014
7017 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:34 pm to
quote:

I hate what I do.

Join the fricking club
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
33582 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:43 pm to
quote:

6 minute increments


Lord, what a miserable scam that shite is. I do my billing in very broad strokes, with lots of tiered fixed fees. If I enjoyed trial work more and/or were settled in the town where I wanted to live all the time, I'd definitely get more into contingency cases.

But I never bill anything under half an hour, so it's 5 times better than the customary .1s....
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:50 pm to
quote:

became a welder


Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
33582 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:53 pm to
I've seriously considered buying one or two pieces of heavy equipment and just doing grading, clearing and stump grinding. Maybe throwing a snow plow on my truck in winter. Audiobooks and podcasts. Work when I need $. Write, volunteer, house projects, travel, and outdoors w fam in off time.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
32714 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 9:56 pm to
You’re a JD.....make a move to public accounting. It’s so much better!!!!


Not really.
Posted by KingBarkus
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2009
8436 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:02 pm to
quote:

I turned down a VP job in Las Vegas at age 39 only 10 seconds after being offered it.


What was it about that VP job that convinced you to turn it down?
Posted by biscuitsngravy
Tejas, north America
Member since Jan 2011
3471 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:04 pm to
A little worried about slippy. No response past page 1.

Get some help slip, hit the eject button and find your passion whatever it is. Life is more than $'s
Posted by doubleb
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2006
40105 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:04 pm to
Give it up, get another job and do an honest day's work.
Posted by DVA Tailgater
Bunkie
Member since Jan 2011
3270 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:12 pm to
The practice of Law is a cesspool. Use that degree for something else, trust me!
Posted by HappyTownTiger
Member since Jan 2012
1577 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:12 pm to
quote:

hat was it about that VP job that convinced you to turn it down?


I knew that I would have to live my job. My boss was leaving to take over governance and was able to handpick his successor. He thought I was crazy but he got where I was coming from.
Interesting point, he ended up taking a year off and went rock climbing all over the world. He said that it was my words that motivated him.
Didn’t last though. After a year, he jumped back in the rat race. He was made for the high intensity Corp gig.
Posted by YoungManOldMan
Member since Dec 2017
1882 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:20 pm to
quote:

make me appreciate my SULC degree and PI career.


Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
82583 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:29 pm to
Depends on the situation, but I lucked out in catching on with an established firm.

Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
58320 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:31 pm to
Do I upvote or downvote this if I agree?
Posted by thedisciple315
Albany, NY
Member since Sep 2015
279 posts
Posted on 1/17/18 at 10:45 pm to
Level of sympathy depends on salary
Posted by Koach K
Member since Nov 2016
4580 posts
Posted on 1/18/18 at 1:10 am to
Only reason the old farts like sending email at 10pm is because they are overcharging someone for it. Well documented research has shown that you can only make so many good decisions during a given amount of time so the “John Grisham Firm” mentality of “I’m always thinking about your matter” is complete bull.
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